Very quick background: my dad has dementia, diagnosed ages ago now, I think nearly 10 years. He's been on a real journey, struggling at home/various different care homes (we've had quite difficult behaviour from the disease!) and hospital wards, I honestly lose track.
He moved to another new home in Feb, this was entirely arranged by a hospital social worker, I didn't have any input into the move (I don't have poa). They needed to get him out the cottage type hospital he was in very quickly (as beds are like gold dust). The home is OK generally, the care workers are lovely but it's a very remote location (so beautiful grounds but hard to actually get to).
Anyway, the manager (who doesn't come across as lovely!) said that I need to sign 3 different contracts and wanted them done there and then 5 days ago. I'm not a people pleaser and said I'll need to read them first.
I took them home and there's no way I can sign these, I would be financially responsible for all sorts of things (like anything my dad damages-which could definitely happen, a £50 monthly 'activity charge' which my dad wouldn't be able to participate in but is down as mandatory for all residents, any fee increases beyond what my dad can afford and the council would be willing to pay etc).
When I went back in on Friday, I popped into the office and said (politely) I won't be signing this. The manager was very rude and cross and said that I had to. I just continued to say no. He's phoned a couple of times since but I've said I can't sign the contracts. He's extremely pushy and rude, I've just been repeating "I won't be signing anything, you'll need to discuss anything further with the council".