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Needing to reduce income to get free childcare

241 replies

Katie1186 · 22/04/2025 11:11

Hi all,

I earn over the £100k threshold and actually would be better off if I contributed £10k into my pension to qualify for the 30 hours of child care.

Has anyone done this where you have manually contributed after being paid or do I need my employer to do this in order to reduce my income??

I know people who have had their employers do it but I don't know anyone who has had to manually do this themselves.

Thank you so much in advance!!

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LittleBearPad · 22/04/2025 14:40

IVFmumoftwo · 22/04/2025 14:26

Yes they are. They have to pay full fees because they can't earn enough whilst high earners get the free hours

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8x8rznw9gyo#:~:text=England%27s%20childcare%20deserts,wanting%20spaces%20and%20more%20hours.

That says people need to earn more than £9,500. That’s well below the personal allowance threshold where tax would start to be paid.

MidnightPatrol · 22/04/2025 14:41

I dont think people realise quite how extreme the loss of childcare is - and when layered on top of the loss of the personal allowance, you get some silly rates which incentivise this behaviour.

On £110k you take home <£3,500 more than on £100k.

If you lose tax free childcare (£2,000) and 15 hours (Say £4,000)… you’re £2,500 worse off than earning £100k.

Why would anyone just tolerate that? It’s patently absurd.

My ‘100% tax’ rate will be from £100-140k next year with two in nursery. I’m thinking about going part time to achieve the same as OP - it makes the most financial sense.

No one seems able to justify why this enormously generous benefit is for 95% of parents but with this insane cliff edge for the remainder (who are paying masses of tax to fund these schemes)

User46576 · 22/04/2025 14:42

IVFmumoftwo · 22/04/2025 14:32

This thread makes me think that actually why bother working extra hours until my youngest starts school when I can work basic one day a week and enjoy the time with my children because my husband earns enough that UC will leave me alone? 🤷 If it is okay for the OP to bend the rules then so can I and other low earners.

With respect low earners are not net contributors- they are taking out more than they put in. Op earns enough that she is still a net contributor- she is paying for part of your government services as well as her own. why should she not structure her affairs in a way that work for her?

Nsky62 · 22/04/2025 14:42

Sunsweetsandandicecream · 22/04/2025 12:10

110%. It is people like op playing the system that are screwing those that actually need it over. Pay for it yourself op out of your huge wage...
We have a similar family next door, they are all scroungers and milking the government for every benefit going. One is working under the threshold to get benefits/wrap around care and meals, another is claiming for a physical impairment she doesn't have. They're all on every benefit going when there are genuine people who are actually struggling who need it, and are probably having to jump through hoops.

So report them, easy I hope

nearlylovemyusername · 22/04/2025 14:42

IVFmumoftwo · 22/04/2025 14:32

This thread makes me think that actually why bother working extra hours until my youngest starts school when I can work basic one day a week and enjoy the time with my children because my husband earns enough that UC will leave me alone? 🤷 If it is okay for the OP to bend the rules then so can I and other low earners.

Oh irony

How many hours do you actually work?

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 22/04/2025 14:43

TheHerboriste · 22/04/2025 12:17

How is what OP wants to do any different than women having kids they can’t afford, with their plan being to claim as much as possible via benefits and housing? For years and years on end.

At least she’s a taxpayer.

I agree

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 22/04/2025 14:43

Op you could also reduce your hours to a 4 or 4.5 day week and have more time with your child if that works for your career - that's what I did to stay under the child benefit cap

TheHerboriste · 22/04/2025 14:45

StMarie4me · 22/04/2025 13:53

Women having kids they can’t afford?

WOMEN?!

FYI I had my children married. He ran off to ££££. I raised them alone. I couldn’t really afford them at all but there wasn’t the help then and so they did suffer financially. I have never really recovered financially.

But I didn’t make them on my own. FFS.

Women have the ultimate control over whether pregnancies are terminated or not, so yes the choice of bio-sire and circumstances is ultimately theirs. Many people choose to have offspring in short-term relationships, or with awful men, or without preparation and savings and housing .

And then expect to be bailed out by higher earners like the OP.

