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Eating healthy is too expensive

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ByLoudSeal · 16/07/2024 22:32

Big shop just cost £150. I don’t buy organic, and I will go for own brand if the taste/quality is fine. Includes fresh veg, tinned fruit, meat, eggs, milk, bread, a box of cereal, tinned meals, healthy snacks, toilet roll, fabric softener, disinfectant spray and washing up sponges, It won’t even last the full week and is unsustainable

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JenniferBooth · 17/07/2024 19:23

bugsybugsy · 17/07/2024 00:03

Nah I hear you OP, fresh veggies and fruit is expensive. I can buy 6 apples for £2.50 or a pack of penguin bars for £1.50! Or I can drive to my nearest Aldi or Lidl, but my fuel costs negate any savings to be had.
I have three super markets to choose from; Sainsbury's, Tesco, co-op. Even with loyalty cards, my shopping for four is approximately £150 a week. Cucumbers, tomatoes, peppers, apples and my luxury item grapes, have all shot up in price. It's not helped that both kids are very fussy, which if they were overweight, well tough shit, they go without, unfortunately both borderline underweight, so I have no choice but to make sure they both eat foods they can tolerate.
Likewise fabric condition, if I don't use it dh and dc moan and struggle to wear 'crisp' clothing (their uniform is particularly 'startchy' without softener). Sometimes when we visit family in wales we try and stock up, because it's soooo much cheaper there than where we live, but we are tight on space at home, so even then stocking up isn't easy.
I think mumsnet is divided into three distinct camps; large house with utility room / pantry and private school kids, and has no idea what they spend as not having to watch the pennies.
Professionals whose kids all go to grammar school, so live in decent houses near all the best schools, keep a vague eye on the pennies, but has decent chest freezer, good size fridge, one part-time parent so easy to batch cook, possible a cleaner, and has the time and capacity to buy fruit and veg and tinned goods from Lidl and meat from the local farm shop.
Then it has people like us; we notice every penny, because we know money doesn't actually grow on trees, live in an area with limited supermarkets, and smaller housing stock, so no space for normal stand up freezer let alone a chest freezer! Very limited cupboard space, so unable to do a super saver shop, as no where to actually put the groceries, and buying the cheaper multipacks is a no go zone. No shops like pound land or home bargains, so again limited cheaper substitutes for detergents, loo roll etc.
And finally people who haven't got two brass farthings to rub together and are 100% reliant on food banks and live in constant fear of eviction.
But you'll be told it's 100% your fault that you're struggling to feed your family, because c'mon anything more than 35p per head is a frivolous extravagance!

Add living in a property thats like a fucking sauna so things dont keep for long Not everything can be or is even meant to be stored in the fridge

DancingLions · 17/07/2024 19:35

BCBird · 17/07/2024 05:15

Live alone, don't drink and mine is at least 80 pound a week.

This surprises me. I shop for myself, 2 cats and stuff like washing powder, laoo roll etc (I dont go elsewhere for any of that). I spend £50 a week and alternate between ocado and Tesco, so not the cheapest shops by far. I don't eat meat every day but I buy good quality meat from ocado. I use tesco for the bulk buys/cheaper items and ocado for meat, cat litter (one cat is super fussy) and the "nicer" food. I eat well on that amount.

I could probably get food cheaper elsewhere but I'm happy with that budget and don't need to reduce it. Plus I prefer the convenience of having it all delivered. I don't want to go hunting round various supermarkets to save a £ here and there.

tillytoodles1 · 17/07/2024 19:38

JemimaTiggywinkles · 17/07/2024 00:47

It massively depends on how many people £150 is for. I spend an average of £75 per week as a single person plus cat. That includes toiletries and cleaning stuff tho, and I'm a bit fussy on certain items (eg I refuse to eat cheap eggs).

Same here. I only like fresh food, hate pizza and ready meals, but love new potatoes and salad with almost anything.

