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Not really familiar with it, but what makes parents WANT to home ed?

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MummyPenguin · 17/01/2007 23:33

I couldn't do without my kids being at school. I'd go insane if they were at home all the time. What drives parents to home educate? Do home ed children fare as well as those in school? Do you have to be pretty clever yourself? (That's me out then.) Or do you get the same resources for learning as schools do? Do you follow term times and school hols?

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Julienoshoes · 26/01/2007 13:47

The answer is generally the same as it would be for a parent who removes the child from the state system and puts them into a public school. Funding is available for children in the state system of schooling.

Whilst many home educators whose children have been deregistered from school, often start off thinking they would like to have funding from the LEA, many of us quickly realise that, if we received funding then the LEA/Government/public would expect to be able to judge whether they are getting value for money.

"He who pays the piper, calls the tune"

This would then mean that the home educator has to educate in a way that the LEA/Government/public would recognise and approve of. No way am I going to allow anyone to dictate how we educate our children, when every way that has been offered them through the state system has failed them so badly.
I would have liked free access to qualifications for my children when they were under 16 but I didn't want ANY money from anyone for anything. We want to be able to be able to educate our children in a way that is suitable to each of them individually. We follow a completely child led, 'autonomous' educational style, where there is very, very little formal work-and only then if the children have requested it. The children have never been seen by the LEA since the day they left school and they have never wanted to show any work to the LEA. We send in our 'educational philosophy' and a written report.
After five years of autonomous home education the older two are at FE college and have already done better in their AS levels than their schools ever suggested they could. They have settled in well socially and we have had excellent reports from their lecturers about how well they are doing.
I can't imagine the way we educated them would ever meet with approval from a LEA providing funds.

Many home educators are suffering severe hardship in order to free their children of the state system. It usually means at least the loss of one salary although there are some opportunities for part time work-I work from home for a DSA, selling clothes to ladies. TBH I would have gone to almost any lengths to free my children from the system which was failing them so badly.

Saturn74 · 26/01/2007 17:08

FMV.
I do know of families who have sued their LEAs due to a lack of appropriate support for dyslexic children in state schools, but the outcome was that the LEA then paid for their children to attend private boarding schools, which is not what we wanted for our children.

filthymindedvixen · 26/01/2007 17:25

Julienoshoes - thanks, some points I hadn't thought of. I have nothing but resect for those who HE.

filthymindedvixen · 26/01/2007 17:25

respect even

teachersmummy · 29/01/2007 08:56

The only person I know was thinking of it was because no school (state or private) was good enough for her precious little DC's. Not sure how long it lasted though preferred not to keep in touch.

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