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Mental health

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 20:40

I feel so so bad tonight. Have never posted on here before, but I am not going to do anything stupid, I just want the desparate feeling to stop

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Chuffchuff · 11/02/2015 13:22

That's good to hear Smile

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Freeflying · 11/02/2015 09:43

I feel lots better this morning thank you to everyone who helped me x

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 23:20

Thank you chuffchuff

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 23:14

And you can breathe fine, you are just panicking, as you say Flowers

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 23:13

I do have to go soon but please please please Stop saying you wind him up! He's not a child, he's a grown man and is responsible for his behaviour. Even if you are a complete cow bag and do your best to 'wind him up', he should be able to walk away and calm down without giving you a load of verbal abuse. He should be able to cope with an argument without having to get plastered at the pub Sad

It's your choice, your life, but Please stop blaming yourself.

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 23:04

He's not like this all the time and not for no reason I wind him up. I really can't breathe well I'm panicking too much I think

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 23:03

Anyway, I hope you're ok and you manage to get some sleep tonight Smile

I'm sorry, I've got to go in a mo, early start in the morning. You are welcome to pm me if you need to talk again.

Just don't let yourself forget that you're not to blame for your P being an arse! And maybe talk to your sister...?

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 22:56

Not surprised you're stressed out, anybody would be waiting for a nasty drunk to walk in.

Please just try to remember that you are reacting perfectly normally to a shit situation. This is not your fault, he is the one going out an getting drunk and treating you badly. You are just sitting at home looking after your baby.

Do you want to carry on your relationship with this man? Genuine question...

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 22:46

One of them does she doesn't like him , the rest of them are either friends with him or they don't really pay attention
Im feeling panicking

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 22:26

Sad he sounds a right charmer.

Do your sisters know what he can be like? Do you talk to them about him?

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 22:22

He's a prick when he's drunk he's loud and stupid and doesn't take no for an answer. He's not violent as such but he is just arsey. I am tired I can't be bothered and he was drinking before he left and his text was weird so I guess he is drunk

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 22:14

How does he behave when he's drunk then? Do you feel safe atm?

From what you're saying your H doesn't sound that great - sorry to be blunt Smile

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 22:11

Sad that's a Shame but good that you keep in touch
He said he is coming back today I think he's drunk though. I feel shaky again

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 22:08

Yes just one sister - she's a nice person and we keep in touch but we're not really close - her H is a bit of an arse Sad

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 22:04

I see my sisters quite alot my brother lives in the middle East
No not nosey ! Do you have siblings too?

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 22:02

So do you see your sisters & brother much?

Nosey aren't i? Grin

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 22:01

Sorry I crpss posted with you

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 22:01

And seriously, listen to me - it's not your fault he called you a dumb bitch. Nobody has any right to speak to you like that, and definitely not somebody who is supposed to love you.

Re the meds - could you see a different gp at your doctors surgery? Doesnt sound like yours is listening to you.

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 22:00

I have friends but quite superficial friendships.. I guess more acquaintances than friends. Yes I have my mum and dad close but they are both in ill health and I have four sisters and a brother too

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 21:56

Btw what you said about not having many friends to talk to - It's really easy to get isolated when you have a baby. Never too late to start building bridges with friendships that have lapsed though!

Do you have family around?

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 21:56

I meant right now but I am sitting down now

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 21:55

I don't feel like it helps and this medicine is horrible I missed one day and fainted twice but my gp doesn't want to change it. I was make him angry he was at the end of his tether he said. I asked him to take his glass in the kitchen and he said he would do it when he wanted so I told him he was being unfair and now he is angry. I never mean to annoy him but I'm shit at being in a relationship.

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 21:54

Do you mean now as in literally now or what to do now about your P?

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Chuffchuff · 10/02/2015 21:52

Sorry xposted. Glad this is helping Smile

Do you think your medication is helping you? Do you see your gp regularly for monitoring? Although I have to say, medication or no medication, having a partner who speaks to you like that is going to make anybody feel shit. Trust me, it's not you...

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Freeflying · 10/02/2015 21:51

Thank you chuff
I don't know what else to do now

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