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Guest post: “Big Porn is hurting our children.”

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JuliaMumsnet · 19/10/2021 11:57

Naomi Miles

Founder of CEASE UK, the Centre to End All Sexual Exploitation.

We asked Naomi Miles, founder of CEASE UK, the Centre to End All Sexual Exploitation, to tell us about their campaign to include Big Porn in the Online Safety Bill:

"Britain’s going to be the safest place in the world to be online, especially for children. Or at least that's what the UK Government hopes its ambitious Online Safety Bill will achieve.

The draft bill certainly prioritises the online safety of children, insisting that social media companies take on a “duty of care” towards their younger users.

However, dedicated pornography sites are not in scope of these landmark child protections. As a charity committed to the upstream prevention of sexual exploitation, we at CEASE are astounded that the commercial online porn industry doesn’t even get a mention in the draft Bill - in spite of its obvious unique and elevated risks and the mounting evidence of the industry’s complicity in sex trafficking and other criminal activity.

As our new report Expose Big Porn explains, porn sites are some of the biggest and most profitable websites in the world and yet, unlike other Big Tech industries, they’ve consistently managed to lurk in the shadows, avoiding scrutiny and accountability.

The fact is that Big Porn is hurting our children.

Firstly, porn sites give children free and easy access in order to make money. We keep children off betting sites and stop them from buying knives, cigarettes or alcohol either on or offline, but porn sites are wide open to anyone. These sites are perfectly capable of implementing some kind of age check and have been for years. Undoubtedly, maintaining zero barrier to entry supports their freemium business model, which depends on attracting as many users as possible. And perhaps these sites are not naive to the research that demonstrates children’s increased risk of porn addiction. Allowing kids onto free porn sites is equivalent to handing out free cigarettes outside the school gates. This is a future loyal customer base in the making.

While porn sites rake in profits, our children are shouldering the cost: in addition to the initial shock of exposure, research confirms that watching porn can also cause them profound psychological, social and emotional harms. It imprints twisted ideas about gender, sexuality, relationships, intimacy, sexual violence and gender equality onto their still developing minds.

Although the draft Online Safety Bill states that larger pornographic video-sharing platforms will require age verification, it seems obvious that this mandate should apply to all porn sites, regardless of their size and functionality. At very least, this will avoid leaving a wide-open loophole for the porn industry to exploit.

Secondly, mainstream popular porn sites are contaminated by unknown quantities of child sexual abuse material. This is the inevitable result of their business model which makes it easy for anyone to upload any content. Anonymous users can post videos of young-looking schoolgirls, babysitters and step-daughters. These instantaneously appear before a global audience of millions and, once they’re up, it’s almost impossible to get them back.

Many of these videos don’t actually depict children being coerced into sexual activity by their teachers, employers, coaches or family members; they’re young-looking adult women engaging in ‘role play’. But with no verification processes in place, there’s ultimately no way of knowing for sure. What we do know is that children are ending up on porn sites, and their lives are being devastated as a result. The ocean of role-play incest acts as camouflage for the real thing.

To protect our children from sexual exploitation and abuse, we must introduce legislation that will ensure porn sites either remove their video-sharing platform functionality or create robust verification processes to ensure that uploads only feature consenting adults.

And thirdly, porn sites normalise sexual violence against women and girls. The vast majority of porn represents harmful sexist stereotypes: men are sexually dominant and aggressive, whereas women are passive sex objects who exist to gratify men.

Online porn is having profound, real-world consequences. It’s incubating harmful sexual attitudes and behaviours in our boys, and pressurising our girls into acquiescing to sexual acts they find painful or humiliating for fear of being labelled as ‘prudes’. Ultimately, it’s driving the sexual violence that we’re learning is endemic in our schools and universities.

Recent research from Durham University highlights how one in eight titles shown to first-time users on the first page of mainstream porn sites describe some form of sexual violence (including incest, physical aggression, image-based sexual abuse and depictions of coercion and exploitation).

Not only does much of this ‘extreme’ pornography violate porn sites’ own terms and conditions, but it’s also is illegal in the UK. The industry won’t bother to clamp down on this popular and profitable content unless its hand is forced.

As parents, we must make our voices heard. We have the opportunity to ensure that the Online Safety Bill introduces robust regulation to protect our children from the online commercial porn industry. Take action today and write to your MP."

Note from CEASE: CEASE is keen to connect with people who have stories about the porn industry's impact on children. If you're a parent, teacher, a professional in a related sector, or a young adult who experienced porn as a child, and are willing to speak about your experience, feel free to contact Naomi on [email protected]. Thanks.

CEASE is on twitter here and their CEO Vanessa Morse is here. Naomi will be coming back onto the thread on Monday to answer your questions so get posting if you have any!

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MoltenLasagne · 26/10/2021 08:08

Thank you, I've contacted my MP using the link provided.

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Sunkisses · 27/10/2021 11:55

Thank you to @NaomiMiles for coming back and responding to everyone one by one. Really impressive. I wish more parents would engage with this enormous social problem, rather than stick their heads in the sand, especially the parents of boys. I fear for my daughters as they grow up and what they will be pressured to do by boys raised on hideous, violent and misogynistic pornography :-(

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Oftenithinkaboutit · 27/10/2021 12:04

remain baffled.

The focus is wrong. The porn sites will do what is legally obliged of them.

So lobby government to make make it a law for children under 16 or 18 to access porn online. Just like it is illegal to sell cigarettes or alcohol to under 16/18.

Once there is a law in place then The porn website will have to adapt, removing the need to campaign for them to do so.

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Hogwarts21 · 27/10/2021 17:46

I have emailed my MP. Thanks for making it so easy on your website CEASE. Brilliant!

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Hogwarts21 · 27/10/2021 17:47

@Oftenithinkaboutit how can that possibly be enforced?

Cigarettes and booze are behind counters. A physical barrier exists.

Are you going to snoop into someone's house and wrench the phone from their hands?

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Oftenithinkaboutit · 27/10/2021 18:35

[quote Hogwarts21]@Oftenithinkaboutit how can that possibly be enforced?

Cigarettes and booze are behind counters. A physical barrier exists.

Are you going to snoop into someone's house and wrench the phone from their hands?[/quote]
How is it enforced?

Age verification policy

A number of alcohol online sellers have it. You have to upload 1 forms of ID confirming your age and the other confirming your address

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Ginfox · 28/11/2021 22:56

@NaomiMiles I've had a letter from Chris Philps (Parliamentary Under Secretary of State for Tech and the Digital Economy) via my own MP. I won't attach it as it includes my address, but encouraging I hope. Thanks again for highlighting this.

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junaid12 · 15/02/2022 10:05

Age verification is one of the most authentic ways to verify the users and also for restriction.

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