"No, that is incorrect. Many people do not have “other options” when it comes to the emotional stability of their family and DC after an already traumatic pandemic experience and cost of living crisis."
100k per year gives you far many more options than families who have this and do not have this level of money to spend.
"People like me are angry for many reasons:
a) Brexit - I still cannot really get over that self harm and the fact Labour have specifically pledged not to take us back in. Bigoted small mind thinking that our nation has displayed. Clearly they are just hankering after the votes of the bigots who took us there in the first place."
Labour will not win seats if they promise to take us back in, it will be a re-run of the last election. Brexit is awful, but it is almost entirely a Tory project ( campaigned for by them, petitioned through Tory MPs in Parliament, campaign led by them, deal agreed by them).
It is not within Labour's power to "take us back in" either. The EU would have to agree, and although it would likely welcome us back there would have to be significant negotiation over it.
2."the pandemic - when I worked 14 hour days trying to restructure small businesses and help them and their families out late into the nights, but was told I am not a key worker and my DCs are not welcome in school! And the constant “holier than though” and divisive type of thinking that has continued around the NHS and all sorts since then."
Gosh I'm sorry, did school's struggling to provide both online and in person classes with massively limited resources not simply jump to your tune during an unpresented world wide crisis? I think the "holier than thou" stuff might just be your perception, Junior Doctors are striking, again, because, again, their pay discussions have failed. They certainly aren't be treated like that.
"I am far far more interested in this than the exact income bracket they are in"
Using the data, the top 10% of households, but with far more in the top 5%. The proportion of children who are educated privately outside of this is close to 0 in every other income decile.