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Forces sweethearts

If you have a family member in the Royal Navy, RAF or army, find support from other Mumsnetters here.

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who says they are sweethearts?

56 replies

CuttingCod · 18/06/2007 17:32

amen

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jinxed · 19/06/2007 05:19

honestly though, i dont like it.

Quite like MB's suggestion of "The Patch" though

Scootergrrrl · 19/06/2007 06:25

Dh's posh officer mate calls his wife the long-haired general or the domestic chief of staff

jcscot · 19/06/2007 08:39

I've heard 'long-haired general/RSM' (depending on husband's rank) several times but the worst one was 'CinC Nag(Home)' - the wife concerned was not happy! My husband occasionally refers to me as the SO1 (Domestic) - normally out of my hearing, natch. When he calls me 'darling' then I know he's done something stupid.

JustineMumsnet · 19/06/2007 11:28

Forces wives doesn't work for those not married (spose we could have forces partners but sounds dreadful imho) and some of the in the know suggestions are a tad obscure we feel.
any other thoughts?

yaddayah · 19/06/2007 11:39

I know this sounds shockingly simple but how about just Forces

Or is that just too blindingly obvious

sweethearts is boak

MamaD · 19/06/2007 11:47

I think 'The Pads Patch' which is what most Army soldiers would use, but Navy and RAF may have different ideas - plus what about those 'partners of' that aren't married and then don't qualify to live on the Patch?

I don't see what is wrong with the name you chose - and why we are listening to someone who wont be in here that much in any case? I'm a 'squaddie' in my own right and I'm not offended / sickened by the term Sweetheart........ is it really that much of an issue?

paulaplumpbottom · 19/06/2007 11:48

Doesn't every wife want her husband to think that they are his sweetheart?

ForcesSweetheart · 19/06/2007 13:55

Don't see anything wrong with it myself

Shoshable · 19/06/2007 13:57

What about just Join the Forces, it would cover all of us. Married or not, children and in some cases mothes of.

Marmite · 19/06/2007 14:02

How about "Is the Force with you?"

or

"Forces WAGS"

Shoshable · 19/06/2007 14:05

Love 'Is the Forces with you' how are you doing out there Marmite, BF returneed home 5th May they only got quartered today!!!

Marmite · 19/06/2007 14:06

Poor things, where have been staying? With relatives I guess, poor them. Life is still hot hot hot here

Meansleeves · 19/06/2007 14:09

er......no, paula, not really

Shoshable · 19/06/2007 14:23

They are going into private hiring and as always the Army left it till last minute to find a place for them, and then realised they had two dogs, so it was difficult to find them somewhere, they had to stay with her parents.

Marmite · 19/06/2007 16:18

Oh no, that's rough

mylastrolo · 19/06/2007 16:23

"is the force with you" is very funny i like your humour but prefer "forces Sweethearts" you can be a sweetheart if your married or not? I like being a sweetheart

lionheart · 19/06/2007 16:27

Are there not also going to be mums who are serving in the forces as well?

mylastrolo · 19/06/2007 16:33

true lionheart but they are usually married to military personal. I don't know!! let's not get all politicaly correct

lionheart · 19/06/2007 16:50
Wink
MamaD · 19/06/2007 17:13

Hey lionheart and mylastrolo:

I am a mum who is serving. My husband was in the forces, but left last year. You are 'allowed' to be a single mum in the forces, but it can be very hard because you are still expected to do all duties / exercises / deployments as the 'singlies' (and so you should).

I'm lucky that I've got dh around otherwise I would find it all too hard.....

lionheart · 19/06/2007 17:44

Hi, MamaD.

To be a single parent and in uniform does sound tough.

lionheart · 19/06/2007 17:45
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lionheart · 19/06/2007 17:50

That sounds better.

BellaLasagne · 19/06/2007 17:51

DH used to call me 'C in C Home Front' meaning Commander in Chief.

Why does MNHQ want a name?