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Thrills and spills of studying in London

429 replies

stoneysongs · 18/08/2024 12:47

A thread for supporters of DC heading to London unis - was originally going to be UCL which seems very popular this year, but expanded at @Needmoresleep's excellent suggestion.

For chats about moving in, what to take, living in London, whether an Oyster card is worth bothering with, how to do a big shop, where to park at drop off, the dreaded search for 2nd year accommodation etc etc etc

Tagging people I've spotted from the ex Oxbridge thread but all welcome including those with DC currently in London who can share their wisdom and anyone thinking of it for 2025 or beyond Smile

@catmomof3
@lifeturnsonadime
@PotentialUCLmum
@CoffeeMugShot
@space99
@FebruarySmith
@mynameisnotmichaelcaine
@Summertimer

By way of intro I have a DD going to UCL to study BASc Arts and Sciences.

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stoneysongs · 22/08/2024 16:48

HarpQuartet · 22/08/2024 16:10

Anyone else whose child is going to UCL but not heard anything about accommodation yet? She says she is expecting to hear on 27 August. Nothing in her junk email.

Hmm, no, DD applied for UCL halls before the deadline in May/June and got her offer of accommodation soon after. Did your DC apply through clearing?

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HarpQuartet · 22/08/2024 16:50

No, first choice.

stoneysongs · 22/08/2024 16:52

HarpQuartet · 22/08/2024 16:50

No, first choice.

I've just checked and DD got her accommodation offer on 12 June and accepted / paid a deposit within a few days. I think I'd chase them up if i were you - did she apply for accommodation before the deadline?

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HarpQuartet · 22/08/2024 16:55

Thanks for the information - she's adamant she hasn't had an email and won't chase them. Yes, she had to rank her accommodation preferences ages ago.

CoffeeMugShot · 22/08/2024 17:00

Echoing stoneysongs - DD heard fairly quickly after submitting application/preferences and has had some follow ups after results day last week. Would definitely think a chase is worthwhile (tricky though if DC doesn't want to)

HarpQuartet · 22/08/2024 17:06

Yes, it's a bit frustrating! She says UCL are going to email her on 27 August about it, so I just have to hold my nerve.

mrssquidink · 22/08/2024 17:27

My DS is about to start his second year at UCL so also happy to answer any questions.

From memory (and the variable amount of information I was given 😂) he signed up to a lot of freshers week events before starting. He did get a place in halls but he didn’t find out where until the end of August. I wonder if it’s because he wasn’t guaranteed a place as we live in London so had to wait until UCL knew how many rooms they had left once they’d allocated to out of London students. He moved in on the Saturday immediately before freshers week, and that’s when pretty much everybody moved in. There was some on street parking outside so we unpacked everything quickly and then went and parked the car in a car park and came back to help him settle.

If you’re driving in, don’t forget you’ll need to pay the congestion charge if you’re there after 12 noon and also ULEZ if it applies.

Interestingly my son never bothered with the student Oyster card as he mostly walks or uses one of those hire books.

He didn’t sort his second year accommodation until June although I’m not sure I’d recommend it, for my nerves if nothing else. They have to move quickly though, he and his soon-to-be flatmates lost out on a few as they couldn’t get the paperwork sorted quickly enough.

babyzoomer · 22/08/2024 18:01

For the UCL accommodation, I think they have a batch they hold back until after A levels results day, then allocate according to how many get in, because UCL will be many people's firm choice rather than insurance, meaning for a sizeable proportion they won't be getting in (in a normal year) so not everyone who applies before the deadline will need allocating a room and therefore it is done after results day. My DC already had results so could be allocated accommodation before A level results day, as will a lot of the international students who make up a huge proportion of UCL students, plus ibac results were weeks ago, and AFAIK even Scottish highers were a week before. So it is rolling allocation, not all at once.

catmomof3 · 22/08/2024 18:13

My DD heard quite quickly where she has been allocated, she applied the day after accommodation opened I know that because we went through the options and the budget, she was adamant on a ensuite.

We are off to ikea on Tuesday to get some bits, first big outing for me since I finished my cancer treatment and my mum was saying if I get tired at least there will be lots of places to sit 😅. I know my DD wants stuff to do baking so I can see her living off cakes for a whole year lol.

