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Guest panel: Has 2014 been a good year for women?

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MumsnetGuestPosts · 29/12/2014 11:54

In September, the UN hosted a conference on gender equality and kicked off the #HeforShe campaign with a speech from Emma Watson. Hailed as a win for women everywhere, Watson’s speech was the same old "feminists must be nice to men because they have sad feelings" discourse that cushions the status quo – the kind that allows the UN to host a conference on gender equality without inviting any women. The reason #HeforShe was so successful was because it was safe - it failed to challenge any structural power. Instead, it begged men to recognise women as human by hitting the button that said ‘I agree’, something my cat can manage by plunking her arse on the keyboard. What my cat couldn't do this year, however, was afford the must-have feminist fashion accessory of 2014: the Fawcett Society and Elle ‘this is what a feminist looks like’ t-shirt. But, at £45, who could? Certainly not the women who made them.

We also saw William Hague host a global conference to end sexual violence in war whilst his government slashed services to support victims in the UK. Threats of sexual violence and death continued unabated for any woman who dared to have an opinion, and female celebrities became victims of sexual assault en masse when a group of men hacked into their private iCloud accounts and released intimate photos of them. The inevitable consequence was that even larger numbers of men deliberately searched out these images, and online mass sexual violence became ‘totes awesome’. Women were, of course, labelled hysterical for calling it sexual assault.

Yes, we may have seen party leaders staring awkwardly into the middle distance whilst wearing some overpriced t-shirts, but make no mistake: 2014 was not the start of a new feminist movement; it was a full-scale assault on women’s bodily autonomy.

MumsnetGuestPosts · 29/12/2014 11:54

In 2014 we've seen the first rumblings of fourth-wave feminism fatigue. Karl Lagerfeld reduced feminist protest to a catwalk carnival, the "celebrity feminism" of Emma Watson and Lena Dunham came in for harsh criticism, and Time magazine initially included "feminist" in a list of "words that should be banned". On the surface, it might feel as though it’s time to pack up and go home.

But for those of us who've dared to notice, it’s also been the year in which it’s become clear just how bad things are. Cultural phenomena such as #gamergate and the increasingly open documentation of male violence against women have made it obvious not just how much activism there is, but how much more is needed.

This is the context in which mothers have found ourselves trying not just to be listened to as individuals, but to raise sons and daughters to be neither aggressors nor victims. Of course, it’s hard. For my part, I feel much of the progress we make – in terms of some shared parental leave becoming possible in 2015 and the recognition of unpaid domestic work – is partial and grudging. Politicians, mostly male, know that women are people, too, but they'd prefer it if we weren't. Each step forward for mothers is justified in economic rather than human terms. Having a baby is still seen by many, not as an essential part of human life, but as “a thing women do that irritates employers.” It's difficult to get started on challenging a hyper-masculine culture when you’re meant to be falling over with gratitude at being “allowed” back into a low-paid job.

What I'd really like for 2015 would be greater co-operation between women of all generations, between those who have children and those who do not. We separate ourselves off from one another and wait for “our” issues to be attended to. But if some are sick of feminism, maybe it’s because we just can’t afford to wait any longer.

MumsnetGuestPosts · 29/12/2014 11:54

We never anticipated the attention the campaign would get, and in that way, 2014 has been very empowering - we have found that mothers standing together are very strong, and we have inspired other women to act against austerity and the housing crisis in London.

Through talking to people at our regular street stall, we've heard peoples’ stories – we have learnt that cuts and the eviction of the poor is something which is affecting lots of people, not just mums. We also know the situation is getting worse. It only took a £40,000 cut at the E15 Hostel - which is a tiny amount of money to the government, really - for us to be sent eviction notices, and more than half of the cuts in Britain are still yet to happen.

2014 has made us brave - our voices have been heard in a way they never were before - and now we are ready to fight for everybody who is facing austerity, even though our own futures are still uncertain. If your 2015 is beginning with insecurity, if you’re going through something similar to us, we would urge you to take action - represent yourself and your communities, because no-one else will. As a mother, your voice can be very powerful, and our voices are much needed in the fight for housing, healthcare and other basic necessities which are rapidly being taken away. We are as determined now as we were at the start of the year, if not more so, and we’re looking forward to the fight 2015 will bring.

MumsnetGuestPosts · 29/12/2014 11:54

We've borne witness to another year of atrocious acts carried out against women and girls across the word: 150 women killed in Iraq for refusing to marry IS fighters, Elliot Roger’s killing spree in America and kidnappings in Nigeria – and that’s just what gets reported.

Here in the UK, a UN envoy found we had a 'boys' club sexist culture', much more so than in other countries. Our media and government, would you believe, didn't respond by saying ‘how can we be better?’ They retaliated with the denial and defensiveness you'd expect from a sexist boys’ club culture.

But there’s been hope, too. It feels as though every day, more and more voices are joining together to speak up about inequality. More and more people – women and men, pop stars and politicians – are standing up and saying, proudly, ‘I'm a feminist’. This has to be a good thing, doesn't it?

And it’s not just words – people are finally asking ‘what more can I do?’ The momentum behind the No More Page 3 campaign has been dizzying this year, and I have been struck by the passion and energy of the young people in the movement. I've long lost count of the emails from teenage girls saying, ‘can you come and speak in my school?’ or ‘how can I help?’

It's these young people who give me confidence and hope that 2015, and the years afterwards, will be better. What we've done over the last few years is build a feminist future, and even if we can’t see all the fruits of our labour yet, I think the future is bright.

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