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Is home education for us? Or are there any schools out there that would suit us?

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FiveLittlePeas · 19/12/2014 10:35

Let me tell you a bit about us:
We live in Spain, but my DH is British, so we are planning to relocate to England in the mid-term (about 1,5 years from now). My kids go to what we feel is a great school (state): very little homework, no books, working on projecs and also there are several open workshops -art, language, maths, science, gym, etc. all presented through games, etc. - every afternoon and they can choose freely where to go, although at the end of the month they are expected to have visited every workshop at least once. They get marks only at the end of the year every two years (meanwhile, they get detailed reports every term) and they are marked mostly regarding their individual progress towards the objective standard the State sets.
WARNING: NOT EVERY SCHOOL IN SPAIN or even in Barcelona IS LIKE THIS, but we were lucky to get this particular one just round the corner. My kids are very happy, they never miss school and they love every minute, their teachers and classmates. My DD1 is very bright and excels in most things; my DS is bright in his own particular way, he's a late developer and he does not yet read or write but he is working steadily towards it, while learning all that there is to know about reptiles and dinosaurs. He's also a born artist.

The downside? The whole thing is done 90% in Catalan language (Barcelona city), which is not a language we speak as a family (my language is Spanish, DH's English -obviously- and the kids are trilingual, with Catalan by far the weakest). My DD1 is 10 so she'll finish primary next year, DS is 7, he's in 2nd grade here, and the little one will only begin next year at 3 y of age (kindergarden, just playing until they're 6, but in the same school).
So, after all this, when we think about moving to Britain and look at schools... we (mostly I) are terrified by the system: all those tests, all the homework, uniforms (least of all, but they have never worn one!), catchment areas, teachers called Mrs X or Mr Y (they call their teachers by their first name), more tests, GCSE, A levels...aaaarrrgggghhhh it is really that terrifying or it is just more or less the same with a different "look"?

Does anyone know of a school like the one I've described above? Remotely like it? (state, I mean, we are by no means well off).
I've been looking for a while but I have not found anything, so I have thought "wait a minute! You can home educate in UK!!" And everything began looking nicer. Would that be the solution for us or should I keep looking for a school like ours in England? (Pref. Herts or Cambs).

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Saracen · 20/12/2014 19:03

BlushSmile aw thanks guys! I'm glad you find it helpful. Think I'm a bit of a home ed bore at times.

Person in Supermarket Queue: I can't seem to find school socks which last. They lose their shape so quickly.
Saracen: WHY DON'T YOU HOME EDUCATE?! IT WILL SOLVE THIS AND ALL OTHER PROBLEMS. LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT IT.

Agree with ommmward that discussions with relatives are easier once you are already home educating. If you say, "We've decided to home educate next year" then they hear, "Please talk some sense into me. You have just one year in which to do it. Act now, before your beloved nieces and nephews are destroyed forever."

ommmward · 20/12/2014 20:26

Saracen, your supermarket conversation just made me hoot with laughter. And recognition. :)

saintlyjimjams · 21/12/2014 05:07

Plymouth school of creative arts - a new free school. It would rather limit where you live though! But it's a state school, with teachers called by first names & a different non regimented approach to learning. They have a facebook page which gives a flavour of their style. People who have kids there seem largely happy with it.

DragonRojo · 21/12/2014 13:49

search dolphinschool.com. They are private but are similar to what you are describing

FiveLittlePeas · 22/12/2014 05:56

The Dolphin school looks nice, but the fees are Shock 3000 to 4000+ per term!! (how long is that? three months??) That is more than we pay per year to rent our flat!! (considering we have 3 kids, I mean), three times a year (?).
The Plymouth school looks very interesting... Not the area we'd chose to relocate (away from family), but still... I mentioned it to DH and we may give it some thought.

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CatCushion · 22/12/2014 06:21

What are the areas you could locate to (roughly)?

FiveLittlePeas · 22/12/2014 06:57

Hertforshire, Cambridgeshire, Bedfordshire... preferably not far from a train station!

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CatCushion · 22/12/2014 08:00

You could look up Montissori schools. There are a number of primary schools in that region, but I am not sure whether there is a secondary (12-16/18 age) Montissori there.

saintlyjimjams · 22/12/2014 09:00

If you did decide to go for PCA (& plymouth is a long way from Cambridgeshire!!) be warned it is getting more popular, so if you were relocating specifically for it, you might want to live close by (it selects by distance in the main). Last year they took kids from miles away but I think that will change probably especially in primary years (as there's a larger population at that age group)

BikeRunSki · 22/12/2014 09:15

A lot of alternative schools in Devon!

Growing up in London, we used to hear things about King Alfred's (n London, Camden) being a bit like this. No real idea on how alternative other than no uniform (in 1980s) and calling teacher by first names, or indeed of fees. Worth a Google though.

UniS · 22/12/2014 10:12

Lots of alternative people in Devon!

BikeRunSki · 22/12/2014 14:11
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iKnackered · 04/01/2015 08:43

St Christopher's in letchworth, Hertfordshire is a small, slightly alternative school...private though.
Dolphin has high fees but everything is included including all the trips, field trips and residentials...but 4k a term is a lot!

FiveLittlePeas · 04/01/2015 11:14

Alternative schooling at 12k per year is not an alternative for many people, I'm afraid. We cannot afford that for one, nevermind three kids. All info welcome and checked carefully, though!

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FiveLittlePeas · 04/01/2015 11:29

At our current school, everything, from pencils to school trips (day trips) are included in the 200 euros/year/child we pay. There is one longer trip (two nights, three days) that is an extra 120 euros per child, this happens every two years.
Anyone who cannot afford this just needs to speak to the school and some alternative will be found.
I doubt homeschooling would be as expensive as the private schools mentioned above (although I'm sure it can be if you want/can afford it, of course!).

BTW, there were no arguments with BiL during the festive season.

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