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alternative sport to football - suggestions please?

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Mousie · 07/08/2007 19:50

hello

my dh plays football once a week (in theory) and absolutely loves it. the only way he can get fit, his favourite thing blah blah. except every other week he gets badly injured - broken toe, fractured ribs, ball in his face. you get the picture. he hates going to the gym, running, anything that feels like exercise and isn't a sport. I am trying to think of other sports he could do that woudl give him a bit of fitness but not get him injured and moaning on a monthly basis. he is resistant and shows up still at football whenever he is able. our bill for nurofen is going through the roof...

we are in london

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Gee72 · 08/08/2007 21:29

5 a side, 11 a side, all football can be dangerous. I got a compound fracture of my arm playing at one of those Powerleague places (barged into the boards by a fat git).

I've retired now.

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Mousie · 09/08/2007 10:26

5 a side that often turns into 7 or 8 a side

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Pan · 09/08/2007 19:20

if it helps, I used to play footie to a pretty good representative standard (equivalent of 'county'), and found badders to be alot tougher for agility and stamina. I stopped footie at a point somewhere before your dh sounds like he is now. fed up of getting kicked by pub teams. It's a loss, but he has to think flexibly (as well as remaining so..).

EricL · 10/08/2007 11:01

I was going to suggest something like badminton also.

He needs to find a non-contact sport really.

Has he tried the gym? Going to a leisure centre is a good option cos you can alternate between things such as that and badminton and swimming, etc. - all of which are demanding but don't involve injury if you are careful with your prep.

There is also a healthier social aspect to it as the shower and coffee-shop is normally a lot healthier (and better smelling) than the pub - which is where we would always end up after the footie.

harleyd · 10/08/2007 11:08

lol, does he actually want to stop playing football? or are you trying to get him to stop. he is a grown man fgs. i could just see my dh face if i said to him "ok so you hurt yourself too much playing footie, i am signing you up for badminton instead"

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Mousie · 10/08/2007 11:37

i came into the men's room to get lots of advice from the men - for which thanks. i suspected if i went into another corner of the talkboard i would get a lot of "who does she think she is ordering her husband to stop playing football"stuff. of course he is a grown man, of course i can't stop him doing what he wants. and of course when he is constantly injured i will try and suggest alternatives that might help family life generally.

Pan your comments very useful - thank you!

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Pan · 10/08/2007 17:49

Story - my dad was..wait for it..'All Scottish Amatuer Badminton Chamnpionship Quarter Finalist 1953'! (big game up there.)

ON his 60th birthday he challenged me to a three set game. I was 30, strongerand fitter. All the extended family had to watch.

He won. 21-0, 21-0, 21-1. I only scored my precious point because he was in fits of laughter at my thrashings round the court, as he stood more-or-less still in the middle of his court,whilst I tried vainly to return his perfectly placed returns, side-to-side, back and front.

oh how I laughed.

harleyd · 10/08/2007 20:20

thats pretty impressive, i have to admit i thought badminton was a bit airy fairy. but i have nothing to base this on as i havent played it.
mousie, i didnt realise i had wandered into the mens room soz

Pan · 10/08/2007 20:32

" i have to admit i thought badminton was a bit airy fairy.."

Noooo!!

'tis perfect as a footie alternative.

harleyd · 10/08/2007 20:42

but can you bet on it of a saturday afteroon?

southeastastra · 10/08/2007 20:49

i played badminton for the local sports centre until a 6th former whacked me on the head and said 'ooh bad luck' put me right off

BigGitDad · 11/08/2007 15:50

Bit late on this as I have been on holiday but how about rowing? Are you near the river?

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Mousie · 12/08/2007 15:08

yup, near the river and both of us used to row. guess time is against him on this one, commitment-wise. badminton tempts me too i must say! though i am sure having me tagging along is not what he has in mind..

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DrDaddy · 13/08/2007 13:01

I'm an ex-rugby player who is now a keen badminton player. It's a great work out, once you've got to a decent standard and is always followed by a couple of pints down the pub I find. Much better than squash. Has someone suggested mountain biking? (haven't read whole thread) That's a good social activity too...

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