You are suggesting that because having children is a choice, a sense of entitlement drives the desire for access to safe, appropriate maternity services.
No, I'm not. Safe and appropriate maternity services should of course be available to all. I just don't think that non medically indicated CS's fall into that catergory.
People's desire to have children is pretty basic for those who have this desire, and that is the majority. It is much like the desire for food or liquid or sex.
The desire to have children is not like a desire for food or liquid. Without those things, people die. No one died because they couldn't have a non medically indicated CS. No one died because they couldn't have sex.
I'm not trivialising people's desire to have children, I'm really not. I knwo how powerful that desire can be, and I realise that MH issues can arise from an inability to have children. But a childbirth phobia does not physically prevent someone from having children.
I agree with lots of your post working. And I'm not trying to say that I want to see women suffer just for the sake of it. I'm just saying that imo, there are far far more important things that the NHS, and especially NICE, should be thinking about improving. As I said in my post above, when all the other, more important, shortfalls in the NHS are addressed, I will support women's right to choose their own method of childbirth.