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Interesting BBC Documentary from1969

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Diversion · 30/08/2025 14:53

Talking about the cost of living and managing on an average wage.

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Kitchenbattle · 31/08/2025 09:35

What shocks me is the ages of these people…late 20’s but they all look 40!!

CeciliaDuckiePond · 31/08/2025 09:43

Kitchenbattle · 31/08/2025 09:35

What shocks me is the ages of these people…late 20’s but they all look 40!!

That's the lens of the 21st Century. It was normal in the mid 20th Century for people to adopt what we'd now see as 'older' hairstyles and clothes once they got married and started a family. I remember my mum setting her hair with curlers in the 1970s. She actually looked younger in the 1990s (her 40s/50s) than she did in the 1970s because she ditched the curlers and 'setting lotion' and let her hair fall into its natural wave.

GoingOutOutAgain · 31/08/2025 09:56

Thanks for posting. I love these documentaries.

HilaryThorpe · 31/08/2025 10:18

Madcats · 31/08/2025 08:36

Gosh. How interesting; I would have been 4 (with SAHM and middle management Dad).

I’ve not seen all of it yet, but what struck me with the first couple was that the lady had a shiny new Kenwood (plus accessories) on the counter (££££), also had a TV and a telephone. I’d love to know what on earth appeared in her mixing bowl.

The Kenwood Chef would be used for cakes, puddings, pastry, meringues possibly bread. My mother and grandmother used it all the time.
I got married in 1969, we were students at University and lived in a flat with fridge and gas cooker. We ate lots of vegetables with cheaper cuts of meat like belly pork, oxtail,sausages and scrag end of lamb casserole. The grocer sold bacon scraps and I used that to make Quiche Lorraine. Meals in Refectory were cheap, but not very good.
Five years later we had two small children and were both working full time, DH in the developing world of computer programming.

Stoufer · 31/08/2025 11:17

JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 30/08/2025 19:43

Just watched. Loved this! I think my favourite bit was the ex-primary teacher handing her kids a sandwich lunch to eat in the playpen/in front of the TV; there was something fascinating about that being just by-the-by when so much else of their behaviour and spending was scrutinised.

Thank you for sharing it.

I’ve only just started reading this thread, and have just watched the documentary - it was really fascinating. My parents would have been about the same age as the first couple, and had two children by 1969 (I came along a couple of years later).

@JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch What I remember about the early 1970s, there wasn’t such a negative view about television at all. (Although I have occasionally encountered friends of my age who say they weren’t “allowed to watch ITV” when they were growing up, as their parents considered it not quite the thing!). TV was very very sparse - there was maybe an hour of programmes for children in the late morning / lunchtime (“watch with mother”), but that was pretty much it, until later on. And children’s programmes were quite gentle.

Parenting (in late 60s early 70s) was also very weirdly strict and weirdly lax, all at the same time… so instances where I was put outside in the garden, in the pram, for lengthy periods of time, in the winter, as a new-ish baby, with a hot-water bottle tucked in at the side of the pram - as the current parenting theory said that it was good for babies to be outside.. Also leaving babies in prams outside shops while you did the shopping (as prams weren’t allowed in shops). Also I remember playing out in the street unsupervised from a very early age - and being taken on a walk to a canal bridge, and onto the canal towpath (maybe a mile away) by my siblings and some of the other kids in the street, when I was only 3! But childhood also felt fairly strictly controlled - smacking, lack of agency (as a child). It’s all very odd to look back on now!

RaininSummer · 31/08/2025 12:21

CheshireSplat · 31/08/2025 09:06

It also strikes me that this generation in the 1969 programme are now the notorious boomers!

I think of my mum as a boomer aged 84 but not myself aged 62 as although I scrape into the the definition by year of birth, my life and opportunities on the whole have not been the stereotypical boomer stuff like large pensions and huge benefits from housing price rises.

Spidey66 · 31/08/2025 12:25

I love binge watching those YouTUbe videos. The language, accents, opinions etc are fascinating.

Channel called Grove is full of them.

sundayfundayclub · 31/08/2025 12:25

@CheshireSplat turns out they did have TVs etc, listening to MNs you would think they all grew up licking the windows for snacks!