HarpQuartet · 22/08/2024 18:22

Thanks everyone, and thank you @babyzoomer that's reassuring, and @catmomof3 that's really lovely to think of you and your daughter doing that special IKEA trip together.

babyzoomer · 22/08/2024 18:35

If you are worried @HarpQuartet you can probably email the accommodation department if you are listed as your DC's trusted contact and hopefully set your mind at rest. I think they still don't know final numbers because students who don't achieve the marks they need have their offers held for 2 weeks after results day IIRC in case of remarks that increase results.

catmomof3 · 22/08/2024 18:44

@HarpQuartet It really is nice to be able to do something together as the whole summer up to last week I was always at the hospital nearly every day for treatment. Got the point she was crying in her room feeling hopeless and I felt like I ruined her Summer. Not sure how she's gonna cope living away from home for a year but I'm 45 mins away by train so I plan to visit her lots.

Lightsabre · 22/08/2024 19:00

@Londonis, thank you - glad to hear there is support. Ds has had a flurry of emails but nothing course specific yet and nothing about accommodation. We're away for two weeks at the beginning of Sept so hoping the admin type stuff can be completed before then.

Does anyone know how it works in general re; paying for accommodation? Do all costs and loans get split into 3 terms?

HarpQuartet · 22/08/2024 19:03

@catmomof3 I gave a "thanks" but what I really needed was a button for a hug and a heart.

PotentialUCLmum · 22/08/2024 23:27

@catmomof3 hope you are feeling stronger…lovely to hear your update ❤️💐

catmomof3 · 23/08/2024 06:32

@PotentialUCLmum I'm doing so much better than I was a few weeks ago. Now I'm focusing on getting my energy back and planning our Japan trip for January. Luckily no exams for my daughter during that time period (we doubled checked as she knows people there who are doing the same course) and she'll be able to do uni work while we are away. And in all honesty she really needs this trip and we need special time together so it is what it is.

Needmoresleep · 23/08/2024 10:02

This is making me feel quite nostalgic. It's a decade ago since DS started. International Hall, which he found soulless, but which was very convenient. Because students are far-flung a lot happens on campus which is where he made most of his friends. I too went to LSE and went through what was, and probably still is, a rite of passage in the form of a shared room in Passfield Hall. DD had an entirely different experience when she spent lockdown year at Imperial, so no time on campus, indeed her first visit to the bar to meet her peers was after graduation. She loved the course, found IC both organised and supportive, and made instant friends amongst her sports team, so there was a real sense of what could have been.

The big recommendation is to join student societies. DS found sport less accessible. He went to about three football trials and his impression was that the first three teams selected on merit (not him) and the remaining seven on drinking ability (not him either). London Athletic Unions can be very jock-ish. It was fine. A friend suggested he join him in the climbing society at Imperial and he bumped into a UCL student who had been in the year above at school who invited him to join a central based 7 a side team. One good thing about London is that you don't have to travel too far to compete against other Universities. (DD once had to travel to Brighton from Bristol for a match and saw a lot of Wales.)

Some other tips. Sign up for:
https://www.myboxoffice.biz/ which is a seat filling site, offering free or almost free tickets. Discounted tickets can be found through TodayTix and Central Tickets, and places like the National Theatre offer some impressive discounts for students and hold back some cheap tickets for those who queue on the day.

https://www.toogoodtogo.com/ is really active in London. Inevitably there are a lot of bakery items but if you identify a favourite you can get alerts if they have excess food. Look out for ratings, you want 4+. Costa sell M&S sandwiches. I was once given a bag full, enough to feed many hungry students. Breakfast bags from smart hotel buffets can be a good mix of croissants and bacon/sausages as well as baked beans etc.

If you like sushi, Wasabi and Itsu sell food at a 50% discount 30 minutes before closing. Shops close at different times, so worth making a note of what closes when.

The Oasis Lido, an open air swimming pool in central London, is cool. https://www.better.org.uk/leisure-centre/london/camden/oasis-sports-centre

On second year accommodation, there may be some specific student lets but most rent on the open market, so start looking (intensively!) from June on. (One caveat is that the proposed changes in law should make specific student lets a more attractive proposition.) My early tip is to get to know students in other years. If they have a good flat, they might be willing to introduce you to their landlord. Most landlords, assuming tenants reference properly and have guarantors, will be interested in letting directly and avoiding agent fees (effectively 13% for tenant find.) Ditto agencies may be happy not to have to advertise of conduct viewings. DS met some second years via a society who had a vacancy coming up, so he was able to move in, and have the advantage of being with a group studying hard for finals.