Decafflatteplease · 17/07/2024 19:41

We spend around £250 a week but that's for 6 of us and one has complex dietary needs.

Approx £150 on big shop, £50 on top up, and £50 on school dinners (in term time of course)

bakewellbride · 17/07/2024 19:44

Eating healthily can easily be much, much cheaper than eating crap. Takeaways are expensive and unnecessary sugary snacks add up. Stop buying meat if you want to save money - that costs a fortune and plant based is very healthy.

S0livagant · 17/07/2024 19:45

Can you post a receipt?

Why are you buying fabric softener or disinfectant spray?
What snacks are you buying?
What do you mean by 'tinned meals'?
Why tinned fruit not fresh? Bananas are about 16p.
Oats are better value than cereal as they are more filling and nutritious.

Have you tried a community pantry?

Definitelynotem · 17/07/2024 19:56

As others have said depends on how many you’re feeding but DH and I only spend £60 and that covers breakfast, lunch and dinner for the week, plus healthy snacks. I will say that I think time is a privilege here, we manage to keep this budget because I meal prep lunches and vegetables on a Sunday, batch make granola and snacks etc. If I had kids that might be more difficult.

Azandme · 17/07/2024 20:01

gettinghealthy · 17/07/2024 00:44

This is a really stupid question but could you talk me through your shredded chicken please? Do you literally just cut leftover roast chicken up and freeze it, then defrost before use?

Pretty much, yes! When we've taken off the majority, we strip off all the remaining meat from the bones, pull or chop any large pieces into smaller ones, shove it all in a freezer bag and freeze it.

On the day we are going to use it I take it out of the freezer and thaw it, then just add it into whatever we're making.

Chicken fried rice, chicken chow mein, Mexican chicken and bean soup, ramen, chicken salad, Coronation chicken, omelette (OH, not me - chicken and egg weird me out).

We also regularly buy chicken leg quarters - incredibly cheap and delicious, we use them in curries, stews, casseroles, or just roast them with spices. Leftovers go in the freezer.

Parkmybentley · 17/07/2024 20:02

Getting toiletries and cleaning products from main supermarkets is an absolute rip off. Savers or Home Bargains is miles cheaper. Things like toothpaste can be £2 cheaper!

Agree overall though, fruit is expensive now although basic veg is usually OK (e.g. Aldi and Lidl do the weekly super 6 offer).

Meat depends on the type and cut. Avoid anything processed or pre seasoned. It's simple to season yourself if you invest in the seasonings which can be £15 but then lasts 6 months.

I'm running £150-180 on a weekly Tesco shop for 2 adults and 2 kids. Doesn't include cleaning or toiletries. But does include "snacks" which is processed and therefore massively expensive, e.g. roasted nuts, babybels, crisps, ready grated mozzarella, individual yogurt pots ( a bit pot would be much cheaper) Same as PP I have to feed DC what they will actually eat. Also if I can be bothered to go round Lidl it's a bit cheaper. Tesco is definitely more expensive but at the moment the convenience of click and collect is something I'm prepared to pay a premium for.

RomanRoysSearchHistory · 17/07/2024 20:12

OP define "healthy snacks"? I've a feeling this is where your money is adding up..

Since DS left home I've managed to get my weekly shop down to £40 but I cook everything from scratch and don't eat meat other than chicken. I bake or make flapjacks, crepes, fruit crumble or popcorn if I fancy something sweet.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 17/07/2024 20:14

Depends where you shop. I shop in Aldi. Any time I go to any other supermarket the bill makes my eyes water!

RaspberryBeretxx · 17/07/2024 20:16

I agree, OP. I’m trying to stick to £100 a week. Shop in Lidl/aldi, not very expensive tastes but we do have meat every evening, budget doesn’t include alcohol. 2 adults, 1 toddler in nappies, 1 twelve year old (eats lunch at school and is with his dad 40% ish). I’m meal planning but it’s a struggle! We’ve had v little wastage since I started meal planning.

