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what can you remember your parents doing to save money?

280 replies

HoraceCope · 20/04/2025 10:54

we had to clean the bath with cold water
my dm would reuse foil

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PassingStranger · 27/05/2025 14:25

Taytocrisps · 30/04/2025 22:35

It wasn't so much what they did as what they didn't do.

They didn't buy a car because it would have cost too much - not just the cost of a second hand car but also the cost of driving lessons, car insurance, motor tax, new tyres etc. When you're living hand to mouth, those things amount to a significant outlay.

They didn't get central heating because it would have cost too much to get a heating system installed. Plus the gas bill would have been a lot more expensive. So we all huddled around the coal fire in the sitting room in winter.

They didn't go on expensive foreign holidays or even stay in hotels in Ireland. They would have needed a lot of hotel rooms for two adults and five children. If we went on holiday at all, it was a caravan by the sea. We went to Butlins once and thought we'd gone to heaven.

They didn't go to restaurants or pubs. If we went on a day trip, we brought packed lunches like so many pps.

They didn't buy new clothes if they could avoid it. I was bullied for wearing ugly, unfashionable clothes and I can't bear second-hand clothes now, even though I know it's better for the environment.

My parents were careful with food. It's not that we went hungry, but there were rules about food. For example, Dad usually cooked sausages and rashers on a Sunday morning. We could have cereal or a cooked breakfast. But not both. So if you woke at 7, you were expected to wait until 9 or 10 when Dad would have gone to mass, came home and then cooked a fry. You could have one Weetabix for breakfast, but not two. Mam bought Weetabix because it was cheaper than the likes of Corn Flakes and Rice Krispies. We moaned at length that our friends had Corn Flakes and Rice Krispies which were much nicer. And I think the free gifts were better. We rarely had fruit in the house. If we were hungry, we were told to have bread or a sandwich. Mam was always complaining about the price of eggs. If Dad had a boiled egg for his tea, we five kids would squabble over who got to eat the top of the boiled egg. A whole boiled egg for yourself would have been an unimaginable luxury. Treats were a packed of custard creams . A visit to a family friend (usually an older lady who didn't have children), which might involve being offered a glass of lemonade and chocolate biscuits, was a real treat.

Sanitary towels for four women was an expense Mam could have done without. You were given a packet of sanitary towels each month and expected to make it last for the duration of your period. It didn't matter that I bled very heavily for a full week and should have been changing the towels much more frequently. I ended up wrapping the used towels in wads of toilet roll, to make them last longer. Even though it made them bulky and uncomfortable.

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One weetabix, I doubt that would fill.you up. Hardly worth it.

IwasDueANameChange · 28/05/2025 21:52

80s/90s child:

  • shared bath water - completely normal
  • reusing foil and anything else that could be reused
  • father constantly switching lights off/appliances off at the plug etc
  • sewing clothes/knitting cardigans (always dodgy patterned fabric that was on a cheap deal or weird ugly wool colours)
  • only ever taking packed lunches
anywhere, never buying food or drinks out
  • less wasteful about food - leftovers always used for another meal, broth made with chicken carcass
  • never ever bought things like soup, cakes, pastry or pies ready made, they were always made from scratch at home
  • hand me downs as standard. Not just between siblings, something like a bike would go through 5 cousins before it got to me
  • never getting bought things between birthdays/christmas. If you needed something you got it for birthday or christmas.
  • anything like home improvements - painting etc, you did yourself, you never paid someone for that stuff.

My parents weren't poor. They had good jobs, we were absolutely middle class, ran two cars, had nice holidays etc. People were just far less wasteful and it was more normal to expect to spend your time making something yourself rather than spend money for ready made etc.

