it was a specific bit of malware which changed the DNS setting in both affected routers as well as all the related machines, hamster. The FBI has dealt with it & are continuing to run the related server/s in Latvia (???) but supposedly willl be closing the whole thing down on July 9 - this is the warning which comes up on google on affected systems, that after July 9 they will no longer be able to connect to the internet. (\link{http://www.pcworld.com/article/256045/google_alerts_users_your_computer_appears_to_be_infected.html\PC World article}) (it was Estonia. I was close!)
DH finally got over himself, changed all the PCs/laptops & also the DNS setting within the router, but now I can only open MN of my regular sites, & only via Firefox. We can connect to AOL, & can read & send email, but the AOL homepage can only open with a blank screen (iyswim) - we get the frame, & it says "loading" at the bottom, but it never completes.
Some pages, eg google via AOL, say "Done" at the bottom but are still blank. Google will open properly on Firefox, & will conduct a search, but most links won't open (that PCWorld one I just found is a first). It seems as if there is enough speed (or whatever it is) to open text pages, but not anything else.
Is there something wrong somewhere with our broadband connection? DH has spoken to AOL several times, they go through all the routine checks & say they can see that the router is connected & working properly, we have replaced the filter, & the cables from filter to router & router to PC but it makes no difference. This has happened since the DNS settings were altered, but is it because they were altered, or has something else happened, either connected to the change or by coincidence elsewhere???
We haven't specifically asked if there are any problems with BT locally - I know they were introducing Infinity here around now.
There are a couple of people locally who offer to fix any & all PC problems 24/7 - one of them says no fix, no fee - thinking of calling one of them!
Haven't run spybot - I have Norton installed & tend to assume that can take care of most things. Anyway I can't install spybot now, the page won't open 
DH can connect remotely to his systems at work & then we can access the internet via that connection (though it's slow & unstable)
It's weird. Any other helpful suggestions gratefully received (as long as they don't require connecting to any websites with pictures!)