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So what happened to Margery Rigby – the girl who added the family cat to the Census? - (spoiler I couldn’t find too much)

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Another2Cats · 10/08/2024 15:27

This post was prompted by the comment from @CaptainMyCaptain

"Love it! I wonder what that child went on to do in life."

A quick recap:

In the 1911 Census, the Rigby family of Birkenhead had two children and a maid. Mr Rigby ran a decorating and plumbing business. The family cat was then added by another person (I suspect it was the daughter):

Name: Tobit Crackitt

Relation to head: Tom Cat

Marital Status: Married

No of children: 16

Occupation: Mouse Catcher Soloist & Thief

Birthplace: Birkenhead

Nationality: Cheshire Cat [I think that somebody may have been reading Alice in Wonderland]

Infirmity: Speechless.

Now, of course, no one can say for sure who actually wrote that. I think it unlikely that the live-in maid would have written that or, at least, not on her own initiative.

I think that it was very likely the daughter, Margery, rather than her brother Harold who was then an apprentice wireman (a Post Office employee maintaining the telegraph wires).

I also believe it was her who added “sufferagette” as the occupation for her aunt and the maid. I think it must have been quite an interesting household to live in at that time.

So, what became of Margery?

Margery was born in April 1899 and by the time of the 1901 census her mother was still alive and they were living in the same house.

It is a three storey end of terrace. Just have a look at the house (google street map image below), that had two adults and two children as a family, a brother in law and a domestic servant all living there in that one house.

When people hear the term “domestic service” they often think of something like “Downton Abbey”. But, for most girls and young women, this was much more the reality of being a domestic servant; a single woman working in a relatively modest household.

Her mother died in Q1 (Jan to March) 1909 at the age of 40 a short time before Margery was 10. Then, a few months later, she is reported as having received a First-Class Pass in the primary section of a music exam.

It was reported by The Birkenhead News on 11 Aug 1909:

College of Music
Higher and Local Examination Results

The list has been issued of candidates who were successful in gaining professional diplomas and local certificates at the examinations recently held at the Philharmonic Hall in connection with the London College of Music (Liverpool Centre)

[…]

The following are amongst the results, teachers names being given in parenthesis:

and then under the Primary Section it says:

First Class Pass – Margery Rigby (Miss S Cole, ALCM, Birkenhead)

[ALCM stands for Associate of the London College of Music]

So, in a house that was quite full of people anyway, Margery practising the piano must have added quite a bit to the noise levels.

To be able to employ a domestic servant and to provide his daughter with piano lessons to a suitably high standard, suggests that the father, William, had a business that was doing quite well.

That brings us up to 1911. So what happened afterwards?

Well, by the time of the 1921 Census (see image below), things had changed quite a bit. William has remarried and Margery has moved out – but the story seems rather odd.

William married a woman named Margaret Gall in 1913 near Dundee, Scotland (I’m sure that this is the correct William Rigby as the Dundee Courier of 4 Sept 1913 reported that a “William Rigby of Birkenhead” married a Margaret Webster Gall)

At the time of the 1901 Census Margaret was working as a domestic servant near Dundee but I can find no record of her anywhere in the 1911 census. Did she move down from Dundee to Birkenhead in search of work and there met William?

Or did William spend some time up in Dundee and happen to meet her up there? And if so, where was Margery?

Eight months after the wedding, Margaret gave birth to their first child, still up near Dundee (Monifieth).

So it appears that William just upped sticks and moved to near Dundee for at least a year. What happened to Margery? Did he drag her along with him up to Scotland to live with her new, pregnant, stepmother? Or did he leave her behind with her aunt in the Birkenhead house?

Neither of those two options seem particularly appealing. You’re 14 and your dad drags you off to Scotland to live with his new wife. She gives birth just after your 15th birthday and your stepmother is perhaps a lot more concerned about her new daughter rather than a stepdaughter from a previous relationship.

(Of course, nobody will ever really know how things were – she may well have been an absolutely fantastic step mother who adored her step daughter, we’ll never know)

On the other hand, William may have gone off to Scotland to be with his new wife and left Margery behind in the Birkenhead house with her aunt. Being abandoned like that isn’t great either.

So we get to 1921. William and Margaret have returned to the Birkenhead house and also have a second daughter together by now.

Margery has moved out. It was not common at all for young unmarried women to move out of home at this time unless maybe they were working in domestic service or perhaps had a job a very long way from home.

Neither of these situations applied to Margery, she was living as a boarder in a house that was literally less than 5 mins walk away from the family home, just around the corner.

It seems as though maybe there was a push for her to leave the family home.

Anyway, by 1921 Margery was working as a Clerk at the Inland Revenue (HMRC nowadays) at 35 Hamilton Sq, Birkenhead. About a mile from her home.

Back in those days, civil service appointments were announced in The Gazette (this is the official newspaper to place announcements in eg probate or bankruptcy etc). Margery was first appointed as a typist and then was appointed “after open competition” to the position of “Clerical Class (Women)” for the Inland Revenue.

After 1921 she seems to disappear. I can find no record of her death or emigration. Neither can I find any record of a marriage.

