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Embarrassing travel culture shocks

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WildBalonz · 24/06/2025 12:15

Since it’s summer and holiday season I thought it might be fun to share some silly or funny or embarrassing cultural shocks we’ve all had when travelling!

I’ll start with an incident that is both funny and embarrassing depending how you look at it. A few years ago me, my brother, his wife and her brother (my brother and sister in law) went on a trip all through China. We were on a tour bus traveling through some rural areas outside Guangzhou. We had a pit stop to stretch our legs and use the toilet etc and our driver proudly told us that the public loos we had stopped at had western toilets which were very uncommon in these areas. Great we all thought, however what he didn’t mention is that instead of individual cubicals they had very small almost like shower screens separating each toilet. Not much privacy at all! It made for a very embarrassing poo for me my sister in law and two other ladies on our tour 😂. I laugh at it now but at the time it was probably the most awkward and embarrassing experience our lives. Luckily she’s a good sport and we joke about it these days!

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Sweetpea1532 · 03/07/2025 20:48

Another China one, but not about toilets.
My daughter was teaching English in China so I went to visit her from the US. First thing I did after I was shown my bedroom was to hop up on the bed, as you do, to check out the mattress...boy, was I shocked when I landed with a thud ...thick, soft Western style mattresses are not a thing in China. I pulled up the duvet and discovered an inch thick, fabric covered piece of plywood. I have to say, the thought of having a lie in never entered my mind whilst i was visiting.

krne · 03/07/2025 21:20

Loving reading all of these!
We were in China (an island to the South) and not much English spoken at all. We went to a bar/club and was trying to ask for a toilet and were not understood. My husband then tried to act out having a pee (even including noises 😂)... The women nodded as if she understood, walked to a table and told two customers to leave, lit a candle then gestured for us to sit. Still no idea what that was about and still never found the toilet 😂

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 03/07/2025 22:32

LadyAsnowt · 24/06/2025 15:54

Visiting Lagos around 35 years ago and seeing a couple of dead bodies by the side of the highway where they had been knocked down and left.

Christ.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 03/07/2025 22:35

ReproachfulOwl · 03/07/2025 18:12

😀

Americans never believe I can’t drive, and that I’ve travelled around the US on Greyhound buses without being murdered.

Mind you, I was once crossing the Jersey Turnpike (not jaywalking) and a guy rolled down his window at shouted ‘WALK, WHITE TRASH!’ at me.

dustin hoffman john voight GIF by Coolidge Corner Theatre

I’m walkin’ here!

Amperoblue · 03/07/2025 23:01

I much prefer the really rustic outdoor loos. There's usually only one, so no worrying about what the next door booth can hear. No smell, very little to get messy (unless it's a weird chemical one) and everything just disappears.

No privacy and the runs is my worst nightmare. I absolutely hate "proper" public loos as people are disgusting

Kucinghitam · 04/07/2025 10:56

Augarden · 03/07/2025 18:07

Sounds like I'm really going to have to learn how to use a squat toilet if I'm going to explore the world! I just don't really understand, do you have to actually remove your knickers? Pee doesn't go straight down it goes kinda forward so how do you do it right?

Thankfully my next holiday is Japan, think I can manage with their loos!

Pants down to your knees. Shorts same. When squatting, your knees are the highest part of your legs, that's why they're a good place to gather up your clothing. If you're wearing a skirt, hoick it up around your waist. As PP said, best if you're not wearing long trousers. Feet/knees as far apart as manageable; this directs the um stream away from your body.

I have to say, I imagine that squat toilets are a whole lot more difficult for those who cannot do a full Asian squat because tense hovering muscles and an asymmetric stance could potentially create a disastrous Coandă effect. Possibly why Western travellers are so horrified by them.

alexdgr8 · 04/07/2025 11:45

I wish there was a separate thread for totally non toilet related stories.
Some of us don't want to hear anything about it.
Seems I'm in the minority as they seem to be the majority on here.
I've skipped over most.

