Yes.
There’s an odd paradox on mumsnet:
Private school parents and their children are snobbish, entitled idiots - to the extent threads are started by people whose children are terrified of going to certain universities as they may have to mix with poshos - and yet these very parents would be the saviours of state schools were they obliged to use them
There's a lot of odd paradoxes on Mumsnet.
Eg. Parents who choose state = good, fair, care about inequality Vs parents who choose private = pushy, very wealthy, don't care about inequality, the source of all inequality in the state sector, probably a Tory or champagne socialist
But then you realise that there's probably a lot of parents choosing private and have low mortgages or rent because they've chosen to live in an affordable area Vs state school parents who are paying through the roof to have the right house in catchment. Then add in that the wealthy parents who top up and spend on education are probably helping the state school be excellent!
There's a dominant, or loud, view on MN that it's acceptable to spend a huge amount of money on opportunities for your child, including buying in catchment, music tutoring, prep for 11+, lots of expensive enrichments, GCSE tutors, sports coaching etc, but the second someone chooses to spend money on private fees so their child can access all of that within the school day they're an evil Tory who hates poor people.
Embarrassingly I had a very black and white view of this topic but it's a lot more complicated than I first thought.