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46 replies

Singlemum57 · 15/02/2026 06:46

So background. I have a mortgaged property, work and have a toddler. My ex recently left us. I only work part time so my salary doesn’t cover the bills for the house and childcare. So I applied for universal credit. I’ve been awarded less than £100 from universal credit. Which doesn’t really help as it still leaves a significant shortfall.
I’ve now found out I lose my tax free childcare (where the government top up what you put in) because I receive universal credit. So I’m now essentially back to a no matter position.
I’ve applied applied for council tax support. But I don’t think there’s anything else I can do? I can’t afford the fees with selling my house but essentially can no longer afford to live here

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Raver84 · 15/02/2026 09:23

You claim your child car cost back in arrears. So if you spent say 1000 in child care costs you would get up to 850 back the following payment. But you have to let them know what you've spent, add the invoice, payment from your bank.

I've found this fairly straightforward but they will reject it if not done correctly

Singlemum57 · 15/02/2026 10:03

TerrazzoChips · 15/02/2026 09:04

You need to up your hours at work and/or downsize the house. I’m a completely solo parent and all I get is single person council tax.

I have no option to up my hours, my boss has already confirmed this. And I’m struggling to downsize because I can’t even cover things like the moving costs

OP posts:
Singlemum57 · 15/02/2026 10:03

Raver84 · 15/02/2026 09:23

You claim your child car cost back in arrears. So if you spent say 1000 in child care costs you would get up to 850 back the following payment. But you have to let them know what you've spent, add the invoice, payment from your bank.

I've found this fairly straightforward but they will reject it if not done correctly

Do you just add the invoice as a journal entry to universal credit?

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plentyofsunshine · 15/02/2026 10:08

Holdonforsummer · 15/02/2026 06:53

Could you get a lodger?

You can't have a lodger in the house when you've got children! They haven't been police checked they could be anybody

TerrazzoChips · 15/02/2026 10:11

Singlemum57 · 15/02/2026 10:03

I have no option to up my hours, my boss has already confirmed this. And I’m struggling to downsize because I can’t even cover things like the moving costs

I know it’s hard but what are the alternatives? What do you want to happen? Perhaps you could release equity from the house? But that’s not ideal for long term. If you downsize you’ll get the equity which will cover the moving costs. It’s crap I know but you can’t expect UC to maintain the standard of living you had as a couple.

Overthebow · 15/02/2026 10:32

Singlemum57 · 15/02/2026 10:03

I have no option to up my hours, my boss has already confirmed this. And I’m struggling to downsize because I can’t even cover things like the moving costs

Start looking for a full time job if your current job has no more hours.

Pickledonion1999 · 15/02/2026 10:36

Is your UC statement correct ? Is your child definitely on there? Could you claim childcare costs through UC instead?
Child maintenance is disregarded for UC.

LandOfFruitAndNut · 15/02/2026 10:41

You need to pursue your ex for what he owes, find a full time (or at least more hours) job and speak to your UC assessor/ job coach to clarify your entitlement.

DeluluTaylor · 15/02/2026 10:42

@Singlemum57 there is a childcare section on the UC homepage. You add details of the childcare provider on there, they must be ofsted registered. You then upload the invoice and have to upload the invoice every month.

DeluluTaylor · 15/02/2026 10:45

Also re moving, I was in a similar boat. You can move cheaply. The solicitors have to be paid some fees upfront but not all. I have sold or given away most stuff so we will just have a small van on the day. It’s about 2K all together which I have had to find/ save for.
Let us know if you need any help, a lot of us have been through it.
If you can’t work more hours at present (doing it all on your own is exhausting!) then don’t. Can you speak to your bank re; mortgage.
And yes, your ex must pay!!

crackofdoom · 15/02/2026 10:46

Sunshineclouds11 · 15/02/2026 07:13

That doesn't seem right tbh.
Are you claiming the child element?
childcare element?

You don't get a childcare element with UC the way you did with tax credits- as in, you would calculate what your childcare costs were per annum and get paid the childcare element in advance based on that.

However, with UC you should get up to 85% of your childcare costs back after you have declared them in real time.

OP, there are extensive notes on how it works on the UC site when you log in, and you should read them (not throwing shade, it took me a while to get round to it myself).

ToKittyornottoKitty · 15/02/2026 10:48

Are you claiming back your childcare through UC? How much do you take home from work per month?

Sunshineclouds11 · 15/02/2026 11:00

crackofdoom · 15/02/2026 10:46

You don't get a childcare element with UC the way you did with tax credits- as in, you would calculate what your childcare costs were per annum and get paid the childcare element in advance based on that.

However, with UC you should get up to 85% of your childcare costs back after you have declared them in real time.

OP, there are extensive notes on how it works on the UC site when you log in, and you should read them (not throwing shade, it took me a while to get round to it myself).

Edited

Yeah that's what I meant, didn't word it right

Boomer55 · 15/02/2026 16:30

Tarantatar · 15/02/2026 08:25

Spousal maintenance is considered income for UC, child maintenance isnt. Have you declared it?

Spousal maintenance counts. CMS doesn’t.

Ihatemondays1962 · 15/02/2026 16:43

It does sound like you need to look for a full time job if you can't up your hours at your current job.

BeGentleMentor · 15/02/2026 16:46

You need to be renting and one or more people in your household being classified as disabled to bring in the big bucks.

Mingspingpongball · 15/02/2026 16:49

@BeGentleMentor
Thats really helpful to the OP isn’t it?
OP have you pursued CMS from your ex?

WildCountry · 15/02/2026 17:34

You should get 85% of your childcare paid. I’ve always found it very simple to claim and never had a claim rejected. Just upload the invoice making sure it shows the dates, contact details of childcare and child name and upload proof you paid it.

Whyarepeoplesuchwankers · 15/02/2026 17:48

Singlemum57 · 15/02/2026 10:03

I have no option to up my hours, my boss has already confirmed this. And I’m struggling to downsize because I can’t even cover things like the moving costs

Go minimalist, sell everything you can, you can look for cheap replacements on FB or Gumtree once you're in a new place. Aim to move things yourself or with friends by car, if it won't fit in a car, sell it. Or look at the cost of hiring a self driven van, that could be cheaper than trying to replace fridge freezer and washing machine.

There's two council tax discounts, solo occupancy which gives 25% off if there's only one adult in the household and council tax reduction which is income based, apply for both. The worst that can happen is they say no.

Get a second job (or a different full time one) if you're only part time and your boss won't increase hours.

Claim child maintenance from your ex. And childcare payments from UC.

HitMePlease34 · 06/04/2026 21:06

Boomer55 · 15/02/2026 16:30

Spousal maintenance counts. CMS doesn’t.

Then you just title the payment in the account child maintenance? Rather than having 2 separate payments into your account?

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