TeaAndCakeNow · 04/07/2025 12:02

I’m from a country that used to have squat toilets everywhere including at school (but normal sitting down toilets in homes), up until the 00s. When coming to the UK was perplexed by seeing “home” toilets in public and wondered what I was meant to do - put my bum down where countless strangers have sat down too? It seemed so unhygienic. Squatting public toilets actually make a lot more sense in public and are easier to clean too.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 04/07/2025 12:32

@alexdgr8 - you could start a new thread asking for non-toilet-related travel shock stories, and link to it here.

Ginmonkeyagain · 04/07/2025 13:08

For a non toilet story. Not really a culture shock as we have been coming to this part for France for years, but the French enthusiasm for day drinking never fails to amuse me.

We were sat at a workers bar in the market hall at 8am this mornining, having a a small breakfast of coffee and a pastry. A guy in municipal hi-vis came in, ordered an espresso and a glass of white wine then proceeded to drink both while reading the paper.

Topseyt123 · 04/07/2025 13:14

onehorserace · 03/07/2025 17:13

It's in Miami sshhh 😂 I might not be let back in .

Does that mean you shat on his Mar a Lago estate? 🤣 Please say yes! 🤣 It's somewhere in that direction, isn't it??

PrettyDamnCosmic · 04/07/2025 13:34

Ginmonkeyagain · 04/07/2025 13:08

For a non toilet story. Not really a culture shock as we have been coming to this part for France for years, but the French enthusiasm for day drinking never fails to amuse me.

We were sat at a workers bar in the market hall at 8am this mornining, having a a small breakfast of coffee and a pastry. A guy in municipal hi-vis came in, ordered an espresso and a glass of white wine then proceeded to drink both while reading the paper.

About 30 years ago at a Metro station in Paris there was a small cafe on the platform. At 08:00 there were 3 guys in hi-vis enjoying a coffee & cognac before work.

crackofdoom · 04/07/2025 13:41

Ginmonkeyagain · 04/07/2025 13:08

For a non toilet story. Not really a culture shock as we have been coming to this part for France for years, but the French enthusiasm for day drinking never fails to amuse me.

We were sat at a workers bar in the market hall at 8am this mornining, having a a small breakfast of coffee and a pastry. A guy in municipal hi-vis came in, ordered an espresso and a glass of white wine then proceeded to drink both while reading the paper.

I used to live in Venice. At around 11.00am every day all the workmen would stop for an "ombra "- a glass of white wine- before going back to climbing scaffolding and operating heavy machinery 😆

The other option is to start the day with a "cafe corretto"- a coffee "corrected" with a shot of grappa or another spirit.

Or hell, why not both?!

countrygirl99 · 04/07/2025 14:25

About 25 years ago we were driving through northern France and stopped at a transport cafe type place for lunch. There was a set price 3 course meal which included a half litre of wine each.

onehorserace · 04/07/2025 14:51

One awful introduction to Caribbean life was my landlord killing a squealing pig in his backyard - no stunning - and the sight of his wife on the wall in front forcing a knife into the undershell of a flailing turtle.

Amperoblue · 04/07/2025 17:48

France and smoking is a culture shock.

On the fast train from Nice to Toulon. Everyone got off at the one and only stop ( including the guard) , lit up, smoked the cigarette and then got back on when the guard finished his.
This was only two years ago so not in the smoking glory years

JennyShaw · 05/07/2025 11:01

Augarden · 03/07/2025 18:07

Sounds like I'm really going to have to learn how to use a squat toilet if I'm going to explore the world! I just don't really understand, do you have to actually remove your knickers? Pee doesn't go straight down it goes kinda forward so how do you do it right?

Thankfully my next holiday is Japan, think I can manage with their loos!

If you can work out male and female. Although many of them will be unisex I expect. 男 means male and 女 means female, although toilets often have a blue sign for men, red or pink for women.

sashh · 06/07/2025 05:08

Augarden · 03/07/2025 18:07

Sounds like I'm really going to have to learn how to use a squat toilet if I'm going to explore the world! I just don't really understand, do you have to actually remove your knickers? Pee doesn't go straight down it goes kinda forward so how do you do it right?

Thankfully my next holiday is Japan, think I can manage with their loos!

