Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

Education

Join the discussion on our Education forum.

Do you agree with the UK school attendance policy, of fining parents?

147 replies

TwinklyTaupePanda · 28/02/2026 09:46

If you are a teacher do you agree with the current UK school attendance policy, of fining parents? What are your thoughts about the focus on attendance, 'getting the child into the building at all costs', the policy of 'not supporting home learning'?
If you are a parent, what are your thoughts?

If you have a child with additional needs, do you feel discriminated against, when family holidays during busy school times, almost always mean your child is not able to be in those busy noisy environments; and the alternative is risking a fine?

OP posts:
Coconutter24 · 02/03/2026 13:48

Madthings · 02/03/2026 09:15

Why shoukd they be treated the same. I think fines full stop are nonsense, those that can afford it just pay and dont care. They dont help families who are struggling with attendance especially not as is common whrn its due to unmet needs either educationally or needing support from social care systems.

But the reason children with Disabilities can sometimes have time off authorised is so they can access things that those without disabilities can access easily in holiday time, but they cant.

A term time holiday or day off can be a reasonable adjustment so a family can access things that they simply cant during term time. My own child and their sibling had a day off, as I explained previously for a Christmas activity, the only SEN friendly quiet sessions were run on school days. Thankfully both schools saw the importance of them doing a lovely activity that met needs as a family. Every other family could go to all the sessiins that ran every weekend over a 10 week period. We had the choice of 2 days, both were school days. Maybe if organisers put on sen friendly quiet events at the weekend we would have more hope of going. But no the sen friendly sesssions wre invariably at the awkward inconvenient time when no body wants.

Some children just cannot cope with places in school holidays, my youngest included, beaches, parks, museums, any kind of activity that most people can just go to he simply cannot manage when its busy. Same with public transport etc.

There is a reason we have laws about reasonable adjustments.

Holidays for a week or two weeks I do think rules should apply to everyone. They are not essential they are a luxury. A day off for an activity doesn’t sound to unreasonable if once or twice a year not every other week. The thing we have is so many children with SEN needs so it would obviously have to be at the discretion of the head for an authorised day off based of if the child actually needs it otherwise we’d have large amounts of children in and out of school continuously which would be disruptive.

tsmainsqueeze · 02/03/2026 18:25

sparrowhawkhere · 02/03/2026 06:34

Evert parent thinks they know what’s best for them and many don’t.
I know of families taking multiple term
time holidays, taking children on holiday who are kept off ill at the drop of a hat, children who are massively struggling with work who then have a week off. You can look at children and their families at the age of 4 and know that they are going to go through school struggling and their parents don’t care and see it as schools job to sort out.

You have pretty much said what i said and i agree with some of your comments, but read what i said -5 days , my children had excellent attendance and very little sickness thankfully ,have now all left school and are contributing members of society.
I repeat those feckless irresponsible parents are not my problem, and many parents actually do know what's best for their children despite your opinion.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 02/03/2026 18:30

BotterMon · 01/03/2026 20:15

It doesn't bother me per se as fines are low but the rules are bonkers. Why is it that in a two parent family both parents are fined, that really pisses me off. Why should two parent families be discriminated against?

The other thing that's mad is that 4 days doesn't incur a fine but 5 days does so if you take a week where there's an inset day or a bank holiday there's no fine.

Because they have both taken the child out of school.

That's not discrimination, it reflects the fact that there are two adults who have made the decision, rather than one.

SheilaFentiman · 02/03/2026 18:58

@BotterMon I think both parents are fined even if they are separated and one parent arranges the holiday? But I may be wrong.

Certainly as @NeverDropYourMooncup says, if two parents share a household and make a joint decision, it makes sense to fine both

The other thing that's mad is that 4 days doesn't incur a fine but 5 days does so if you take a week where there's an inset day or a bank holiday there's no fine

Why? If the benchmark is missing five days of learning, then a week with an inset or bank holiday only has four days of learning to be missed. This seems quite sane, what is mad about it?

mathanxiety · 03/03/2026 03:22

wiffin · 01/03/2026 21:14

They can't regulate it. It's market forces, supply and demand etc.

I would love to take a 4 week holiday in January with my kids. Because the weather is best in parts of the world then, flight cheaper in term time. But I don't, because I value my kids education and I accept that I can't afford it in the summer (plus monsoon). That's life.