Bathingforest · 07/09/2025 17:01

Had lovely holidays on the Adriatic and Mediteranean coasts until I was 13. Then all holidays ended because dad saved the money for my uni but we lived up the hills near mountains and waterfalls so I just hiked instead and rode horses

HoraceCope · 07/09/2025 17:31

i remember, and i still do this myself, the water from the cauliflower is used in the cheese sauce in cauliflower cheese, so the sauce is half water half milk.

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Hastentoadd · 07/09/2025 19:20

HoraceCope · 07/09/2025 17:31

i remember, and i still do this myself, the water from the cauliflower is used in the cheese sauce in cauliflower cheese, so the sauce is half water half milk.

That makes sense from a nutrition point of view as well though

Holdonforsummer · 07/09/2025 19:38

Making their own elderflower wine. Lots of egg sandwiches for picnics. One birthday party, the activity was us kids going to the local woods and collecting things in an egg box each. And one Christmas, my sister and I asked for a Carebear and my mum got a friend to make us a fake one each.

CurtainCrisis · 08/09/2025 21:34

Green Shield stamps I think they were?

Being forced to sit in a sawdust blood-covered butchers floor at 5pm in a bidding war of offcuts of meat not purchased in store.

My dad would have a crib sheet with a list of dates and accordingly to what date it was, my mum was to use a specific credit card to maximise the interest-free period before the bill came!

Loaned out my car and charged them 25p per mike when I was overseas working.

Charged me rent at 25% of my income from my Saturday job at the age of 14.

Put my wedding down as a business expense to get the tax back!!!

Allthings · 10/09/2025 08:30

@Holdonforsummer People still make their own elderflower wine and make the most of other fruits growing in the wild such as blackberries. Not necessarily anything to do with saving money.

I think egg sandwiches have continued to remain popular with children’s parties and are far healthier than processed meats.

Doing things in nature and collecting things from nature are very popular. It’s massive in forest schools. It’s the sort of thing that has always been done with children as part and parcel of learning and keeping them busy. In essence a self directed treasure hunt.

The carebears may have been due to cost, but also could have been due to unavailability. Tracy Island springs to mind! You couldn’t get one for love nor money, so people made them.

NoraButty · 10/09/2025 20:22

Making two boiled eggs for my breakfast, and putting them in my coat pockets so I could heat my hands on the way to school. I’d eat them when I got to school

Bread and butter with every tea time meal to mop up the juices. It was cheap and filling.

Zanzara · 18/09/2025 22:08

Whambamfam · 20/04/2025 12:16

I forgot about the laddered tights! We used to use a glue varnish then in my teens years nail polish to stop the ladders spreading.

I used to sew up other girls' ladders with human hair in the playground.

SweetnsourNZ · 19/09/2025 08:31

ViciousCurrentBun · 20/04/2025 12:09

Shared bath water once a week on a Sunday night.
Clothes washed once a week and spot cleaning in between.
No heating except in the sitting room.
Never being allowed to drink milk or take anything ever from a kitchen cupboard without permission,

I remember the only heating in sitting room. Hated having to go to the loo as it was freezing out in the hall. And the constant yelling to shut the door. Lol

SweetnsourNZ · 19/09/2025 08:32

Glamorous24 · 20/04/2025 20:55

I always do this too.

My mil always did this. Problem is most of today's paper is so rubbish it would be hard to do now.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 19/09/2025 12:34

No heating before October half term, or in the morning.
Reusing and ironing wrapping paper
We never went on holiday as such, we went to stay with friends/rellies, or at least in their empty houses when they were away. Sometimes Norfolk, sometimes Kent, once Edinburgh sometimes France, sometimes my uncle’s caravan after his family holiday. I’d have love a week’s package holiday to Spain.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 19/09/2025 12:36

Also bread & butter to pad out every meal!

