"PeppyNephrine Fri 02-Mar-12 08:55:38
You can't compare a fully grown adult person with a foetus. If you want to compare that properly, imagine your husband is attached to you via wires and tubes dependent on you for every aspect of his survival, taking nutrients from you, and would die if you unplugged him. And no-one asked you if you wanted to be hooked up to him.
Now, you want to divorce him. Should you be forced to stay hooked up to him until such time as he can get by on his own? And have to go through dangerous procedures that could kill you, and a very painful operation to let him go, and then serious emotional and legal upheaval, knowing that he could come back and claim a relationship with you at any time? Or should you be able to unhook yourself and say, no thanks, I don't want to be your life support machine?"
Ok, so let's look at it this way.
Would you argue that a person who has a baby who has started to crawl but can't yet walk, should be responsible for feeding and providing water for the baby and warmth? Or should they be able to decide that they don't want to be their baby's life support and just stop feeding, watering and dressing them? Because that baby WILL DIE if they don't get food, hydration and warmth. Maybe not quite as fast as a newborn, but nonetheless.
So, have the courts got it wrong when they have sent people to prison for neglect?
I mean, after all, if a person shouldn't have to be in a position to support the life of someone more vulnerable than them, that should apply across the board, shouldn't it?
Or, should they, as the law sees it right now, be responsible for alerting other people to the fact that they don't want to give, or can't provide, that support, handing over their care to someone who can and will?
What makes it ok for someone with a baby inside them make a decision to kill it, but someone with a baby outside of them can't? What makes it right that a woman could terminate at 36 weeks but couldn't kill their baby who had just been born at 36 weeks? Is the umbilical cord that significant?