I am currently engaged in a battle with DS's school about his GCSEs and I'm not sure why they are pushing back, I'm hoping someone can help me understand it here.
Background: DS is in year 11, he will sit his GCSEs this school year. We moved to the UK from overseas last year. He was moved from the start of year 8 into the end of year 9, so he's had about 15 months less time in school than the other kids in his class. He was diagnosed with ADHD (inattentive), dyspraxia (fine motor, can't tie shoelaces, extremely slow and laboured handwriting etc.), generalised anxiety and major depressive disorder by a developmental paed overseas. He can't tolerate stimulants but takes intuniv. His inattention is severe and he's extremely distractible. He needs lots of help to do things like get ready to leave the house, we have frequent incidents of things left on (taps, oven, hob), losing everything, going out without keys, bus pass, phone etc etc. School work is a battle and his confidence is low. I have two neurotypical DCs who have none of these issues.
When he arrived into the UK in year 9 he was assessed by the school senco once, she said he doesn't need extra time but has applied for rest breaks and a reader. He sat mocks last school year and bombed out (most scores 2-3, some scores under 1), he kept losing focus and ran out of time.
I asked the deputy head if he could reduce the number of GCSEs he's sitting to focus on getting the grades he needs (at least a grade 4) in 5 subjects to allow him to access a place at college. The school he is in now has no sixth form.
The deputy head emailed back and said no, and basically said he needs to work harder. The email was astonishingly rude actually, so I'd obviously asked the wrong question.
I pushed back and was then offered a meeting! What do I need to ask in the meeting? I've been reading around I think I need to ask to see the results of the Senco's assessment from year 9? Should they do another assessment? Any help would be greatly appreciated as I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed.