Loads of good advice. Key thing is appreciating the need to hit ground running in Yr12 as time whizzes by quickly and those all-important predicted grades will be determined this year.
Start looking at Open Day dates in Jan and work out where you want to visit. Know that the far flung places in distant north, south and Scotland will see their accommodation all booked up pretty early and if you want affordable and nearby accommodation, you’ll have to get in early. Likewise if some journeys are too long to drive and you need to go by train, the cheaper tickets will sell out early.
Looking at Clearing in the summer of Yr12 can show you some useful things about which courses don’t fill and how low some offers can go.
Enjoy the process. That phase of visiting university cities with DC and seeing them thinking it through can be a lovely bonding experience. Don’t try to do too much in a day or weekend….doing 2 in a weekend might be okay once, but most people find that exhausting. And there might be a cheap way to do it all, but I didn’t find it! Train fares, petrol, nights at the Premier Inn, lunches, the odd evening meal….it all added up and I can totally see it’s another barrier to equal access. Where we could do the journey in a day, we did, but there were some we had to stay overnight at. We used the opportunity to catch-up with a couple of friends and family members (often the Open Days start at 9/9.30 and it’s Sod’s Law that the talk you want to go to will be first) and stay at their houses, but also had to have a couple of nights in the Premier Inn too. It sort of became part of our summer holiday plans - some weekends away and we tried to see it as that instead of a chore.
Know teens are switched on and off places by all kinds of odd things. I was struck my MN threads by someone who said their DD said a place had ‘posh mean girl vibes’ which the mother had zero sense of, and others where the child became enamoured with a place due to a burger he had there. Be aware if your teen (or yourself) have strong prejudices for or against geographical regions, accents, students from different types of school/college to the type they attend and if possible, help them to be open-minded and be open-minded yourself, even if you remmeber stuff about a particular uni from 30 odd years ago!
Like all these things in MN, it’s a phase and this too will pass and none of it has to determine the child’s whole future, so hold lightly to it all and enjoy the ride.