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Dame Alice Owens if your child has additional needs

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orangeblosssom · 30/07/2022 15:54

The head of SEN is abysmal. He has very little knowledge about conditions such as ASD or ADHD.
The headteacher mentioned in an open day in the past, that the school is only for academic children and not for kids with special needs which is major red flag.

The fact that people can be academic and have additional needs is not catered for.

Neuro diversity is not acceptable in this school.

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interestingdays · 28/08/2022 00:43

newfriend05 · 30/07/2022 16:40

I saw the headmistresses video on the online open evening when we were in lockdown , I was horrified about their attitude towards SEN .. i'm surprised they can call themselves a state school.. just awful.. If your child has a special need just don't send them there

Do you happen to have a link to her talk?

interestingdays · 28/08/2022 00:44

Justamother75 · 10/08/2022 10:07

Unfortunately, yes. This is what our family went through. Schools treated our child as a troubled pupil. It took us more than seven years of fighting before we were heard. Schools preferred to exclude from all activities and punish with detentions, then change own approach.☹️

JustAMother75 please could we DM

Justamother75 · 28/08/2022 09:56

Yes, sure

TheSandwoman · 29/08/2022 13:00

rongon · 04/08/2022 10:53

Why shouldn't a neurodivergent child who is academically able go to a school that is very academic?*

I am not saying they shouldn't- I think it's appalling that some schools refuse to cater for the needs of the child and get away with being so open about it.
However, whilst we have a system that allows schools to select and pick a certain type of child then these schools get away with acting in this way.
I don't live far from the school and some of my DCs friends have been heavily tutored to get into the school, many of the parents are attracted by the type of child who attends.

But academically selective doesn't mean exclusion for all children with SEN as many of those kids are among the most academically able students.

TheSandwoman · 29/08/2022 13:02

What happens to the children who have additional needs and their diagnosis is not made until later on in secondary school?

This is a key point. Currently 4-5 years from referral to get a diagnosis with the NHS where I live, which means even if needs are identified early then children still go through most of primary school with no support. And that's before you even start the long process for an ECHP.

sjxoxo · 29/08/2022 13:08

I went to DAO and it’s not really a comprehensive - it’s selective with an entrance exam.. I don’t agree with the system, it’s created a situation in Potters Bar and the surrounding area where you either get into Owens on the exam - ok great - or you don’t and the other choice in Potters Bar isn’t a great one. Or you travel 30 mins or more to another school but further from where you live. Owens gets good results because they only take academic kids from the get go. I suspect their ‘added value’ to kids ability is actually pretty low. I enjoyed my time there though but agree the admissions isn’t fair at all and they are very selective. Same at A level- if your predicted grades aren’t great they won’t want you to stay for sixth form. X

sjxoxo · 29/08/2022 13:10

orangeblosssom · 01/08/2022 10:07

This school is only partially selective state comprehensive.
There are children who are accepted via sibling policy and through local catchment area.

The catchment area is tiny. Like a few houses that’s it. If you’ve got a big sibling intake one year, you are literally looking at a catchment area of a couple of hundred yards max! x

newfriend05 · 29/08/2022 13:19

@interestingdays no I can't find it , basically she said word for word if your child has got additional needs this isn't the school for time another schools would meet their needs better

newfriend05 · 29/08/2022 13:22

Them (Not time ) and others schools would be a better choice . As their expectations are high and their would need to have a quick pace of learning

interestingdays · 29/08/2022 13:22

Did she say this again in lockdown? What year did you hear her speak?

newfriend05 · 29/08/2022 13:24

interestingdays · 29/08/2022 13:22

Did she say this again in lockdown? What year did you hear her speak?

Definitely lockdown she went on to say their expectations were high and children without a quick pace of learning would get left behind and they Sen Department wasn't well funded

newfriend05 · 29/08/2022 13:25

@interestingdays .. It was saying if your child wasn't gifted we don't want them

ImaginaryDragon · 29/08/2022 13:29

WembleyWay · 01/08/2022 09:42

Why should she send a very bright but neurodiverse child to a local comp? Why shouldn’t her child have a seat at the table of a selective, highly academic school?

Such a backwards way of thinking.

This.

interestingdays · 29/08/2022 14:27

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Sladurche · 02/10/2022 09:01

I've had two children attend DAO. I wish I hadn't. The current headmistress has completely ruined the school's atmosphere; which used to be lovely under Alan Davies. Made the school into an ultra right-wing, cold, uncaring, hothouse and only cares about their reputation.

  1. It has an out-of-control bullying problem. It has a racism and homophobia problem. It has a misogyny problem. They are so keen to keep the academically gifted in school that the brightest could set fire to the chemistry block and dance naked around the flames and the headmistress would claim that they had addressed the issue sufficiently. The Pastoral Care room is full to the brim every breaktime of damaged and broken children. If you enjoy a school where the N word is graffiti in the bathroom, and the school feels that that word is acceptable in a historical context, then by all means send your child there. It is especially a joy for the LGBTQ+ community. God help you if you are gay. Or even just a bit "different".
  2. It has a serious off-rolling issue, both for GCSE and A level They try to carefully cover it up, but if you are not the type of pupil they want (smartly-dressed, middle-class, high-achieving and "conforming"), they will leave you to your own devices. Sometimes they will go so far as to send the undesirable pupils a list of "alternative provision schools you may be interested in" in order to try and get rid of you before your GCSE results might bring down their total.
  3. They expect you to give them a lot of money. Monthly direct debits, fundraisers etc. They even go so far as to stipulate on the admissions paperwork how much money the minimum amount they expect is.
  4. Their SEN/SEND provision is non-existent. They will not make allowances for you. If you need extra support, or special provisions....tough. In my opinion, if you have a child with additional support needs or medical issues DO NOT send them to DAO. Your child will not be able to perform to the best of their ability, however bright they are.
totilotipo · 15/04/2023 01:43

Belated thanks for all the contributions here, especially the last one. You saved me an awful lot of trouble and put into words the bad vibe I had when I looked round the place.

I went for a job interview so that my daughter would eventually have a place as we live nearby but not in the catchment area. It was during lockdown and would generally have made good comedy viewing for how weird it was. There was one bit in the interview where there had been some misunderstanding and the Head wanted to make sure I knew it was my fault (which it may well have been) but it really reminded me of that bit in Lord of the Rings where Bilbo wants to see the ring one last time....know the bit I mean? The facilities were amazing but I really struggled to muster any enthusiasm for working there.

I was just thinking about putting my doubts to one side and applying again and I'm pleased to say you've put me right off. My daughter has recently been diagnosed as neurodivergent (this term sounds a bit dated already). I'm shocked that the Head felt at liberty to say that kids with these diagnoses aren't welcome even if she thought it, which gives us some idea of the crowd.

I used to teach at a lovely school in Enfield where the emphasis was on the pupils' character and results came second. Each year one or two would leave to Owens or Latymer for 6th form. The poor kids who'd been asked to leave those places and came to us were utterly down-trodden.

Finally, the back and forth on this thread regarding the place of selective schools in the UK was really good. Its a fascinating topic that goes to the heart of what it means to live here. The whole system is elitist but I'm almost alone on the Left in believing that free selective education should exist as long as there are selective fee-paying schools - we should have both or neither. However, sounds like Owens is a good counter-example to give me some food for thought.....places like this are no longer serving the working class which was, once upon a time, the whole point.

Sorry this is long-winded - I'm feeling a huge sense of relief! Thanks again.

Peverellshire · 15/04/2023 13:48

Owens used to be a great comp
I believe back when it relocated to Potters Bar & served a mixed intake well. When & why did it become selective?

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