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Newestname002 · 27/04/2024 07:23

@pistachiosanscream

I know in yearsto come we will want to do a renovation and there are also a number of things in this house that could break and need to be replaced. Like our ancient boiler. More than one of two of those happening in a short period would wipe me out. So im trying very hard to get excited about savings and to start minding the pennies again.

Can you both not pay into a savings account specifically marketed for "house maintenance and renovations" which is not touched by retirement there if you until that emergency/project approaches? A new boiler/central heating system and house renovation are hugely expensive items to suddenly have to find funds for at relatively short notice. Imagine the relief if you already have a good cache of funds already built up? Put into an ISA or other interest bearing account or even some in premium bonds where any "winnings" are automatically paid into your premium bond account.

Also regarding car running costs - is it only you who pays this - whilst DH takes it from joint funds. I can understand you only paying your car loan but what about everything else car related? 🌹

pistachiosanscream · 27/04/2024 09:32

Newestname002 · 27/04/2024 07:23

@pistachiosanscream

I know in yearsto come we will want to do a renovation and there are also a number of things in this house that could break and need to be replaced. Like our ancient boiler. More than one of two of those happening in a short period would wipe me out. So im trying very hard to get excited about savings and to start minding the pennies again.

Can you both not pay into a savings account specifically marketed for "house maintenance and renovations" which is not touched by retirement there if you until that emergency/project approaches? A new boiler/central heating system and house renovation are hugely expensive items to suddenly have to find funds for at relatively short notice. Imagine the relief if you already have a good cache of funds already built up? Put into an ISA or other interest bearing account or even some in premium bonds where any "winnings" are automatically paid into your premium bond account.

Also regarding car running costs - is it only you who pays this - whilst DH takes it from joint funds. I can understand you only paying your car loan but what about everything else car related? 🌹

No our car running costs we pay jointly and DH also gave me €2k towards my car. Overall he is the better saver than me. I’m trying to catch up on that. All our bills and running costs go through our joint account and we put a lump sum every month into a revolut vault for once off bills. It’s just hard when they all come at once.

we would have the money to redo the boiler etc but it’s doing multiple things at once that would be costly so it’s prioritising what gets done first based on a needs basis rather than a want basis. I want an electric shower in our main bathroom but we would need a new boiler in the near future so we have to keep the funds for that available. Like this year so far we have to replace the roof on the shed €4k after insurance contribution. We will need a new stove in the next year or so and when that happens I want to replace the mantle and surround too so that means saving consistently. So we do have savings for many of these things but all coming together would wipe us out. We estimate that every year we have about €10k of things that need to be done. Last year was the garden. This year the roof and we haven’t decided what else as we are waiting to see if something breaks before we commit funds to a project that isn’t urgently needed.

The renovation won’t happen for many years and that’s where my main savings goal is going. I want to have 10k saved by the end of the year and I’m planning to put any pay increases etc directly into that fund. Just saving for the maintenance jobs wouldn’t cut it.

I’m not in the UK so we don’t have ISAs etc and our short term savings options are very poor interest rate wise.

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pistachiosanscream · 27/04/2024 09:34

Cuwins · 27/04/2024 06:14

I did my big shop in Lidl yesterday- list written partly around what vouchers I had on the app, unfortunately I forgot to activate the vouchers 🙄

i feel your pain. I sometimes feel those vouchers are more pressure the. They are worth. Staying out of Lidl is the best way for me to not spend

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moimichme · 02/05/2024 06:44

That's so annoying when that happens @Cuwins

April has ended and I've overspent a tiny bit, on gifts/fun during a work trip last weekend to Edinburgh. But now payday has come and I've sent some money across to savings (paying myself first).

I need to claim back work expenses now - hopefully can do that today so the money arrives by the end of May. Work has still been manic, but in a few weeks it'll settle down a bit.

This one has been rather quiet, but anyone interested in a May thread? I'll see if someone has already started one.

pistachiosanscream · 02/05/2024 07:40

@moimichme id be interested. May isn’t off to a great start but the accountability here really helps

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Songlines · 02/05/2024 09:09

Hello, I'd be interested in a May thread too. I'm due to retire in a few months and want to make sure I'm staying on track!

2024Hackathon · 02/05/2024 09:47

I'm on track and in the phase where I'm trying to decide if I need to allow myself a small frivolous something like an extra set of padded shorts for the bike.

I've been very restricted in my spending. But, I know because we put money into ISAs, this month's mortgage payment is going to be wretched. And if we have to prepare for extra taxes on savings and ISAs, we'll need to save for an extra 2 years to cover the sum we need for the offset mortgage.

I think of this as a controlled spend. If I don't choose to do something, I'm concerned that I'll just snap and buy something for which I'll live with guilt, not enjoyment.

psuedocream3 · 02/05/2024 10:02

April was great for me, only spent for a replacement drivers license, petrol and bowling for the kids over half term. A huge contrast to March where I spent hundreds more.

I'd be interested in a May thread, it's helped me stay on track and rethink purchasing things unnecessarily.

HowDidThisHappenDinesh · 02/05/2024 10:13

Abandoned April 😂 I certainly abandoned the thread this month. Haven’t been tracking NSDs but I know I had a couple.
I’d like to be in for a May thread. I may (haha) abandon halfway through again but good to have the accountability. I’ve done the budget, made a credit card payment, and set money aside for our week away later in the month. Big Lidl shop planned today. No plans tomorrow or Saturday so I may aim for a NS weekend.

Disneyland2022 · 02/05/2024 11:15

Mindful spending May I’m coming for you!!
I didn’t do too bad in April - managed to save £400 overall so I’m remaining in the black.

im in the process of switching bank accounts to get £175. I plan to use this towards a holiday! Who doesn’t love free money!

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