While I agree if it is clearly beyond him, the homework needs to go in with best attempts, and if Boffin wants to help her son understand things, where is the problem. Even with the answers given, they will need understanding to get them onto the paper.
So, Boffin
Your Se has 6 electons floating in the outer ring (often in dot and cross diagrams, you only show the outer ring, but if DS is struggling with the concept, I suggest he draws it all out). If gets complicated now. I sugest he stops!
BUT, 2 are in a s shell, which can only hold 2 electrons. The other 4 are in p shell, whic can hold 6, so isn't full.
In the interests of having full levels as an ideal, and full shells if not, the Se would like to gain 2 electrons, or loose 4.
Cl would like to gain an electron.
So, if you get one Se and 4 Cl together, the electrons can jump about. If you do dots as the Se electrons, and X as the Cl electrons, you can then draw an extra DOT on each Cl to make a full shell, and leave the Se with only 30 electrons.
Confused? Leave it, this is at the complicated end of dot and cross ('cause the levels don't all fill up in the right order either, and the 4th level of electrons fills before some of the third level)