We live in a very expensive area. Our house is rented and when we moved into it was an absolute disgrace. It was filthy, really, really filthy and everything was broken.
I had to gut it, by myself with some help from my mother. I had to lay flooring, decorate, fix things, the kitchen is still disgusting and needs to be replaced but I can't afford to do that.
It was literally the cheapest property I had found in the whole town in 3 years of looking. So we took it, because it was cheap, and immediately people find out our address they say 'Oh, that's not fair, how come you get to live there on housing benefit'.
Had they seen the state of it, they would understand. The workload has been incredible and yes, we have made it nicer. And it's in a nice area.
But people often fail tos ee that the only way you can afford to live somewhere that you aren't woken every single f*cking night by drunk students or fights in your street is to get a total shit hole and do the work yourself. I still feel very fortunate to live here, but there's no way in hell I'd find anything this cheap again, so it would cost much more if we moved somewhere else - even somewhere really awful.
I feel embarrassed every time I tell people where we live, and I don't like to invite them round because of the comments about how unfair it is we live here.