My health visitor rang out of the blue a few months ago asking which school my eldest child is going to. I told her that I didn't want him to start school until aged 5 years at least, another year away, and that I may home-school. She then said to let her know if I was home-schooling so she could arrange for the 'home school nurse' to deal with checks that would normally be carried out by the school nurse. Does anyone else submit to this!? I remember getting thoroughly fed up with the health visitor when my children were newborn and feeling that I and they had to perform, get the house perfect, etc. Will I ring 'alarm bells' if I avoid them/tell them I don't need these checks and that im a responsible mother who can look after my own children thank you!