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Inside Out - did anyone see the previews yesterday?

90 replies

Clayhead · 13/07/2015 08:08

I saw it and LOVED it - vintage Pixar IMHO. It was funny and bright and sparky but also sad, bittersweet, poignant. It prompted a lengthy discussion afterwards about feelings and how we manage them and how this changes as we grow.

It had those hidden depths all the best Pixar films have.

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spookyskeleton · 08/08/2015 22:56

I went with a 9 and 6 year old - I assumed it was going to be the usual Pixar movie but was really surprised by how complex and sad it was - towards the end, there wasn't much relief from the sadness.

Ds1 wasn't moved by it at all but DS2, who is very sensitive, was sobbing uncontrollably for about the last half hour, particularly at the part in the memory dump (you all know which bit I mean).

I really wish I hasn't taken him now as he was really affected by it and I don't think I will be buying the DVD.

CoogerAndDark · 08/08/2015 22:59

The Emotions could be seen as ironic but the whole Father's Job/move thing, the fact he wasn't listening and didn't take up cues, the way Riley's head was alive with nuance but the preteen boy's was just

Debs75 · 08/08/2015 23:29

Took DD's, 5 and almost 7 to see it and they loved it, as did DP and I. My Dniece, 10 with Asperger's would struggle with this as she overthinks everything and struggles hugely with emotions. She would love the happy parts but would not be able to cope with the sadness. Kinda what they were getting at with Joy taking control, everyone wants to be happy but sometimes sad memories are the most powerful as they can shape your future.

Both DD's were a little upset when Bing Bong died, the 5 year old needed a cuddle and did have a few tears they also didn't like her running away. I think the 6 year old thought she wouldn't like to run away from her family.

I loved the adults emotions. Was this the dreaded stereotyping? I'm sorry but stereotypical portrayals like this are just plain funny. I loved the teen boy scared of a girl. Lots of boys go through that stage and it made everyone laugh.

DontCallMeBaby · 08/08/2015 23:57

DH didn't come with me and DD - I told him about the teen boy bit and he said 'yeah, I can remember feeling like that'. I told him about the cats at the end and he liked the sound of that (me to DD - 'that explains a LOT').

DD liked it - but despite the fact she's 11 and tearing herself apart over leaving primary school and basically being Riley right now didn't seem emotionally affected. Unlike the woman behind us who audibly sobbed over Bing Bong and was asked by her small son 'why are you crying mummy?' I liked it though. It's made me think quite a lot - I've never gone as far as expecting DD to be 'my happy girl', but I do struggle with other people's unhappiness. DD needs to be able to be sad, and not feel she's letting anyone down.

I must go back and re read the article I read about the psychology of it - there was something about recalling happy memories in sad times, and how it can make the memories sad. That seems like another interesting point, especially at the moment when DD is thinking a lot about past times at school.

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 09/08/2015 00:53

To me it felt like there was an element of the emotions "growing up" as well - Joy realising that relentless happiness isn't the way things should be and that emotions aren't all just one type.

DH isn't backward in saying when he doesn't like Pixars, or other animated films (he hated Planes for e.g., preferred Fire and Rescue but not much) but he enjoyed Inside Out. The only complaint I have is that they could have done more inside other people's heads through the film, like they did at the end - the end bit was great.

JohnFarleysRuskin · 09/08/2015 09:42

We all laughed at the teen boy going "GIRL!"- (except for Ds 14!) there were lots of charming moments and sweet references to other films (Chinatown apparently)
Dh was uncomfortable with anger and fear (but especially anger) being characterised as male emotions in a girls head.
I wonder if an easy way round that would have been to have all emotions female in the girls head/ and all male in the men's heads. I think it was v funny when it went inside the mum and dads heads and would have liked more of that.

WhereTheFuckIsMyFuckingCoat · 09/08/2015 09:44

Thanks, Thumb. I mostly don't have much choice, as DH works away a lot, but we've found a way to make the movies work (I'm TM btw, in case it wasn't completely obvious Grin)

I agree with you re the emotions growing up - I think joy learned that she'd been a bit of a dick! Smile

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 09/08/2015 10:39

Oh yes, I knew it was you Grin

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 09/08/2015 10:48

JFR - I think that the male and female characterisations in Riley's head are to signify pre-puberty, maybe? By the time they hit adulthood, the emotions are all the "correct" sex for the head they're in.

And anger and fear aren't the only negative emotions, disgust and sadness can be seen as negative as well - and they're female, so they're matched pair for pair. The only odd one out is Joy :) and I guess it's fair to have her as female in a juvenile female head Wink

TheseSoles · 09/08/2015 12:30

That's what I don't like, why can't they all be female? A girl isn't being male if she's angry and a boy isn't being female if he's sad.

Just seems like such a mixed message to say it's a film about talking about emotions and then stereotyping them.

My kids are still little and in that really sensitive to stereotypes stage before they are able to be a bit more critical about these things and I don't want any of those messages about different emotions for different genders bring reinforced.

TheseSoles · 09/08/2015 12:41

All female in girls head and all male in boys I meant!

