My Dad, 81, is becoming forgetful and a bit muddled. I live a couple hundred miles away so see them about every 2-3 months, mum lives with him and brother is local. All of us have noticed changes, me probably more so as I don’t see him weekly. Small examples (I’ve just been down this weekend)
- Tells a story and then may repeat it a few hours later
- Asks me about my children but says something like ‘how’s your eldest’ as he can’t remember her name
- Tells me he sometimes can’t remember where he’s parked the car when he goes out
- Tells me a story about his past but I know chunks of it aren’t correct, ie the dates are decades apart from what he’s telling me
Anyway, a few weeks ago I told him maybe there’s a tablet to delay things if it was early dementia so he went to the GP. He says she took a blood test last week and today asked him to remember a shopping list of a few items and then asked him some questions such as ‘what year is it’ and ‘what’s in the news’. He couldn’t remember what’s in the news but talked about athletics being on as he watches a lot of sport on TV! He could remember the shopping list. GP said he was fine.
I guess we were all expecting some early dementia diagnosis but he’s got the all clear, does that sound correct? Could it be just old age and getting forgetful?