To clarify my position regarding my own kids'
education:
I made the point earlier that there is very often a conflict between what is fair and equal, what is for the general good and what you are prepared to do to ensure your own kids' success and happiness.
I am not for a second suggesting that private schools (any more than grammar schools and faith schools) are fair. I have a conscience about my choice. However, a very important difference is that I am not asking taxpayers to stump up for my kids' selective education. I am paying for it myself.
I have also been at pains to point out earlier that my choice to send my kids' private is very much based on the fact that the education system is so riddled with inequalities and unfairness (even without private schools). If it were genuinely fair and equal my kids would go to my nearest school. Near my house (a very deprived area), because of Govt policy on 'choice', because of faith schools, because of league tables and SATS and all the rest of it and just because of the area itself there are some very partilular problems in the schools and in the community (which may be similar elsewhere but it is recognized at local and national level that they are particularly bad where I live) which mean that schools are very divided by social class, ethnicity and faith. I do not want to adopt a faith (hypocrisy and using taxpayers money unfairyl), I do not want to move to the leafy suburbs (this would be anotehr form of hypocrisy) but I do not want my kids to be educated either in an entirley white school or an entirely Asian school. It is a terrible irony that the private school is the only school in my area which has a mix of ethnicities which reflects the ethnic backgrounds of the community.
I recognize that my choice makes me and my kids privileged. I recognize that my choice probably makes me a hypocrite. But what I am not saying is that my choice is fair, or right or in any way benefits anyone other than my kids and myself.
I am also not one of these people who says that comprehensive education is ok for some people and some kids deserve or need private edcuation more than others. It is my view that EVERY child would benefit from the small class sizes, individual attention, support and challenge, and lack of disuption which is offered in most private schools.
When people argue that grammar schools are good what they are actually saying (99% of the time) is grammar schools are good for me/ my kids. There are few people who would argue that grammar schools are good for those who don't go to them and the majority of people do not go to them.
I have a view about the education system, I have a veiw about what makes it unfair and unequal (which is what drove me to my decision to educate my kids privately), I also have a very, very clear vision about what would make it better partly because I teach in it, partly because I pay taxes (although don't benefit from the state education I contribute to), partly because I have kids.. In a truly comprehensive system, without faith schools, grammar schools etc and if the Govt would invest it what really would make a difference to kids' lives (ALL our kids) which is reducing class sizes and ensuring more and better trained teachers and support I would be delighted to send my kids to the local school.