I'm all for offering individuals choice but in this case I'm only suportive providing that all pregnant women are offered proper and appropriate support to make their "informed" decisions.
Quietlyafriad has posted a number of issues above that women may have when it comes to having a VB:
"Fears include (but are not restricted to):
Fear of death - major surgery isn't without risk either
Fear of losing the baby - even cs can't guarantee this 100%
Fear of pain - umm, you're having major surgery, post-op pain is a possibility just as post VB pain is, both can be managed with analgesia
Fear of injury (either to baby or to mother)
Fear of incontinence
Fear of a woman?s body 'not being the same' afterwards - a cs scar will be permanent, and the woman would still have been through a pregnancy
Fear of it affecting sex - the woman will still have carried the baby which will have affected her pelvic floor
Fear of no longer being attractive to a partner - is this due to him having witnessed the lady during labour? Perhaps he would prefer to see your innards then?
Fear of embarrassment and loss of dignity - being on a theatre table being cut open when you're likely to be wide awake, with a catheter post-op when it may nt be necessary isn't even a bit undignified?
Fear of not being listened to by medical staff - will they definitely listen to you during a cs then?
Fear of not being in control - who's in control during a cs? Certainly not the woman
Fear of flashbacks to a previous experience
Fear of being treated poorly by medical staff - still a risk surely? Especiallyt post-op when you're still under the influence of an epidural
Fear of vaginal birth - good counselling and provision of information , along with experienced and supportive midwives may help with this issue
Fear of c-section - see above
Fear of not bonding with their child - can also happen if the child was delivered by cs
Fear of doctors - you're less likely to see a Dr with a VB
I do know that women can have real fear of giving birth, and that this can be for first time Mums and those having subsequent children. I think that all women should be able to access specialist counselling services and that if this isn't successful in helping the woman overcome these fears then cs should certainly be offered as an alternative.
What I don't support is any woman having a cs without proper counselling (even without those fears). Major surgery isn't the easy option that some may see it as, and should only be given to those in medical need after appropriate support has been given.
I do think that if women received more antenatal eduaction then we wouldnt see so many cs atm. If all women knew exactly what choices they had during labour, they may be more confident in their decision making. IME, obstetrics has become so fearful of litigation that they recommend cs at a very early stage in some cases.
If the cs rate rises further, I wonder whether we should start to see more general nurses on the wards to nurse the post-op ladies with things such as their wound management, catheter care etc to avoid tying up the midwives time.
Lots to ponder on this issue.