DC is doing Medecine. I agree a job in the summer is a must not just to earn money but for many other reasons too.
We have found the first year very expensive. If it helps we paid for Halls accommodation last year on a 0% credit card over 24 months. Full disclosure we are not wealthy but we did not have to use the credit card but I often use credit in this way to help cashflow.
For me and my DH the priority is to try and help our DC become financially savvy with the resources he has available to him. With this in mind we would never ask him to hand over his minimum maintenance loan for us to manage we really want him to start managing a budget himself. He saves £20 a month and change after Debit card round up. Which adds up when invested too.
When he turned 18 last August 2023 he had 6k in his CTF which he invested and this has now grown to 9k in his investment portfolio with a 1k cash emergency fund he can access.
Going into his second year he has just been accepted for a £500 student credit card to help build his credit score. Also, his accommodation off campus this year is in a bit of a dodgy area so we felt if he started using his credit card for everyday spending and paying it off in full every month if he was mugged only the CC limit could be utilized by the thieves (and not his student account with a 2k thus far unused overdraft limit). DC is signed up-to the free credit score and experian services to keep an eye on his credit file and score.
Before DC leaves this year we will set them up with some Premium Bonds to start them off.
What I am trying to get across is what I wish someone had done for me when I was a teenager. Help me make the most of what I have available to me. My DH and I had no help at all and we have struggled with financial decisions all our lives.
Your DC will adapt to her budget and what you can afford as a family to give to her. The gift of helping her manage her budget and expectations is far more valuable to her than trying to match what others have available to them.
My DC is doing medicine so it is unrealistic for them to work in term time as he finds the course very challenging but they have found a job this summer and earned £500. Hopefully next summer DC will get more shifts and earn more.
In summary,
Consider paying DD’s Halls accomodatiin with a 0% credit card if it will help with cash flow and it is manageable.
DD open a student account with OD facility (in case of emergency may need to access).
Student Credit Card (may only be eligible in second year once a responsible pattern of management in current account has been established).
Look at budget with your DD and encourage even a £3 a week saving goal to invest.
Sign DD up to free Experian Score and Clear Score.
Try and give DD a cash emergency fund (in a separate high interest account) she can access.
Make sure DD knows how to maximize her loan and student support should an emergency arise and she needs access to money (this is dramatic but I always imagine if me and DH died in an accident how would DC know what to do). In relation to student finance in these circumstances contact student finance and the Uni hardship fund.l can help.
I know this is long and laborious so apologies I just feel so passionate about helping DC budget and manage on what they have available and try to generate some income from savings too however meager.
I am sure your DD will be fine and have a great time.