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My child amazes me - or is it just me?

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tigerlillyd02 · 22/01/2012 19:15

DS is 2.2. I've known he's quite bright for a while but not anything 'out the ordinary' so to speak. At 18 months he knew his letters, what letter something begins with and the phonics (sounds) behind each letter. If you asked him what 'door' begins with he'll say D and then sound d d door as with anything else you ask him. As far as I have been aware he could not read many letters though.

I've not done a lot of counting with him but he can count to and count out 26 items (mummys age) and he recognises written numbers 0-9 (I didn't know this until he started pointing to page numbers in books). He's known all shapes and colours since around 15 months. He's always been quite a good talker. Most people who meet him are quite amazed with his ability and it's only more recently since going to toddler groups like singing / drama etc that I realised how bright he actually seemed compared with others.

He was rushed into hospital a few nights ago struggling to breathe (turned out to be croup). But in A&E he had an audience of nurses, docs, and the ambulance crew all gathered round intrigued by how much he knew which made me think perhaps it is a bit out of the ordinary then. He's my first so, to me, he's completely 'normal'. My mum, who has experience with 6 children and 5 grandchildren is more like "I told you so!" as she has said for a long time how bright he is. I just thought she was a bit precious over him.

So, today I decided to print off some dinosaur pictures for him to paint and colour. Above each dinosaur was the long name of which dinosaur it is. I was quite amazed that when he was painting an 'apatosaurus' he pointed to the 'a' and said what it was. So I asked him the rest of the letters and he knew them all. I was completely amazed! I did not know he knew these at all.

So then he got me thinking and I thought I'd teach him his name so printed off some hand and foot prints with names on - Nanny, Mommy and other childrens names we know, obviously including his own. As they were printing out he got quite excited and said "look, Nanny!" and then "Mommy" and "his-name". He did not know the other childrens names though.

But, I am stunned. Completely stunned! He's either reading my mind or he actually knows. Perhaps I'm not giving him enough credit.

I'm now sitting thinking that perhaps I need to be stimulating him a bit more than I do now. Should I be trying to see if I can teach him to read simple words and count up more than 26? Should I be doing more activities with him around these?

He's a long way off nursery. I cannot afford to send him privately. But they've changed the intakes around here so he isn't due to start for another 1 yr 8 months. This is quite a long time I think and maybe I need to be doing things at home with him? If so, what exactly (obviously other than the normal day to day activities)?

Or do I just leave him to pick things up himself? I really don't know. Someone please advise..

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MitrochondrialEve · 29/01/2012 01:39

Billynomateswontbemyfriend - I'd love to hear about great apps for small children please!

Fairyloo · 29/01/2012 01:47

How is your son At Ice skating?I was thinking about three year old but thought too young??

TheSkiingGardener · 29/01/2012 04:08

He sounds very happy and bright. As you've already found out young children are amazing at seeking out what they need in order to learn. DS goes through phases when all he wants to read is his numbers book, or his shapes book and then will go off them completely. He's just been through a phase where all he has wanted to do is play cars and buses and his imaginative play has exploded. I really would follow his lead. Have things available to him and work with whatever he chooses and he'll teach himself. Far more fun than trying to get him to learn specific things.

tigerlillyd02 · 30/01/2012 01:16

Fairyloo He's not great! Because the session is aimed at pre schoolers though they have props to help them - like penguins they can hold on to for support. I think they say you can take them once they can walk and they recommend 18 months + The first session I strained my back through having to fully support him for the entire 90 minutes but it's got easier since then. We're onto holding 1 hand or I get him to hold on to a penguin when I need to straighten up Grin

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