User46576 · 22/04/2025 14:46

IVFmumoftwo · 22/04/2025 14:20

I don't want 30 hours. I just wanted the 15 hours at two but don't earn enough. So is on a low income had to pay up front and hope UC don't fuck it up (yes I work) whilst someone on a lot higher got it free. If you don't believe this read the article on the BBC about the present childcare situation of low earners having to pay for the free hours high earners get. Luckily I have just the free hours at three.

So op helps pay for your childcare via uc yet you think she shouldn’t get her own paid for? How do you think that is fair?

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 22/04/2025 14:46

whosaidtha · 22/04/2025 12:28

15hrs at my dds nursery would cost me £360 a month. Even if yours is more expensive I’m sure you can find £500 in your 8k+ monthly budget (more if you are a two income family) you could potentially have a joint income of 17k a month and your quibbling over paying childcare for the children you chose to have. It’s disgraceful.

She earns about £6k,
A full time nursery in London is about 2k with no government help.
Her mortgage is probably 2.5k. Bills another 500.
This leaves her with 1000 a month to pay for everything for her and her child. Some people might think that's a lot but it's definitely not a rich woman's disposable income budget. No designer handbags or ski holidays or Range Rover for her on that budget.

nearlylovemyusername · 22/04/2025 14:47

User46576 · 22/04/2025 14:46

So op helps pay for your childcare via uc yet you think she shouldn’t get her own paid for? How do you think that is fair?

she doesn't think... just spits the bile

JoyousEagle · 22/04/2025 14:47

IVFmumoftwo · 22/04/2025 14:13

And there are the low earners who don't qualify for the new funding who have to subsidise high earners free hours because they have upped the threshold for the amount of money needed to be earned per month.

They’ve upped the threshold because minimum wage went up. It’s the equivalent of 16 hours a week at minimum wage, which is the same as it was before.

BethDuttonYeHaw · 22/04/2025 14:47

overtothere · 22/04/2025 11:15

Yes, you can increase your pension from your 100k salary to get free support from the government.

Meanwhile, disabled people dependent on carers can no longer afford essential help and aids because the government can't afford the massive amounts of benefits being claimed and are stripping it from people who have no choice and genuinely need it. Shame they aren't morally tested instead of just means-tested.

What an arsehole of a reply.

OP is not doing anything immoral.

although I see there are a lot of ignorant arseholes on the thread

irregularegular · 22/04/2025 14:47

I earned a little over 100k in the last couple of tax years and have put the "excess" into a pension. I could have made extra payments into my employer's scheme but the first year I was a bit late for payroll, and the second year I decided I had more confidence in returns from the private pension so contined to add to that. Anyway, I just opened an account with Vanguard and put the money in there. It was very easy and pretty much instant. Then you just have to record it in your tax return later to get the taxes calculated correctly.

We don't have young children, so childcare isn't an issue. Even without that, the 60% effective marginal tax rate due to withdrawing the personal allowance from £100-125k is well worth avoiding. I'm actually someone who thinks that on the whole tax rates should be higher for higher earners including myself, but the effective tax rate between 100k and 125k is crazy. It goes down again after that which is really unfair and distortionary and badly designed.

So I think you'd be very sensible to put more into your pension if you are earning a little over 100k. It's perfectly legal and reasonable. And very easy.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 22/04/2025 14:48

Gandalfatemyhamster · 22/04/2025 12:44

@milkyteaformeso you’re saying OP really is so hard up she can’t find that £500 childcare money herself?

It's more like £2000 for a full time nursery place without government funding

Sofiewoo · 22/04/2025 14:49

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 22/04/2025 14:46

She earns about £6k,
A full time nursery in London is about 2k with no government help.
Her mortgage is probably 2.5k. Bills another 500.
This leaves her with 1000 a month to pay for everything for her and her child. Some people might think that's a lot but it's definitely not a rich woman's disposable income budget. No designer handbags or ski holidays or Range Rover for her on that budget.

