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Conflicted over home schooling

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Bacon1985 · 12/03/2025 11:51

I have a 6 year old DD, a 4 year DD and a 8 month old DD. I have been conflicted over home education for awhile. I am in the UK and feel that the education system pushes formal learning too young. I have recently changed my 4 year old to a outdoor nursery as she had become unhappy in her preschool setting that started to push the formal learning of phonics etc. At my girls ages I just want them to be able to be kids and play.

My 6 year old doesn't seem unhappy at school but she says she doesn't like it and wants to play and do art. Her behaviours is definitely better aswell when she is off school on holidays. I am considering home education or flexi schooling which I would also do with my 4 year old as I don't think she is ready to go to school yet.

However, I have concerns about whether this is the right thing for the family. The main concern is finances as I need go back to work and don't know if practically we could afford home education. My other concern is having the kids at home all the time, we don't really have family support and I don't know if I will struggle with adapting to them being at home all the time too especially with the different needs of the ages.

My gut tells me it would be better to home educate or flexi school. But practically I don't know how this would work for the family.

Any advice or information from people who may be in the same position would be great, thankyou.

OP posts:
Applewisp · 15/01/2026 23:32

British schools are abusive. Never in a million years would I send my children to them.

MrsFaustus · 16/01/2026 10:05

Sorry, only just seen that this thread is still active. Re my earlier comment on children being less pressured in the holidays which was picked up by another poster to support the issue re schools, I really meant the pressure to get up and out in the morning and to be certain places at certain times. I really don’t understand the description of U.K. schools as abusive. Yes, inevitably they have to cater for the majority of children and it’s hard to accommodate very differing needs but ‘abusive’?

1AngelicFruitCake · 17/01/2026 07:15

Applewisp · 15/01/2026 23:32

British schools are abusive. Never in a million years would I send my children to them.

In what way?

lowboneslife · 17/01/2026 07:27

I have friends who home ed and it’s expensive. It costs money to take them to all the activities and classes and groups they go to.

Parker231 · 17/01/2026 07:33

Bacon1985 · 23/03/2025 20:51

@Dontfightnature Thankyou for your comment and advice. In my gut I think it's the right thing to do but it seems like a very scary decision and like I said practically I don't know how we will work it exactly. I am going to give it some more thought and hope I can feel comfortable with a decision.

How will you home school if you and your DH are at work?

ThisLuckyOpalShaker · 17/01/2026 07:57

Applewisp · 15/01/2026 23:32

British schools are abusive. Never in a million years would I send my children to them.

😂😂😂😂 omg over reaction much

grey12 · 14/03/2026 20:14

@MrsFaustus I wouldn't talk so broadly. Your GC are doing well at school and that is great!! I'm super happy for them ❤️

But there are issues with the British curriculum that we can't just completely ignore. Some kids will not do well.... they will just be ignored and dragged year after year after their more capable peers..... this is what happened to my oldest 😢 and the biggest reason we moved to home schooling. I was well against homeschooling btw!!! But seeing her struggle...... and the teachers not being able to help her!

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