Nobody is entitled to a cheap foreign holiday.

The six week summer holiday is ridiculously short, and drives the desire to take children out of school during term time.

A company that employs a lot of schoolage children will not be able to honour all requests for two weeks off during the unusually short school summer break. This experience is in contrast with that of parents whose children get a longer summer break from school (practically every other western country, in other words).

MayasJamas · 03/03/2026 06:19

Can I ask, for those who think it is a parent’s right, and beneficial for children, to take them out for holidays in term time, should this apply to teachers’ children also?

SheilaFentiman · 03/03/2026 06:42

A daisy brooch on my work jacket :-)

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 03/03/2026 09:45

MayasJamas · 03/03/2026 06:19

Can I ask, for those who think it is a parent’s right, and beneficial for children, to take them out for holidays in term time, should this apply to teachers’ children also?

I wouldn't mind! I remember when I was in Year 6, our teacher went on holiday and we had a supply teacher who brought a new approach and different knowledge to the topic we were working on.

Kirbert2 · 03/03/2026 10:24

Coconutter24 · 02/03/2026 13:48

Holidays for a week or two weeks I do think rules should apply to everyone. They are not essential they are a luxury. A day off for an activity doesn’t sound to unreasonable if once or twice a year not every other week. The thing we have is so many children with SEN needs so it would obviously have to be at the discretion of the head for an authorised day off based of if the child actually needs it otherwise we’d have large amounts of children in and out of school continuously which would be disruptive.

It is at the discretion of the head. They will also apply exceptional circumstances at the discretion of the head to all children, not just SEN children but reasonable adjustments will apply to them including not missing out on experiences due to their disability which doesn't just apply to things that are essential.

I was allowed to take my son out for a week back in October. It wasn't essential but it was for a specific reason that could only happen during that time and it was approved as an exceptional circumstance so we didn't get fined.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 03/03/2026 10:27

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 03/03/2026 09:45

I wouldn't mind! I remember when I was in Year 6, our teacher went on holiday and we had a supply teacher who brought a new approach and different knowledge to the topic we were working on.

My DD1's teacher went 'on holiday'.

She was actually in hospital and then recovering from losing a baby.

Fearlesssloth · 03/03/2026 12:00

Parker231 · 02/03/2026 08:08

Did you query why the syllabus was suspended? At DT’s school lessons continued until lunch of the last day of term.

Don’t be silly. He’s in yr 2. Most primary kids have ‘fun’ days in the last few days leading up to the holidays.

Parker231 · 03/03/2026 12:01

Fearlesssloth · 03/03/2026 12:00

Don’t be silly. He’s in yr 2. Most primary kids have ‘fun’ days in the last few days leading up to the holidays.

Some - not all. DT’s school maintained the syllabus until lunchtime on the final day of term.

HobGobblynne · 12/06/2026 11:57

hopspot · 28/02/2026 10:23

I’m a teacher. I think children should be in school as much as possible as missing lessons is hugely disruptive to learning for all children.

I don’t agree with attendance awards.

I think the real issue is the price of holiday time holidays in comparison with term time holidays. School staff are also hugely at a disadvantage as they have no choice but to book holidays when it’s expensive. This is what needs to be changed.

But then school staff don't have the cost of holiday clubs for the 14 weeks they aren't in school. There's swings and roundabouts for every career choice.

HobGobblynne · 12/06/2026 12:00

MayasJamas · 03/03/2026 06:19

Can I ask, for those who think it is a parent’s right, and beneficial for children, to take them out for holidays in term time, should this apply to teachers’ children also?

I couldn't care less, if they want to take a week unpaid to go on holiday, that's fine by me. Of my 4 DDs going through school I don't think we've had many years where they've had the same teacher all year, for various reasons. It hasn't impacted their learning.

SJM1988 · 12/06/2026 12:08

As a parent I do agree with the attendance policy and fining. I agree children should be in school as much as possible, illness expected. But I also do take me children out for special reasons (family wedding the only one really). I know that that fines are not targeted as the parents taking the odd few days here and there, they are trying to target persistent absences (although capping at 10 missed sessions does catch anyone taking a weeks holiday). It might not be the right path but the government need to take some path to tackling it.

