Wow! I wonder how many people on here pontificating and judging have a child with SEN or tried to get an ECHP? How many have been let down by the provision for a ND child in the state system?
My guess is not many, or either you have been privileged to get a fully supported place at a great state school.
The fight for support for an SEN child is very real, it’s exhausting, seeing your child struggle in a class of 30 plus children, not being able to read, because they process differently and no one is there to support them is heartbreaking, when you know they are actually very bright!
Instead, you send them to a private school, 16 in a class; at 7 they couldn’t read, at 8 their reading age is two years ahead. It’s costing nearly all your salary, £15,000 but you know you’re doing the best you can for your child and they fly!
imagine all that progress being taken away, because of an extra cost in their education?
With an eventual diagnosis of HF autism, Dyspraxia and Dyslexia, my child continues to fly and is off to the University of Surrey next week. She will be supported by Uni and has been awarded DSA - something else this Government are wanting to axe.
Not all those in private schools are loaded, 40% of our school were on bursaries on scholarships as they were talented. Their state school put them forward for entrance exams because they knew they could achieve far greater things.
I won’t apologise or feel guilty for doing what was right for my child, which is what many of you seem to want on here.