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everymeeveryyou · 23/08/2024 21:57

Thank you @grininbearit the TFL website is so unclear about the student Oyster and railcard, your advice is much clearer.
DD off to UAL for foundation year. We don’t live in the U.K. so she is in halls but quite far from Lime Grove so will be using the tube a lot.
Her move in date is 13 September and we are flying in, am dreading the trek across London with all her stuff. We are buying most things when we arrive but will be bringing stuff that is too expensive to buy a second off just to keep in the U.K.

TheSquareMile · 23/08/2024 22:06

everymeeveryyou · 23/08/2024 21:57

Thank you @grininbearit the TFL website is so unclear about the student Oyster and railcard, your advice is much clearer.
DD off to UAL for foundation year. We don’t live in the U.K. so she is in halls but quite far from Lime Grove so will be using the tube a lot.
Her move in date is 13 September and we are flying in, am dreading the trek across London with all her stuff. We are buying most things when we arrive but will be bringing stuff that is too expensive to buy a second off just to keep in the U.K.

@everymeeveryyou

You could book to be collected by Addison Lee at the airport. They will take you and the luggage to the building in which she will be living.

https://www.addisonlee.com/services/airport-transfers/

mrssquidink · 24/08/2024 08:39

Lightsabre · 22/08/2024 19:00

@Londonis, thank you - glad to hear there is support. Ds has had a flurry of emails but nothing course specific yet and nothing about accommodation. We're away for two weeks at the beginning of Sept so hoping the admin type stuff can be completed before then.

Does anyone know how it works in general re; paying for accommodation? Do all costs and loans get split into 3 terms?

For DS yes, accommodation was paid for in 3 termly instalments (with the deposit taken off the first one). He got the invoice about a week into term. Similarly the student loan is paid at the start of each term.

everymeeveryyou · 24/08/2024 09:36

Thanks @TheSquareMile I have input our details but I can’t see a way of getting a quote before booking. Do you know if a quote is provided or if you just get told the cost at the end of the journey.

TheSquareMile · 24/08/2024 10:00

everymeeveryyou · 24/08/2024 09:36

Thanks @TheSquareMile I have input our details but I can’t see a way of getting a quote before booking. Do you know if a quote is provided or if you just get told the cost at the end of the journey.

When I use Addison Lee to book journeys within London, it shows me the calculation of the price before I confirm the booking on the screen, so I always know exactly how much it has cost.

I'm not sure why the calculation isn't showing on your screen.

Does it help to go through this screen?

https://book.addisonlee.com/al/booking/new/car?

everymeeveryyou · 24/08/2024 12:46

TheSquareMile · 24/08/2024 10:00

When I use Addison Lee to book journeys within London, it shows me the calculation of the price before I confirm the booking on the screen, so I always know exactly how much it has cost.

I'm not sure why the calculation isn't showing on your screen.

Does it help to go through this screen?

https://book.addisonlee.com/al/booking/new/car?

Edited

Thank you that has worked, I have also seen now that UAL offer international students a discount on Addison Lee so I have emailed them to see if DD qualifies for this.

stronglatte · 25/08/2024 04:52

If you're arriving at Heathrow the Elizabeth Line will take you straight into to Tottenham Court Road and is great. If you've got a lot of luggage the black cabs are just outside. Uber is cheaper but not easy to find as that have to wait in the car park. If possible I would do weekly suitcases in through the Lizzy Line as far in as I can get and then switch to a taxi. I would avoid Uber from Heathrow . Addison Lee have not got great reviews online ( 2 out of 5 on Trip Advisor) so I've avoided them in the past. Ideally I would suggest wheely suitcases and a rucksack and get in on the tube as far as you can . It's always packed with suitcases so not a problem.

stronglatte · 25/08/2024 04:57

Also my suggestion is to get as many items delivered from Amazon once you've arrived rather than bring them with you. For those in private accom who need food Ocado will do a smart pass for as little as £8 a month. Amazon is great for household items . As well as that, as DD gets settled in I've gone for a walk and found a supermarket and done a basic shop to get her going.