Also, I can find no record of her in the 1939 Register.

There is a record of a Margery Rigby marrying in 1942 in Liverpool North but I have no idea if that is her or not. I would need to purchase a copy of the marriage certificate to confirm if it was her or not.

So, rather disappointingly, the trail dies out. But I do hope that she lived happily whatever she did.

ps With the two women described as suffragettes, I could find no record of them on Ancestry or FindMyPast in connection with suffragette activities so it looks like they were never arrested or reported on in connection with this.

So what happened to Margery Rigby – the girl who added the family cat to the Census? - (spoiler I couldn’t find too much)
So what happened to Margery Rigby – the girl who added the family cat to the Census? - (spoiler I couldn’t find too much)
OP posts:
Another2Cats · 11/08/2024 20:28

@RespondingToYou located the probate record for Margery. Although she never did write a will.

In the record it refers to "Administration" rather than "Probate". This occurs when a person dies without a will.

This is the record:

MITCHELL Margery of 33 Courtland-avenue Ilford Essex (wife of James Henry Mitchell) died 23 April 1954 at London Hospital Whitechapel London E1 Administration London 26 July to the said James Henry Mitchell civil servant.
Effects £548 13s. 2d.

Thanks for finding it!

OP posts:
RespondingToYou · 11/08/2024 21:10

“The 1921 Census for England & Wales was taken on 19 June, postponed from its original date of 24 April 1921.” There were many reasons which contributed to the delay.

Another2Cats · 11/08/2024 21:15

invisiblecat · 11/08/2024 10:58

@Another2Cats I just had a quick look on FreeBMD out of curiosity - I haven't got Ancestry or any of the others.

I really hope it didn't come across that I was having a go at you in any way?

"...are you sure you have the right marriage"

This is entirely the correct question that you should always ask. Everyone can make mistakes when looking at marriages and this really is the sort of question that should always be asked.

So, thank you for asking me that question.

Basically, you were asking me, hey, show me your workings on this question rather than just the answer?

Have you considered Elizabeth Hetherington?

If I hadn't then I would be going "OMG who have I missed, could it be her?"

And if I hadn't considered her then you would be quite right to question how accurate my answer was.

I was just trying to "show my workings" as to how I arrived at the answer.

OP posts:
RespondingToYou · 11/08/2024 22:49

@Another2Cats thank you for the detailed explanation about Margery’s d.o.b. on the 1939 Register. I’m now up to speed with Margery and James in 1939 and their marriage. Can I ask how to access the details of their marriage such as her father’s profession, please?

RespondingToYou · 11/08/2024 22:50

Margery’s parents’ marriage, in case anyone’s interested.

So what happened to Margery Rigby – the girl who added the family cat to the Census? - (spoiler I couldn’t find too much)
invisiblecat · 12/08/2024 14:31

Another2Cats · 11/08/2024 21:15

I really hope it didn't come across that I was having a go at you in any way?

"...are you sure you have the right marriage"

This is entirely the correct question that you should always ask. Everyone can make mistakes when looking at marriages and this really is the sort of question that should always be asked.

So, thank you for asking me that question.

Basically, you were asking me, hey, show me your workings on this question rather than just the answer?

Have you considered Elizabeth Hetherington?

If I hadn't then I would be going "OMG who have I missed, could it be her?"

And if I hadn't considered her then you would be quite right to question how accurate my answer was.

I was just trying to "show my workings" as to how I arrived at the answer.

Not at all. 🙂

I think I'm probably as fond of family history research as you are. I just wish I had the time to devote to it these days.

Another2Cats · 12/08/2024 18:16

RespondingToYou · 11/08/2024 22:49

@Another2Cats thank you for the detailed explanation about Margery’s d.o.b. on the 1939 Register. I’m now up to speed with Margery and James in 1939 and their marriage. Can I ask how to access the details of their marriage such as her father’s profession, please?

The transcript is on FindMyPast (image below) but if you want to view the original documents then you will need to make an appointment at the Essex Records Office in Chelmsford.

So what happened to Margery Rigby – the girl who added the family cat to the Census? - (spoiler I couldn’t find too much)
OP posts:
Another2Cats · 12/08/2024 18:30

TeenToTwenties · 11/08/2024 20:10

Is it possible that second wife's child was in fact Margery's?

It's not impossible.

I have certainly had examples like that in my own tree where a child has been raised by the grandparents while the real mother has gone off and got married to a different guy later on.

I think in this case it may be unlikely. Where I've seen it happen before is where the mother has gone off with another guy.

Probably the only way to know for sure would be if a descendent of the second child, Christina Catherine, did a DNA test and then no DNA matches came back that connected through the second wife Margaret then that would be strong evidence that Margaret was not the mother of Christina.

If that were the case then it would likely point to Margery being the actual mother.

But I don't think that's very likely (anything is possible though).

OP posts:
RespondingToYou · 12/08/2024 19:46

Thanks for the pointer to Essex records @Another2Cats. Those for Cheshire only go up to 1910 so I didn’t consider looking!

Yampy · 12/08/2024 19:53

Thank you to op & others for this, really enjoyed reading about Margery 😊

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