I buy frozen berries and we don’t eat much of them. 1 punnet of grapes, bananas, apples each week. I’ve quit my milk delivery and buy from supermarket, aim for no top up shops or just milk, don’t need many cleaning products as a friend gave me a huge refill bottle of multi surface cleaner, make my own bread which is around £1 a loaf. I’m not sure there’s much more I can cut! We try and do 1 cheap meal (fish fingers/cheap filled pasta and sauce) per week.

S0livagant · 17/07/2024 20:19

RomanRoysSearchHistory · 17/07/2024 20:12

OP define "healthy snacks"? I've a feeling this is where your money is adding up..

Since DS left home I've managed to get my weekly shop down to £40 but I cook everything from scratch and don't eat meat other than chicken. I bake or make flapjacks, crepes, fruit crumble or popcorn if I fancy something sweet.

I was wondering about the snacks too. We just tend to eat fruit or lunch type food for snacks, nothing individually packaged as a 'snack'.

ByLoudSeal · 17/07/2024 20:20

Ok I will post my list
Fruit
apples
Bananas
Tinned Pears
Tinned Apricot
Tinned fruit cocktail
Tinned Peach halves
Tinned Mango slices
Veg
Carrots
Broccoli
Cauliflower
Potatos
Sweet potato’s
Leeks
Onions
Celery
Cucumber
Tomatos
Peppers
Green beans
Frozen potato wedges
Meat
Lamb
Beef
Mince
Tuna
Eggs
Tins
Chickpeas
Baked beans
Kidney beans
Tinned tomatos
Sweetcorn
X4 Tinned meals (ravioli is one of them, sometimes I need to grab something right away)
X8 Tinned Soup
Breakfasts
milk
Yogurt
Porridge oats
Nuts
Bread
Snacks
biscuits
chocolate
Cinnamon swirls
Popcorn
Rice cakes
Rice pudding
juice
Icecream
other
Tea
Toilet roll
Disinfectant spray
fabric softener
scourers
sponges

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ByLoudSeal · 17/07/2024 20:25

I already had cheese, lentils, pearl barley, pasta, rice, stock cubes and herbs in

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RomanRoysSearchHistory · 17/07/2024 20:28

Tinned fruit is expensive, especially in fruit juice - if it's in syrup it's not healthy.
Are you buying branded or supermarket's own tinned beans tomatoes etc? Branded are often at least 1/4 more expensive.
Tinned meals sound vile tbh and soups can be made for 1/4 of the price of tinned.
I don't see any "healthy snacks" in your list btw... biscuits
chocolate
Cinnamon swirls
Popcorn
Rice cakes
Rice pudding
juice
Icecream
I think you might need to revisit the definition of healthy 😂

S0livagant · 17/07/2024 20:34

How many people?

Bakersdozens · 17/07/2024 20:36

Here is my opinion for what its worth

Ok I will post my list
Fruit
apples -
Bananas
Tinned Pears
Tinned Apricot
Tinned fruit cocktail
Tinned Peach halves
Tinned Mango slices

Well, apples can be cheap or expensive - what sort are you buying? Some of this tined fruit is very expensive - tinned mangoes cost a lot!

Veg
Carrots
Broccoli
Cauliflower
Potatos
Sweet potato’s
Leeks
Onions
Celery
Cucumber
Tomatos
Peppers
Green beans
Frozen potato wedges

Again, a lot of variation in possible prices for some of this - green beans and broccoli can be very expensive if you buy premium ranges, rather than just bulk in a paper bag.

Meat
Lamb
Beef
Mince
Tuna
Eggs
Tins
Chickpeas
Baked beans
Kidney beans
Tinned tomatos
Sweetcorn
X4 Tinned meals (ravioli is one of them, sometimes I need to grab something right away)
X8 Tinned Soup

From this list, I would expect lamb, beef and most tinned soups to be out of my price range also, do you buy cheap or expensive baked beans?

