Not having a go EndlessLight Your advice to SEN children’s parents is valued on here.
I’m railing against the failures of UK governments to fund a national education system that I stupidly assumed was there to give all kids their legal right to an education. It isn’t.
It’s overwhelming for parents trying to deal with their children in crisis, and to somehow also continue to work, while also trying to skill up enough from scratch to represent ourselves legally. There’s a whole culture of school and local government inertia and gaslighting us about what our children’s needs are and the solutions that they need.
Parents have to wait years for NHS professional assessments to evidence their children’s needs and to suggest strategies to help, or pay thousands of pounds if they can to get them privately, bringing it down to just months on waiting lists.
All this time and effort. Just for our children to get the same access to a suitable education as a neurotypical child has. While wasting years of vital school time that the SEN child can never get back. In what other arenas of life do parents have to do this? It comes from governments creating resource scarcity and systems not trusting or listening to parents.
Parents in need, the charity do offer a form to take bids asking for help, but their website says they can’t do fundraising events so it’s not a given that parents can get help.
The IPSEA helpline is totally unavailable, I have never seen a booking vacancy. I check for that several times a week.
In theory there are charities to step in where the state doesn’t provide support but in reality they can’t be relied on. I know you are posting in good faith and thank you I do appreciate the signposting.