And with a student loan and minimal pension contributions it’s much closer to £5k

nearlylovemyusername · 22/04/2025 14:49

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 22/04/2025 14:43

Op you could also reduce your hours to a 4 or 4.5 day week and have more time with your child if that works for your career - that's what I did to stay under the child benefit cap

Not every career will allow this though.
Now let's imagine OP is an NHS consultant - do we really want this to happen?
Just proves how stupid this cliff edge is and how ignorant is population who support it and try to guild trip OP

User46576 · 22/04/2025 14:51

Gandalfatemyhamster · 22/04/2025 13:50

@LittleBearPadbut I bet I work equally as hard. I just do a job where a 100K salary isn’t an option. But all it takes is someone’s loved one to end up in hospital or a pandemic and you realise how essential we are. We all need to pay taxes. Means testing should be used. I’m too well off for Universal credit, but I’m glad it’s there for others. I don’t bitch and moan about it.

If you’re only earning £1900 a month before tax (as you say) you should be entitled to some uc help with childcare.

User46576 · 22/04/2025 14:57

Katie1186 · 22/04/2025 11:11

Hi all,

I earn over the £100k threshold and actually would be better off if I contributed £10k into my pension to qualify for the 30 hours of child care.

Has anyone done this where you have manually contributed after being paid or do I need my employer to do this in order to reduce my income??

I know people who have had their employers do it but I don't know anyone who has had to manually do this themselves.

Thank you so much in advance!!

To answer your question op you can do it yourself by setting up a sipp if you want. Then you just need to do a tax return to get the benefit.

alternatively if your employer allows extra contributions into your scheme you can do that. But you don’t need to - it’s fine to pay after tax into a private pension. I use vanguard as the fees are low.

nearlylovemyusername · 22/04/2025 14:59

LittleBearPad · 22/04/2025 14:40

That says people need to earn more than £9,500. That’s well below the personal allowance threshold where tax would start to be paid.

to get £9500pa one needs to work less than 15h per week. I'd say these people don't need childcare at all

irregularegular · 22/04/2025 14:59

minipie · 22/04/2025 14:22

OP, it’s your “adjusted net income” that has to be <£100k

this page shows how adjusted net income is calculated

I think pension contributions need to be paid gross (ie out of gross salary/by salary sacrifice) in order to reduce your adjusted net income, but I’m not sure.

Why can’t you pay extra pension contributions gross ie by salary sacrifice? Will your employer not do this for you?

No you can make the pension payments yourself. It's just that the amount you subtract from your income to get adjusted net income is the "grossed up" amount. So if you pay £1000 into a pension scheme and the pension provider already adds in the basic tax benefit of 20% to make it £1250 into the pension scheme, then you have to subtract £1250 from your income to get your adjusted income for personal allowance purposes.

Emanresuunknown · 22/04/2025 15:01

overtothere · 22/04/2025 11:15

Yes, you can increase your pension from your 100k salary to get free support from the government.

Meanwhile, disabled people dependent on carers can no longer afford essential help and aids because the government can't afford the massive amounts of benefits being claimed and are stripping it from people who have no choice and genuinely need it. Shame they aren't morally tested instead of just means-tested.

Meanwhile if people like OP werent paying 10's of thousands in tax every year disabled people unable to work would get even less, they'd get sweet FA because there would be nothing to give.

Im pretty sure over half the UK population are net recipients, eg when all is accounted for they don't contribute anything, they take out more than they receive.

You don't bite the hand that fucking feeds you. Making salary sacrifice to your pension and thus reducing your taxable income is perfectly legal OP is making provision for her retirement so that she isn't expecting the state to fund her like half the UK population.

Bruisername · 22/04/2025 15:05

Also, unless op is planning on starting a football team, this is time limited

so maintain her high paying job but getting help in those difficult childcare years is a long term benefit to society

Stressmode · 22/04/2025 15:05

Whatever the cut off point there will be someone doing less hours or upping pension contributions to get free hours or whatever. At least the OP is a net contributor. Unless you pay tax on over 40 ish K a year you are not a contributor. You are taking out more than you are putting in. Most people never contribute.

dddilemma · 22/04/2025 15:05

As someone who can't work due to disability & may be affected by the upcoming cuts, I find it infuriating when people like yourself are attacked. You aren't the enemy! Everyone deserves to maximise their income for the benefit of their family! I think you will have a pension account with your provider which allows you to increase your contribution. If you don't, speak to your payroll. Will be much easier if you can have it done at source I would expect