Antiopa12 · 07/11/2025 06:07

Putting cardboard from cereal box inside shoes as sole had holes
no takeaways ever
no children’s birthday parties but we did have a card and present
Xmas was one main present and a small stocking. Xmas dinner was lovely and I miss the times we were all together sitting around the table.
No eating out except cup of tea at the market cafe once a week. I was 18 before I went to a restaurant
No snacks in the house. We had some biscuits often a box of Ritz crackers on Friday evening when Dad came home with his pay We all loved school dinners
we did have an annual holiday visiting grandparents in Ireland
We had the big sack of potatoes delivered along with a large pack of eggs from the egg man.
We were 6 kids with both parents working

dynamiccactus · 12/11/2025 21:36

HoraceCope · 24/04/2025 19:39

my dm still saves bread bags

I started doing it about a year ago and can't believe I didn't do it before. Still buy freezer bags but obviously use far fewer of them.

I also don't put the heating on until November and switch lights off when we are not in the room.

I also remember no calls until 6pm and my dad constantly moaning about the phone bill. That's definitely an upside of mobile phones, inclusive call packages!

Prokovopera · 12/11/2025 22:54

Whambamfam · 20/04/2025 12:16

I forgot about the laddered tights! We used to use a glue varnish then in my teens years nail polish to stop the ladders spreading.

I still do this!

Genevieva · 14/11/2025 10:01

Always turning the lights out when possible.
Heating was only turned on if absolutely necessary. Our house was ancient and, not only did ice form on the inside of my bedroom windows, but I could see my breath when I breathed out. I used to change under my blankets.

Never eating out. We always took a picnic. Never bought an ice-cream, let alone a meal in a café or restaurant.

Dressing is on village hand-me-downs that had been worn by several other children we knew first.

Isekaied · 14/11/2025 13:13

Luckily my mum could sew.

So she used to sew most of our clothes when we were younger.

I had 3 older sisters.

So used to get a lot of handle downs

When our roof leaked into one fo the bedrooms.

We used to have a big pot on the floor.

At one time one of the bedrooms had 2 big pots in different places and I can still remember the drops falling down when it used to rain outside.

My parents had all us siblings doing packing wprk at home.

So we used to get these big boxes of little cards and tags etc. It was different designs each time.

And we had to sit and pack these tags into small.plastic bags and put a stickers on them.

If the stickers were not put on straight enough they wpuld reject the box.

And we would get a few pennies per box- think 200-250 packs per box.

So after school we used to be sat there doing packing. Different things at different times.

My mum used to use these tokens we would get to buy school uniform. She would buy other stuff from the shops.

Lots of other things that I can't remember right now.

We weren't rich but also not poor. At that time you didn't notice that you were one of the poorers ones. Because everyone around was the same. And out of those we were a little richer as we weren't eligible for the free school meals etc.

So I used to see the kids on the free school meals getting desserts every lunch time. Never once did I get dessert and wpuld have a small meal

ExquisiteSocialSkills · 14/11/2025 13:16

I can remember sharing (very rare) cans of Coke and Mars bars cut into three.

Isekaied · 14/11/2025 13:18

We had a black and white TV.

Only got a colour one cos our 'rich' uncle from Germany bought us one when he came over to visit. Think in the 80's they were doing much better over there?

Also no shower. He had to buy us a shower attachment for the bath.

Meadowfinch · 14/11/2025 13:28

Take the car out of gear going down hills to save petrol 😳

Send us out scrumping apples to make crumble

Unpick the hems of school uniform, attached seam binding and then rehem, to gain an extra cm of length.

Forthismoment · 14/11/2025 13:50

I remember most of these but haven't noticed any mention of "Segs". Always bought in Woolworths and dad used to hammer the metal ones onto the heels of our school shoes so that they didn't wear down so quickly. Fabulous memory that has just come back to me from nowhere!

HoraceCope · 14/11/2025 18:10

i still pick up windfall apples

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Nsky62 · 14/11/2025 18:44

Born ‘62, remember sharing ice creams on hol with parents, born into new build house no immersion heater.
Hardly any ready meals, toys only birthday and holidays.
limited new clothes, seems a lot better than others experiences