CreationNat1on · 31/08/2025 13:05

I find the couple living with the mother in law quite entitled 😅, they all seem a little resentful of any suggestion of manual labour or the younger couple paying for their own house. They want it all, stay at home mum and grandmum, free house, chain smoking school teacher.

CreationNat1on · 31/08/2025 13:07

The Salesman and wife leaving the children home alone to go to the pub!

Shelly369 · 31/08/2025 13:12

CheshireSplat · 31/08/2025 08:58

This is fascinating. I'm not far through but am obsessed by how slim the women are!

Interestingly, around this time fats were considered unhealthy and oils entered the scene. They’re connected with seed oils and health problems as explained by Dr. Chris Knobb. If you want the video link just say.

Hols23 · 31/08/2025 13:12

RaininSummer · 31/08/2025 12:21

I think of my mum as a boomer aged 84 but not myself aged 62 as although I scrape into the the definition by year of birth, my life and opportunities on the whole have not been the stereotypical boomer stuff like large pensions and huge benefits from housing price rises.

I think your mum would be part of the so-called Silent Generation, who came before Baby Boomers.

DrCoconut · 31/08/2025 13:23

sundayfundayclub · 31/08/2025 08:56

And one more, about the poor children of Islington who have never seen the sea:

There's still dc today who haven't seen the sea.

Absolutely. There are some who have never even been swimming at the leisure centre. When my DS's class went last year they had to do a sort of social story type prep session for those who had no idea what a swimming pool was like, and make sure everyone had a swimming costume.

IDontHateRainbows · 31/08/2025 18:22

sundayfundayclub · 31/08/2025 08:56

And one more, about the poor children of Islington who have never seen the sea:

There's still dc today who haven't seen the sea.

I bet my bottom dollar they won't be living in islington... unless they are blind or something

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 31/08/2025 18:27

Thank you for this! I fell down a rabbit hole and ended up watching things like May Day Bank Holiday Scarborough 1976 and Cost of Living in 1957. When I watched the 1969 one I got flashes of recognition (they had the same kitchen cupboard as I grew up with!). Saying that though my parents bought their own house on my dad's wages as a British Rail shunter. My mum was a SAHM until my brother went to secondary school in 1974!

MulberryMoon · 31/08/2025 18:32

Re people being slim. I think there were older women who'd put on a bit of weight back then. But less overweight younger people. Not sure if anyone watched the programme about the 1976 drought last night. They used this picture of older women queueing for a water pump.

Interesting BBC Documentary from1969
BreakingBroken · 22/09/2025 00:20

definitely a rabbit hole worth falling into.
the poverty in islington also touched upon immigration which i thought interesting as well.

Bbq1 · 22/09/2025 00:29

Placemarking

OverlyFragrant · 22/09/2025 00:34

Incredible isn't it.
Stay at home housewife. Single income below average salary. Yet, he saved for one year for the deposit to buy a family home in suburban London.

Kendodd · 22/09/2025 13:58

Will watch later!

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 22/09/2025 17:32

JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 30/08/2025 20:34

And one more, about the poor children of Islington who have never seen the sea:

Family friends of ours bought their family house in Islington in the late 60s because the area was run down and cheap!! It’s anything but now! The father of the family was from the East End. He’d only ever left when he was evacuated.

OverlyFragrant · 22/09/2025 18:18

IDontHateRainbows · 31/08/2025 18:22

I bet my bottom dollar they won't be living in islington... unless they are blind or something

Islington's child poverty rates is still quite something.
London has turned into a strange city where millionaires can live literally spitting distance from people living 4 to a room in a HMO.

IDontHateRainbows · 22/09/2025 18:26

My in-laws bought a massive townhouse in islington for 22k in the 1970s. Worth 2.5 mill now!

user1471538275 · 14/10/2025 14:24

@OverlyFragrant They saved by him working an 84hr week - so double full time and by spending very very little - certainly frugal compared to our lifestyles now.

I found the story of the £10 living room suite riddled with woodworm quite sad - burning that would have been dreadful for them - all that wasted money. I bet there was a row over who didn't check it properly.

I think they were talking about early on in their relationship - they had moved in with her parents when the children were born before buying the house - so maybe saving up at that time. Their boys looked about 9/12ish so I imagine the Kenwood was a new and very proud acquisition - not on Hire purchase though!

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