Hello, sorry, looking for more help!
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/dementia/5471968-what-are-the-chances-of-getting-my-mum-moved-near-me?reply=149726957
I've been trying to get my mother moved near me from London. The council won't move her.
They are saying I will have to move her privately if I want her moved, and then wait for a CHC where I live. Does anyone have any idea what this would actually involve? She needs nursing care. Would I have to get her private ambulance? Where would it take her? She has no money and I am just not in a position to pay for care home fees for any amount of time. I have two small children and my house is not in anyway set up for someone needing nursing care. I could probably just about scrape together the private ambulance costs. But it just feels like her current council would be quite delighted by me taking her off their hands and landing her on my council.