Hellionandfriends · 09/08/2015 13:51

I loved it. Recommend aged 5 to 14

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 09/08/2015 14:04

I went with the DCs (9 and 11). We thought it was ok, nothing special at all, a little sad but certainly didn't move any of us to tears, didn't notice anyone else crying in the cinema either. The stereotyping annoyed me and the journey of Joy and Sadness was interminably long. A shame as the concept was great.

drinkscabinet · 09/08/2015 17:32

I didn't like the emotions in Riley's head being mixed genders (thought they should have been all female) but DD1 said 'everyone is a mix of their Mum and Dad and those are the things she got from her Dad'. So she was able to rationalise it quite happily (whereas I of course was looking out for the fact that they couldn't possibly have an all female cast because of all the stereotypes about boys not wanting to watch films about girls watches DS inches from the screen while he sings along to Frozen).

Could be an interesting film if they do a follow up about puberty and the male emotions become female in her head. How many stereotypes would they fit in then?

HuftysTrain · 09/08/2015 21:00

It sounds hideous.

BootsTheCat · 09/08/2015 21:11

I took DD, age 3. I had no expectations and had seen no hype (which is miraculous in itself).

I absolutely loved every minute of it. It was way over my DD's head though. She did sit through it quite happily (her first cinema experience, actually, so I think just for that reason she was thrilled to be there), at one point she asked when we could leave but she got over it.

The volcano short was weird, I wouldn't watch that again. As someone earlier said, it was like a student production.

I would say it's for 7 and older. I'm a massive Pixar fan, it's my favourite to date.

musicalendorphins2 · 10/08/2015 08:21

I took an almost 10 year old. She liked it and so did my dh.

Kangaroosjump · 10/08/2015 18:48

I loved it, DS (3) loved it till near the end then asked to leave over the imaginary friend stuffSad we tried to see it again the following day after some discussion about seeing that it gets happy in the end (reassured by cinema staff) and he still didn't sit through it, had to leave at same place

Tbh I enjoyed it so much il go see it alone to see the parts I missed (i live near a super cheap cinema though)

VirginiaTonic · 11/08/2015 20:16

Wow, lots of uncontrollable sobbing on this thread. I didn't see anyone upset when I saw it. I thought it was ok, and an interesting concept. I don't think it has sparked any major soul searching for my dd who is 9, but she enjoyed it. It won't be up in the classics though, and not one I would consider purchasing.

Calmonthesurfacebut · 12/08/2015 11:05

I saw this with my nearly 11 year old and have to say we both enjoyed it, including the short at the start. I can't say there was any sobbing on our part, but DD did clasp my hand once or twice.

DD loved all of it and was transfixed,mi thought the male female characters were great and Mum and Dad made me laugh out loud, surely these stereotypes were ironic, at least that's how I took it.

I can say I was happy with the running away bit and going through Mums' purse, DD has said in the last about running away, however, the fact that it wasn't a great experience for Riley and confirmation that this is a 'normal' emotion, probably counteracted any damage.

DD has dyspraxia, so it was really good for her to visualise emotions in this way and that all our emotions are needed, sadness has just as much a place as happy, so that was good for us. There is too much emphasis on children from their peers and to some extent parents, to have that 'happy all the time' existence.

The film also opened up us talking about how we feel sometimes, part of Dyspraxia is feeling negative about yourself and DD certainly suffers from feeling quite down, however, when I asked who she thought was in control in her head most of the time, I was relieved to hear the Happy is at the controls, although apparently anger does keep trying to get a hold too! Ver insightful.

I have avoided asking her who she thinks controls Mummy!!! Shock.

The film works on several levels, younger kids will find it colourful and stimulating, slightly older ones a good story. Teens will relate to some of the more esoteric bits and parents well, have a chuckle!

Did you know that Riley is Boo from Monsters Inc. all grown up?, the child laughter of Riley is from the Movie so could Bing Bong be a Monster that made her laugh? Also there is a theory that Riley may be Mrs Fredrickson as a young girl, (UP), as some of her memories are the same of those from Mrs and Mrs Frederickson in the movie too.
Wink

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 12/08/2015 12:15

I don't buy that last theory re. Mrs Frederickson - we see her in Up as a young girl, no resemblance whatsoever to Riley (I don't remember the memories you're saying match)
Didn't know the bit about Boo though, that's cute.

AcademicOwl · 12/08/2015 15:53

We were in the sobbing uncontrollably camp for most of the 2nd half of the film. DS (5yo) was v loud and I felt v guilty about taking him to see something that made him so upset... DH reassured me that most of the other children in the audience were crying too...
Not my favourite Pixar film; not much to relieve the sad bits at the end. Melancholy & lachrymose Sad

KevinKnowsImMiserableNow · 12/08/2015 22:21

Tripledent gum la la la la la laah

Calmonthesurfacebut · 12/08/2015 22:24

Not dissimilar!

Inside Out - did anyone see the previews yesterday?
Inside Out - did anyone see the previews yesterday?
Kanumoov · 12/08/2015 23:30

My teen who is not one for emotions said it was so sad and wondered how younger children would cope!