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Is HE on the rise in the UK?

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GumballCharm · 06/10/2011 11:31

It seems like it! I sense a shift in attitudes....people are more open.

I have always been open to it and may HE for 2 years in a year or so when we travel abroad...I am interested by people's changing attitude to HE...has anyone else noticed a rise?

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julienoshoes · 08/10/2011 14:24

"LEAa are helpful if you don't treat them as the enemy! Unfortunately many people won't even cooperate enough to be on a list. They won't even talk to the LEA!"

exoticfruits that would be because not all LAs are helpful-some are downright bullies! I have been supporting one family for four years, where the LA have been bullying, harrassing, isolating, and making up accusations, which led to the child being put on the CP register-and they did not desist from doing so in the face of evidence from SW's, tutors, myself and even from their own bosses, who admitted that the mother was meeting all of her responsibilities.
The only thing that has stopped them-on the edge of a court appearance, is the evidence of an expert witness, exposing all of their lies!!

Not all LAs are like this thank goodness-our own LA have been fine, but I would not have contacted them and gone any list, if we had not been known, because I cannot think of one single thing that I would get from them, that I couldn't get quicker, and better from the HE community!
Why on earth would I want to invite the hassle of a LA into my children's lives??

Saracen · 08/10/2011 15:04

Bertie, the idea you describe appeals to many parents. For some, it is somewhat successful and better than just school. But there are two big problems with it as it compares to full-time home education.

First, being made to do things at school seems to put many, perhaps even most, children off the whole idea. All day they are receiving unspoken messages at school, messages like these: "Learning isn't fun. If it were, you wouldn't have to be forced to do it." "Learning is too difficult for you to do without help from a trained teacher. You can't discover useful things for yourself." "You aren't competent to decide for yourself which subjects to study and how to do it." "Swots are uncool." It has a big impact. Many quite bright and curious children refuse to do anything at home that remotely resembles academics. They'll happily demonstrate their competence by learning everything there is to know about a video game or fashion, but if it's a subject which their teachers or parents want them to learn, they won't touch it with a bargepole.

Second, school just takes up too much time to allow children to follow their interests properly. On top of the 9-3, there is going to and from school, getting ready for school, and homework. If you love a subject, you want to immerse yourself in it, rather than being yanked away after an hour because you are supposed to be doing something else. An adult could be a leading mathematician in her spare time while also working a 40 hour week in a factory. But it doesn't happen very often.

Where does that leave you? If you don't believe in the value of school-based education then it is just the free childcare that you are wanting from the school system. If the price of that "free" childcare is higher than you want to pay, there are other childcare options if you are working or studying. They are pretty much all the same options you had when your children were preschool-aged, before the free childcare (school) was on offer. Home educating parents who work or study use a whole range of solutions to the childcare challenge.

exoticfruits · 08/10/2011 16:19

Sorry-I will change it to some. Obviously I don't know what they are all like. I do know one that is very friendly and helpful and they are still treated as the 'enemy'.

julienoshoes · 08/10/2011 21:32

As I said in our LA, the Home Ed Liason Officer is a nice lady, and for those who want to have home visits seems friendly and helpful.

I don't treat her as the enemy-I'm one of a group of local HEers who meet with with the LA and try and improve the dire written policy (the bosses are sadly not as friendly and helpful to say the least) but I still wouldn't have engaged with them at all, if I wasn't known already.

Why on earth would I want to engage with them? They don't have anything at all to offer me. My children would have been made most anxious by a home visit (they were very badly damaged by school) The children did not want to have a home visit, they did not want to meet with anyone from the LA at all and they most certainly did not want to share any of their work with them.

I don't understand why anyone would think I should 'cooperate' any more than I have to in law?

exoticfruits · 08/10/2011 21:54

I was answering the OP-there is no way of telling the numbers when people don't get counted-for one reason or another.

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herecomesthsun · 09/10/2011 17:22

Is HE on the rise in the UK?

Satanism? Voldemort? ohhh, home education...

GumballCharm · 09/10/2011 20:21
Hmm

Just a question herecomes Not a judgement. As I said in my OP, I have thought of it myself.....and am always interested in it....sorry I've not been back to thread people....but I have been reading your input and gleaning info!

Grin Betel that sounds amazingly satisfactory! Oxford!

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