OP - with the best will in the world you don’t know what you are talking about.
Sadly many, many children don’t have anyone at home to help them learn to live reading - many households have NO children’s books. Even worse now they are competing with phones! Many children (and adults) are dyslexic. In the past not everyone learnt to read, not everyone loves it as adults either.
If you learnt to read in the 8Os you would have used some phonics,(c-a-t) it just wasn’t called that and we weren’t taught individual word sounds (ou, ow, th, etc) and the letters weren’t sounded properly - muh rather than mmmmm.
The best is a mix - a foundation in phonics, learning tricky words by sight. This is what most schools do. Some kids get it very quickly and fly ahead, for others it is a much slower process. The kids that fly would probably do so either way, it’s the ones that find it harder that need the phonics.
OP - your opinion is based on your ‘belief’ and your own background but the teaching of phonics is based on research, evidence and experience. Giving kids books that they can’t read is not going to make them love reading. At home you probably read aloud to your dc from a book above their level and they will learn a love of books from that. Sadly you are in a minority. Many children find it a very difficult process and need a gentle, gradual approach, the teachers will be giving them books that they can access. Learning to read isn’t primarily about learning to love books and reading for pleasure (as privileged people we often forget this) - its primary focus is to teach literacy so that people can function in everyday life. just giving them ‘fun’ books for them to guess at and get wrong - that really would put them off for life!