'I don't quite understand the argument that something is not a womens' rights issue because 'the vast majority of women are against it'. The vast majority of women will not ever need a late term abortion so can't know how they will think and feel until they do. There is an AMA thread on here where a midwife explains why she is in favour of as late as necessary and it changed my opinion of this issue because I realised I am not all women.'
The thing is, as I said earlier, this is a conflict of rights type of argument, with most women believing that foetuses beyond a certain point of gestation do have a right to be birthed live, if the woman's life is not at risk, and if the foetus does not have significant abnormalities.
You do not need to have personally experienced something to have an opinion on it. There are very very few women who would believe my baby, my right to kill it post birth. However, some have been desperate enough to want to do this, and believed that they had no other option. This is not a reason to legalise infanticide, however.
The idea that all women won't suddenly wake up one morning and decide to terminate a healthy foetus at 8 months 'for shits and giggles' also does not really hold water. Most women are not criminals in any sense, which is why the female prison population is so much smaller than the male one. However, this is not a reason to decriminalise everything that women do, merely because something must have driven them to do it.
Personally, I think that we should stay where we are on abortion law. It is a difficult issue, but I do think that the massive impact being of being forced to birth and bring up a profoundly disabled Downs syndrome baby, for instance, outweighs that particular foetus's right to life.
With all these complex issues, ethics do change over time and the right to live in society with all its benefits always comes with some loss of autonomy. Look how many rights we have temporarily lost over COVID. We no longer have the right to reject a vaccine and travel or enter certain venues. That is a loss of bodily autonomy. There is no absolutist solution.