Breakfasts
milk
Yogurt
Porridge oats
Nuts
Bread
Snacks
biscuits
chocolate
Cinnamon swirls
Popcorn
Rice cakes
Rice pudding
juice
Icecream

Personally, I would cut out the nuts, the cinnamon swirls, the rice cakes and the chocolate, as they would all be expensive and poor value for money, nutritionally.

other
Tea
Toilet roll
Disinfectant spray
fabric softener
scourers
sponges

Ditch the fabric softener! no one needs that!

Thingamebobwotsit · 17/07/2024 20:40

As others have said it isn't clear how many people you are buying for but I would (a) have a think about portion sizes. Do you have lots left over? (b) Are you batch cooking or bulking out meat dishes with vegetables and pulses? That is a lot of meat per week. If you are buying fresh tuna that is super expensive. Cheaper fish options exist. And (c) I would completely ditch the tinned meals. They are super pricey for what you get and homemade much nicer.

There is lots you can do to cut back. Don't despair!

Iloveeverycat · 17/07/2024 20:40

I never buy lamb or beef to expensive. Mince beef once a week chilli or bolognais. Chicken whether in curry, chicken and leek pie, enchiladas or with potatoes and veg. Fish cakes with made potato wedges not frozen. Why so much soup and tinned fruit. Never have juice. Why so many snacks I buy some biscuits when there gone there gone. Why nuts.

S0livagant · 17/07/2024 20:41

biscuits
chocolate
Cinnamon swirls
Popcorn
Rice cakes
Rice pudding
juice
Icecream

Popcorn kernels are cheap, that and a bottle of juice to share once a week are all I'd bother with.

X4 Tinned meals (ravioli is one of them, sometimes I need to grab something right away)
X8 Tinned Soup

Just batch cook some vegetable soup to serve both purposes.

Bjorkdidit · 17/07/2024 20:45

How many people is that for? It looks like it will last a lot more than a week unless it's for 6+ people in which case, £150 pw isn't a lot of money for a grocery shop for that many people.

But in terms of what is likely to be bumping up the cost:

Lamb, beef and tuna are all expensive, so you've save by swapping to pork, turkey, mackerel

That's quite a lot of snacks and puddings. I would possibly suggest that 'healthy eating' maybe expensive, if you also carry on with the unhealthy eating at the same time Smile

As others have said, toiletries and cleaning products cost way less at Home Bargains. I got Colgate toothpaste in there a couple of weeks back for about 80 p. There will be people paying £3/4/5 for a tube of branded toothpaste in supermarkets and then saying that basic hygiene is too expensive.

Still don't understand why people go on about fabric softener. It costs nothing over a year and such a tiny percentage of the average grocery bill that it's not worth worrying about.

Missmarple87 · 17/07/2024 20:50

Why are you buying all that tinned fruit?! Apples, bananas, maybe a citrus plus some frozen berries should cover your fruit needs.

BUT I don't think £150 is that much if a family of at least 4. I would aim to keep the big shop to £100 and then there will probably be the odd top up for milk, bananas etc.

nightmaries · 17/07/2024 20:51

Azandme · 16/07/2024 22:56

I buy all of those things plus fresh fruit/berries, cook from scratch every day, and don't spend anywhere near £150 for a family of three, two cats, and two guinea pigs.

It all depends what you're cooking.

We eat chicken, pork, beans, lentils, chickpeas. We waste very little.

Tonight was homemade chicken fried rice with a bag of shredded chicken out of the freezer from the last time we roasted one, plus all the bits of veg that were hanging around.

A large chicken will do a roast on Sunday, Monday lunch, a bag of 'pickings' for another dinner, and stock.

The famous mumsnet chicken!

ByLoudSeal · 17/07/2024 20:52

I don’t know why you’re saying it’s a lot of fruit I don’t think it is a tin will do two servings. It’s for four and I didn’t even buy everything like cheese which is bought every couple of weeks

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