The French squat toilets usually have two 'foot prints'. Face the wall / pipework to pee and the other way round for a poo.

You might want to invest in a she pee.

I struggle now with arthritis but being able to use a squat toilet can be an advantage in places that have both types of toilet, there is often a queue for the 'western' toilets.

My carer has had several trips to Japan. He has had the opposite problem of there being too much tech in the loos.

Which button does what? Is this for the heated seat? Is this to turn the music up / down?

Lincslady53 · 06/07/2025 06:56

Only a minor surprise rather than a culture shock.
Visiting Cork, Ireland, from the UK last year. In the city centre, crossing a light controlled pedestrian crossing. Not a vehicle in sight but everyone waiting for the green man to come on before crossing the road.
Still in Cork, loved the bars, thought we would go to the local Wetherspoons as it was the nearest bar to a restaurant. V busy, not surprising as Murphys was €2 less than any other bar. Instead of the usual melee at the bar, there was a neat and orderly queue snaking across the seating area as people waited to get served.
Due to its past, Cork is known as Rebel City. I fear the spirit of rebellion has diminished somewhat

Civiltwilight · 06/07/2025 09:50

People jaywalk all the time in Cork although some roads are wide and typically busy so people are more careful in those cases.

Or you may have been waiting with other tourists.

ReproachfulOwl · 06/07/2025 10:47

Lincslady53 · 06/07/2025 06:56

Only a minor surprise rather than a culture shock.
Visiting Cork, Ireland, from the UK last year. In the city centre, crossing a light controlled pedestrian crossing. Not a vehicle in sight but everyone waiting for the green man to come on before crossing the road.
Still in Cork, loved the bars, thought we would go to the local Wetherspoons as it was the nearest bar to a restaurant. V busy, not surprising as Murphys was €2 less than any other bar. Instead of the usual melee at the bar, there was a neat and orderly queue snaking across the seating area as people waited to get served.
Due to its past, Cork is known as Rebel City. I fear the spirit of rebellion has diminished somewhat

The non-jaywalkers were almost certainly fellow-tourists. No one waits for the green man if there’s no traffic, ever, unless they’re trying to model road safety for their small children, and even then they’re likely to cross on the red saying ‘Don’t do this when you’re by yourself!’

And that Wetherspoons, now closed (I think), was generally thought of locally as a public service, for siphoning off the roughest clientele other city centre pubs didn’t want! I’ve never had a drink there but more than once, walking past during the daytime, I’ve had to dodge around people fighting on the ground outside. The security guards from Paul Street shopping centre used to sick of it. It gets addicts shooting up in the loos, too, I imagine, as the Boots that dispenses methadone is nearby. Cork has a growing heroin problem.

Maybe your local Spoons in the UK is even rougher?😀

Or again, you saw tourists.

If you’re in Cork again, try the Long Valley, Maureen’s, Dennehy’s, Sin É, or Fionnbarra’s.

I mean, I think you’ve spun a narrative out of two things you misinterpreted as ‘normal for this place’.

Which of course is potentially the case for lots of culture shock stories.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 06/07/2025 11:15

About 30 years ago some American colleagues of mine were berated by an elderly lady when they crossed a street in Vienna with no vehicles in sight. Their sin was to cross while the lights on the pedestrian crossing were still red. "What sort of example is that for the children?" she cried in accented English.

Cattenberg · 06/07/2025 18:23

PrettyDamnCosmic · 06/07/2025 11:15

About 30 years ago some American colleagues of mine were berated by an elderly lady when they crossed a street in Vienna with no vehicles in sight. Their sin was to cross while the lights on the pedestrian crossing were still red. "What sort of example is that for the children?" she cried in accented English.

Yes, I knew someone who was scolded in Germany for doing the same thing. A woman called out "slechtes beispiel!" at him.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 06/07/2025 19:31

We were shouted at by some German tourists for "jay walking".

This was in London. We are Londoners, & gave then a 2-fingered salute.

dynamiccactus · 06/07/2025 19:40

Yes, I've been told off in Hamburg for crossing a completely empty road at 8am on a Saturday morning on a red light!

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