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Malala is a fantastic role model for girls - but why aren't there more?

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MumsnetGuestBlogs · 11/10/2013 11:36

Happy International Day of the Girl! We would have loved to have been able to congratulate Malala Yousafzai on being awarded the Nobel Peace Prize, but unfortunately it was not to be.

But this is no way diminishes her extraordinary achievement. Threats from the Taliban couldn’t stop her writing - nor did the appalling, cowardly attack on her and her school friends. Standing tall at the UN earlier this year, she spoke powerfully and movingly for the rights of girls to an education. The fact that she was considered for the Nobel Prize for Peace – taking her place alongside Aung San Suu Kyi, President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf and Shirin Ebadi – is, I hope, testament to the fact that global equality for women and girls is edging closer. What a fantastic role model she is to our girls - and to our boys.

And heaven knows they need it.

From a young age, children are given the message that girls like pink, dressing up, make-up and hairstyles, princesses and horses. Boys are pushed towards cars, tractors, planes and adventure. Campaigns such as Let Toys Be Toys have been successful in highlighting how damaging this is for children – but the media landscape in which our daughters are growing up presents just as many challenges to those of us who want our children to be whatever they want to be.

Our girls are bombarded with images of seemingly perfect celebrities, and feel pressured that they don’t live up to the images portrayed. They are as yet unaware that this perfection is only achievable with the assistance of a team of stylists, flattering lighting and photoshop to smooth the skin and vanish blemishes.

In March 2012, I started a thread on Mumsnet asking if anyone would like to contribute to a preteen magazine for girls. The idea was that the magazine would offer an alternative to magazines like Girls & Co, Go Girl and Hello Kitty, which offer such a narrow range of options for girls to aspire to. This magazine would focus on fun articles and creative craft ideas, personal and school/career advice, insights into careers that they may not have considered, articles about children around the world and interactive content, some of it written by their peers. We wanted to feature female role models – not celebrities, but sportswomen, archaeologists, engineers, counsellors and councillors.

With the assistance of dozens of Mumsnetters, Jump! Mag was born.

In the year since, we’ve published over 200 articles on a wide range of topics, hosted two writing competitions (the second is currently underway) and featured over 60 articles written by our young readers – everything from being a vegetarian to coping with bullies to what it is really like to live on a boat.

In the coming weeks we’ll be launching a Kickstarter crowd-funding project to develop the magazine further – so do keep an eye out on Facebook and Twitter for announcements. The new Jump! Mag will be a unique online magazine for preteens - a one-stop-shop to inspire and entertain kids, in a safe, girl-positive environment.

We’ll feature games and interactive stories, news and reviews, peer-to-peer counselling, advice on bullying and health and using social media safely – and we’ll be working with other organisations to inform our readers about science, technology, engineering and mathematics – traditionally subjects that are not promoted to girls.

Our hope is that we can be online mentors, guiding the way for thousands of girls around the world, showing them that there are fascinating careers that they might not even know about- and opening up the world for them by showing that there are many more roles available to them than the ones they see in the other girls' magazines on the newsagent's shelf.

In a world that celebrates the bravery of Malala Yousafzai - a girl who is determined to speak out about what she wants to be - we think it's time to give all girls the confidence to stand up and speak up, and to know that their voice will be heard.

OP posts:
MmeLindor. · 14/10/2013 09:05

The Girl Network is run by two young women in their spare time and organises mentoring in schools in their area. They'd like to expand to other areas of the country.

MmeLindor. · 14/10/2013 09:09

That's an interesting idea. I've been looking into peer to peer counselling on the magazine - with appropriate supervision

VeeVandTeaDrinkYourBlood · 14/10/2013 09:17

I've just had a look at The Girls Network, what a brilliant idea!

RatherBeOnThePiste · 14/10/2013 09:20

Ah. Sad OK. Why does this always happen? Lynn, we have loved Jump since the very beginning, and all respect to you for all your endeavours.

Shall sift out the negative shite, and have a read.

VeeVandTeaDrinkYourBlood · 14/10/2013 09:23

LRD, that's a really good idea. DV is a good example of people "learning" bad relationships. And this is another thing that is perpetuated by the media, films and books.

MmeLindor. · 14/10/2013 09:34

We do have an article on Controlling Relationships - and have had good feedback from mums who've shown to their daughters, and it has helped to resolve conflicts at school.

I haven't flounced, or called Mumsnet a bunch of bullying bjtches yet, but there is still time ;)

ArtexMonkey · 14/10/2013 09:39

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LRDtheFeministDragon · 14/10/2013 09:40

Ah, you're ahead of it already. Thanks lynn.

VeeVandTeaDrinkYourBlood · 14/10/2013 09:42

Lynn, that's brilliant! DS and I look through Jump! from time to time. I feel it's our job as his parents to ensure that he grows up with healthy attitudes towards women and relationships, but it's also important that he knows about negative relationships too.

MmeLindor. · 14/10/2013 10:18

Grow,
while I admire First News, and think the work they do is fab - you do know it was co-founded by Piers Morgan? And that they work with Sky News. Not exactly a struggling little-start up.

