Hi there - I have not visited for a while but another mum pointed this thread out to me and seeing as I contributed a bit in the past, I thought I would add some more thoughts, if that's OK.
I know some of my previous posts got quite long so I am going to try really hard to be as succinct as possible...
Originally, misdee said "it also reminds me of my little brother who had books memorized at an early age, but he turned out to be dyslexic. is this normal?"
There are seen to be two types of dyslexics - those who have a neurological disorder that truly prevents them from developing the skills they need to become a successful reader... and those that are a product of the system failing to teach them to read effectively. Unfortunately, the latter far outnumber the former. Many children can get by for a while memorising books and disguising the fact that they can't actually work out the words for themselves. Then they lack the appropriate knowledge and skills to do that when their memory reaches overload point and can no longer hold all these separate words, many with similar shapes.
misdee also said about her dd that "as she will read a word on one p-age and then see it on the next page and forget it."
This shows that she lacks the skills to read a word independently, with knowledge and understanding. She has clearly used guessing strategies and they are not working. She must also be frustrated, too.
aero said "She uses the pictures for guidance, and reads from memory. I think it all goes in though and eventually they remember the shape of the word and if pushed, can sound out the letters and try to put them together to make sense."
This is so true of how so many children are taught to read - and don't you think it is outrageous? Wouldn't you be shocked if we learnt to drive by watching someone else doing it plenty of times, then getting in and pressing some pedals and twiddling some knobs and going through enough trial and error that it eventually came together, if we were still alive? Wouldn't it be ridiculous if we taught music by sitting someone at the piano with one of Mozart's full compositions and saying, well, come on - play what you can manage, make the rest up; I'm sure it will all come together eventually. Many children do learn to read despite this chaos... but SO MANY DON'T. Please don't let your child be one of these.
lol @ dinosaur; "something called synthetic phonics, which is double Dutch to me but seems to have done the trick with him!"
it does appear to be terribly complicated, but done from scratch with Reception children with the teacher possessing all the right knowledge and skills, it is so straightforward and children talk about 'long vowels' and the 'schwa' sound like they were nursery rhymes or their favourite tv programme. Well, not quite, but you get the idea. All the parents of children in my classes were amazed at how much knowledge there was that can be easily understood - if someone would just teach it to you!
Littefish - you said; " need to learn many different strategies when starting to read."
Sadly, they don't and I can't wait for teachers to be properly trained in the teaching of reading. If children are just taught how our written language is actually composed, then they don't need any other strategies at all - strategies which often just result in wild guessing full of inaccuracies or stilted reading as sentences are revisited to work out missing words, or broken off to study the pictures. Do you really think children should learn to read by guessing? Do we learn anything else this way? (Estimation in maths is not the same thing...1 a reading equivalent would be skim reading, perhaps, which is a more advanced skills once the basics have been met, as estimation can only happen when a person has a basic grasp of concept of number.)
All the other strategies we put children through are either a) a shortcut to get them feeling or looking like they are reading while they gradually acquire the skills to really do so - or not - or b) a collection of guessing games which delay the process of really reading. Many children learn to read using these strategies despite the chaos because they have the strengths to work past it. Many do not.
Pixiefish said "it will fall into place for her misdee". Sadly, it might not - I really do thing parents need to be aware of this. SO many junior and secondary teachers and classroom assistants see the children for whom it does not fall into place - visit the TES staffroom to read so many sad accounts. Often, then, it is too late for them - our ability to read and take on all this language business is at its height when we are young and have just learnt to talk and we begin to lose it after that if it is not promoted correctly.
Enid said "I seem to remember phonics being discouraged when I was young as there are lots of words that can't be spelt out phonetically?"
You are probably right - in that 'traditional' phonics is wildly simplistic and woefully inadequate. The way I was 'taught' to 'teach' phonics was pretty much limited to the '26 alphabet sounds' which is ridiculous. Our written language started from our spoken words, so the first thing is to begin with those sounds and learn to recognise how they are written. There are about 45 speech sounds. Learn these, and their most frequent spelling, then the alternatives and pretty much every word in the language is perfectly phonetic. (I would disagree with aloha - sorry aloha! I'm only being pedantic!! - in that even 'the' is fairly regular in that 'th' spelling for the 'th' sound is quite regular and the 'e' spelling for the 'schwa' sound e.g. indistinct vowel sound, is also quite regular. In truth, most words have only a bit of a tricky bit in it. I think only 'one' and 'eye' are truly weird.
Littlefish - what is a vowel blend?!! I don't mean to 'pick on? you - but I am just responding to a few messages in order and while I acknowledge that you are doing a fab job as a reception teacher (hardest job in all of mainstream education) and am sure you are doing your best, that can only be so good in the light of the information and training we are given and the amount of time we can give to analysing our own practice. Again, I really don't mean to have a go - it's really because I am so cross we are short changed here! I was really livid when I moved to reception and realised I knew pretty much nothing about teaching children to read because in Year 1, although most of my children read extremely well, I always had a group who forever struggled and I now realise how needless this had to be. I found out all I now know myself and if I had just been adequately trained to start off with, it would have saved me and awful lot of time and many children an awful lot of frustration. There is no such thing as a vowel blend - a blend is two or more sounds put together e.g. cl, spl etc. ai, oa, ee, or etc - not sure why you put that in the other list - are merely long vowel phonemes. Yes, phonics is taught as part of the NLS, but so inadequately. If it were taught properly at the outset, there would be no need for all the other strategies.
Your strategies for coping with 'w' words, for example - and I've done them all myself in the past. But why get a child to remember 'the hen in when' when if they were just adept at recognising 'wh' for the 'w' sound with a list of all the words for which this is the case, it would be oh so simple to sound out. The mistake is lumping all these 'w' words together when they all contain differing levels of the alphabet code. I do 'what' and 'want' where the 'a' is for the 'o' sound - which always happens after a 'w' sound in words like 'wash' 'wasp' 'swan' and 'squash' to name a few. 'when' will come with 'wheel' and 'white' etc and so on. Then the children get perfectly accustomed to recognising the words for the letters and sounds that actually exist there and pick it up so much more quickly.
Chocolate girl - fab post. Saved me saying most of what I was going to and also from mentioning all the links and great reading! Diane McGuinness is my GODDESS.
OK, probably still went on a bit much, but I wanted to cover these points.
I typed up a summary of the Diane McGuinness book for colleagues for whom I wanted to be aware of the contents but I knew would never find time to read the whole thing. Leave your e-mail here if you are interested and I will forward them out so you can get the gist of all her research.