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Waiting for rest of class

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Perimenopausal42 · 10/03/2026 22:51

My DS7 in year 3 has started saying he's finished his class work and is waiting for others.

He's mentioned he's reading his book which is fine but the other day he said he was doing his steps ( making hit watch count my moving his arm)

Today I asked him to make a note of how long he's waiting some times it was a few minutes but in English he waited in 3 different occasions one was almost 10 minutes.

My question is , is this normal, shouldn't they be saying if you've finished that do this?

He's asking me to give him stuff to do in this quiet time.

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ForAmusedHazelQuoter · 11/03/2026 22:46

NobodysChildNow · 11/03/2026 19:07

My dd said in y6 she was so bored, she’d fantasise about villains or zombies breaking into school and plans various routes of escape/where to hide/ how to get to the kitchen to get defensive weapons in her head!

Sadly the bright child doesn’t get much challenge in state school.

My DC’s school was fantastic for gifted DC.

MrPickles73 · 12/03/2026 06:47

We learnt in lockdown how inefficient the school day is.

We found primary school very good at differentiating work for our children although wheel spinning did set in around year 3. We moved them to a private prep which tbh was not as good at differentiating the work and this led to behavioural issues (being told off for reading books! wandering around etc.)

Teachers will tell you the kid is not getting 100% and therefore can't go any faster etc..

rockinrobins · 12/03/2026 07:30

ThesebeautifulthingsthatIvegot · 11/03/2026 20:16

I'm not saying that the child shouldn't have some input. But there is no evidence that he doesn't.

In my class, I will often give input eg. "have you included all of the criteria in your writing?" or "Use estimation to check that your answers are reasonable." I have taught the children how to do these things and the children in question definitely understand how. But they don't. They sit there "waiting" and probably go home and tell their parents that they're "waiting".

Don't get me wrong - some teachers do let children sit and "wait" for too long. But it isn't always how it sounds.

Yes I get what you're saying, it doesn't really matter what's actually going on though and not much point speculating. An adult just needs to go and find out and give appropriate support whatever that is.

PorridgeEater · 12/03/2026 19:09

I remember often finishing first and the teacher would give me some colouring in to do. I did not think I was learning anything from this but did it anyway.
Your child is one of a class of perhaps about 30? Unfortunately there will be times when the teacher has to attend to one of the other 29.
It's a hard job being a teacher!

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