HobGobblynne · 12/06/2026 12:13

SJM1988 · 12/06/2026 12:08

As a parent I do agree with the attendance policy and fining. I agree children should be in school as much as possible, illness expected. But I also do take me children out for special reasons (family wedding the only one really). I know that that fines are not targeted as the parents taking the odd few days here and there, they are trying to target persistent absences (although capping at 10 missed sessions does catch anyone taking a weeks holiday). It might not be the right path but the government need to take some path to tackling it.

They really aren't targeting persistent absentees. The overwhelming majortity of people fined are people taking a weeks family holiday, who are back in school and back to full attendance by the time the FPN comes through. The fines aren't shaping that behaviour, they're increasing year on year.

CloudPop · 12/06/2026 13:00

mathanxiety · 03/03/2026 03:22

The six week summer holiday is ridiculously short, and drives the desire to take children out of school during term time.

A company that employs a lot of schoolage children will not be able to honour all requests for two weeks off during the unusually short school summer break. This experience is in contrast with that of parents whose children get a longer summer break from school (practically every other western country, in other words).

Imagine the uproar if a 3 month summer holiday was introduced!

NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/06/2026 15:48

HobGobblynne · 12/06/2026 11:57

But then school staff don't have the cost of holiday clubs for the 14 weeks they aren't in school. There's swings and roundabouts for every career choice.

How do you think that GCSE, BTEC and A level results days happen? Or how staff get paid in August? Or the academy financial year end is done, free school meal entitlements are dealt with, files are transfered between schools and essential works are completed?

There are plenty of staff who not only cannot take holiday during term time, they also have to be in work for much of the holidays. Im guaranteed one week in summer, the one with 1st August in it. Dp (who works somewhere else) might be allowed to take part of that week. The rest of the period is absolutely not.

Nstate · 12/06/2026 16:31

In my opinion the fines are way too low to act as a deterrent for missing school. They should be increased to stop parents from doing this. I strongly disagree parents should be allowed to take their kid out during term time - it’s disruptive for everyone including the other kids in the class. We already have enough holiday time which is way more than my annual leave allowance. Sure you can argue they learn more during holiday but how is the government going to differentiate between people sitting on the beach on their phones all day and those taking their kid to the Vatican museum.

I have two kids myself.

Sesquioxides · 12/06/2026 16:37

I'm a teacher (not in England) and I strongly disagree with it. I don't think kids need to be "seen in the building" to be safe. I think we need to go back to trusting parents and stop making the state interfere with private lives of families, and stop legislating to the detriment of ordinary people going on holiday based on occasional outliers who will do shitty things regardless. Because let's be fair, this isn't about child protection or they'd send a CP officer to the house and launch an investigation immediately rather than fine the parents after the fact. That's just the spin they've put on it to get English parents to swallow it hook, line and sinker. I also think it's appalling that both parents in a separated couple get fined.

HobGobblynne · 12/06/2026 16:48

NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/06/2026 15:48

How do you think that GCSE, BTEC and A level results days happen? Or how staff get paid in August? Or the academy financial year end is done, free school meal entitlements are dealt with, files are transfered between schools and essential works are completed?

There are plenty of staff who not only cannot take holiday during term time, they also have to be in work for much of the holidays. Im guaranteed one week in summer, the one with 1st August in it. Dp (who works somewhere else) might be allowed to take part of that week. The rest of the period is absolutely not.

Apologies, teachers not school staff.

Of course teachers will work some holiday days, but the bulk they aren’t required to be in school.

HobGobblynne · 12/06/2026 16:50

Sesquioxides · 12/06/2026 16:37

I'm a teacher (not in England) and I strongly disagree with it. I don't think kids need to be "seen in the building" to be safe. I think we need to go back to trusting parents and stop making the state interfere with private lives of families, and stop legislating to the detriment of ordinary people going on holiday based on occasional outliers who will do shitty things regardless. Because let's be fair, this isn't about child protection or they'd send a CP officer to the house and launch an investigation immediately rather than fine the parents after the fact. That's just the spin they've put on it to get English parents to swallow it hook, line and sinker. I also think it's appalling that both parents in a separated couple get fined.

Of course it isn’t to do with safeguarding becuase when I call mine in sick, no one comes to check on them. The absence is authorised and they move on. If I tell them we’re on holiday, the same but the absence is unauthorised. So if im fined, they don’t need to check to see where the child is? Worth the £80 to let the bruises heal if you’re an abuser isn’t it!

New posts on this thread. Refresh page