Don't really see why they are ok, and Jump! Mag is exploitive.

Growlithe · 14/10/2013 12:00

And if Piers Morgan had have written the above OP, but promoting First News where you have promoted Jump, I suspect I wouldn't be the only one saying what I have.

Which would be a bit odd really, as that was never marketed as a 'girls publication' or a 'boys publication', and yet Jump originally was. But at least you have now taken the sign down on that.

I see now it is lamented on the thread that I have spoiled what was supposed to be a discussion on mentoring by whinging about advertising.

Well, have a look at the OP with a neutral eye and see how much of it discusses mentoring and how much discusses Jump magazine. On the other thread, you even link to this one not to encourage us to talk about mentoring but as an update on Jump magazine.

So I think the thread was having its own identity crisis before I came along.

MmeLindor. · 14/10/2013 13:32

Ok, Grow. I am going to stop now cause I don't see what this conversation is doing other than going around in circles.

I don't know why you keep going back to the fact that I changed from girls to including boys, which I think is a sign that I have learned a lot over the past year. And that I want the site to be more inclusive.

I wrote about the magazine because I was asked to by MNHQ and I talked about mentoring because it was something that really interested me, and that I wish to use Jump! Mag to promote.

Piers Morgan doesn't have to be creative and write long articles for Mumsnet to promote a new project. He tweets it to his millions of followers. I can't say how I would react if he had written the OP, but I would probably have doubted his credentials in starting an girl-positive online magazine. Since he hasn't exactly got a great record in promoting girls.

Anyway, I am done discussing my motives and I am done defending my work and my magazine. If you don't like it, you don't have to read it. Or promote it.

kazuwacky · 14/10/2013 14:39

This seems like marketing thinly veiled with a few sentences about Malala....

alexpolistigers · 14/10/2013 15:04

Frankly, so what if it is marketing?? What is wrong with promoting a magazine that aims to inspire girls and offer them interesting articles to read??

I have never been paid for my own contributions to Jump - I wrote them because I wanted to and I thought it was a great project to be part of. I promote them because I write fantastic articles and you should all read them because I want to interest people in the subject, and because I want to give girls something different to read, something they're unlikely to find in other magazines aimed at pre-teens. Not because I'm getting rich by doing so! It's not like Lynn has a multi-million-pound industry that is being promoted here - I really fail to see what the issue is with it!

LRDtheFeministDragon · 14/10/2013 15:08

alex, it's obvious kazu didn't read the thread that explains, at exhaustive length and with much repetition, what the OP was asked to write ...

TheSporkforeatingkyriarchy · 14/10/2013 15:37

Lynn - I think of possible interest is looking into people who could have been international role models like Malala and were then silenced (as well as how even Malala's messages are censored in the media - she talks about education and problems with the Taliban get all the airways, her discussing the issues of Imperialism, drone bombing and those who fear to go to school because of that is completely ignored by mainstream media).

Malalai Joya also fought for the right of girls to go to school, teaching at secret underground schools during the Taliban’s rule in Afghanistan. She survived assassination attempts and got as far as being elected to the Afghan parliament and was then kicked out of her elected seat - and the world remained silence, the US refused her entry for a speaking engagement for a very long time.

People need role models and potential models and to see themselves and others reflected in the world in important ways - sadly, particularly for those outside of the mainstream idea of normal - it is often in the mainstream media to only be as one dimensional victims fighting the Other, not people who could challenge our own rhetoric. Same reason why our civil rights for race heroes always seem to be people from other countries while the UK's own struggle and heroes who fought for racial equality (and the UK's own bus boycotts) are so heavily ignored.

Just passing thoughts for your work, it looks very good!

MmeLindor. · 14/10/2013 15:39

[snorts] at a multi-million pound industry.

I wish.

Anyway. To the GIRLS.

Have you lot heard of ScienceGrrls? I am meeting with them later this week. They are amazing, and do fabulous work encouraging girls into science.

TensionSquealsGhoulsHeels · 14/10/2013 16:00

I'm just marking my place, going to have a read at the links later.Smile

SconeRhymesWithGone · 14/10/2013 16:15

TheSpork This was widely reported in US media:

politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2013/10/11/obamas-meet-with-malala/

TheSporkforeatingkyriarchy · 14/10/2013 16:21

Reported in a manner where what she says is cut down to the basics in one event - not her repeated fight against them - that was then handwaved away in a manner with how "needed" they are and nothing that touches what she's said about the issues with imperialism. A pat on the head then ignored, that's the message that kind of media gives.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 14/10/2013 17:33

spork, I did not know of that history - thank you for posting about it.

MmeLindor. · 14/10/2013 17:58

Spork
Thanks for that - sorry I didn't see your post earlier.

That is very interesting. It is certainly something that I would like to take a closer look at, and perhaps commission a series of articles on.

MmeLindor · 14/10/2013 20:36

ooh, look. MNHQ have announced MN Mentoring Programme

How fab.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 14/10/2013 20:48

Oh, that is great!

Well done you.

MmeLindor · 14/10/2013 20:52

Much as I'd love to take credit for this, I think it was planned for a while.

:)

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