My DD is fortunate enough to have received an offer for Geography from both Bristol and Durham but is going round in circles trying to decide which to firm so we really need to make a decision soon and would appreciate any advice. She is very outgoing and her main reason for favouring Bristol is the city itself: she much prefers the idea of a big city whereas she worries Durham will be too small (and nightlife no good!). My memories of being a student are that you're wrapped up in a bit of a student bubble anyway and won't have the funds to go to expensive night clubs every night but she worries she might get bored in Durham. That said, she really liked the collegiate system in Durham when we went for the open day and found it very friendly and social unlike Bristol which was a bit more impersonal. (eg, they recently closed the bars in the halls of residence we visited making us wonder how/where the students socialised).
However she has a few niggles about the Bristol course which appears to be a bit less flexible, without opportunities for work placement/year abroad etc and Durham is also higher in the ratings especially for geography. As a state school pupil, her other main worry about Durham is fitting in with the high percentage of ex-public school pupils, which is also likely to be the case at Bristol too however, her feeling there is that as the city is bigger there should be a more varied demographic overall. We've heard a lot of the social life in Durham is centered around sports clubs and pubs - she's not particularly sporty so again worries she may not fit in. I've also heard about issues with drugs in Bristol but I'm sure that might be the same for Durham too. Can anyone offer any advice? She needs to make her mind up soon. We've been to both open days and it's not helped!