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Household income- how are you coping?

112 replies

Tblock1800 · 05/01/2023 22:41

I know Money and salaries is always a bit of a touchy subject for some, but with the current ridiculous economy crisis as it is, I’m just interested as to how people are coping?

Me and my wife have a little boy ( 1.5 year old) so are a family of 3. We own our own property so pay a mortgage and have 2 cars. Both work full time and have a combined salary of roughly 76k for the household. Live in the outskirts of London.

As with everyone, whilst we are certainly not struggling by all means, you can definitely feel the difference in what stuff is costing at the moment. Luckily i have savings which always gives me a buffer, but i feel so sorry for people struggling in this awful climate at the moment.

How are people coping? What’s your situation at home etc ?

just a curiosity thread really to see how people are coping. Totally understand if you don’t want to disclose information etc

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Thecat19342 · 25/01/2023 20:28

Struggling, incredibly fed up.

We have scrimped and saved, re trained, juggled studying and children over the past few years and pre covid we had hoped by now we would be seeing a change in our lives - being able to afford days out, holidays and living comfortably. It feels like we've taken two steps forward and four back. I have no idea how those not in work are coping it must be so so hard.

We live In the NE, just bought our first "home" (it's a do-er upper) after renting since turning 20. Dh is on 30k, I was on 6k (part time min wage) and have 3 dc. My contracted hours were cut last year from 28 to 10, I made up the difference by picking up extra shifts opposite my husbands days off its worked well until last week when the company's announced it'll be cutting hours again and stopping overtime. I'm exhausted with worrying and trying to find an idea on what I can do to earn money, I wake up most mornings wondering why I'm here. Its all consuming.

rampila · 25/01/2023 21:00

I feel v lucky to still be able to afford mortgage, bills etc. I feel this is all an awful step back. I remember my grannies scrimping and saving and all those behaviours from the war, even when they were comfortable, terrified to spend money just in case. I think this will also be our generation soon

MaryBerrysCamelToe · 25/01/2023 23:45

123youandme · 25/01/2023 16:46

My partner is a full-time student & his loan barely covers the bills & we have no disposable income unless we use savings. We have a 12 month old & can't afford to put him in nursery so I am a SAHM and will be until my partner finishes his really intense course in 2 years.

We were saving for a house so we fall in the tricky area of not qualifying for any benefits but we don't qualify for a mortgage either atm through lack of income.

Desperate not to use any savings but it's looking impossible in the current climate. Frustrating as it took so so so long to build up enough money by living frugally but the timings are just all wrong for us.

My friend on the other hand has a baby the same age & gets a lot of benefits with a super cheap nursery place allowing her to go back 16 hours a week. She has chosen to spend all her money on material things up until now so has no savings but can claim universal credit.

Rising living costs are tough atm - just hope we can get through the next few years and buy a house one day.

You should be getting child benefit, universal credit as neither of them class student finance as income for the purpose of eligibility.

snowtrees · 27/01/2023 00:00

Nikkidannih · 25/01/2023 16:22

Thank you for posting this. We are struggling so much- on our knees.

my husband is a teacher and I work
for a local authority. We maybe bring in around £55k a year, take home roughly £3600 a month.
About £2100 goes into the joint account (about half of that covers just rent) , bills, small debt repayments (mostly old student stuff) ect. Running 2 cars (which we need for work). essential outgoings.
£1160 goes on childcare. That’s pretty much all we earn.
we get some universal credit and child benefit which we then live off (food and petrol) but it seems to vary every month. Leaves us with about £500 a month for this and anything else we need. It’s not enough.
This is why teachers are striking people 😣

We are in this type of bracket. Joint income around £55k so you'd think we are comfortable. Rarely go out. State schools. No flash holidays.. UK breaks. Hideous

Redpolkadotpot · 14/02/2023 23:50

Not sure how this will help anyone as feels boastful, but we are doing quite well and saving a decent amount every month, even thinking of moving to a bigger house!
I am so very grateful to not have to truly worry about money, any money anxiety I have tends to be more the overflow of negative news from media and friends, and not based on my reality.
But saying that, every time I go out for dinner the restaurants etc are busy and it's impossible to get any trade in to do small jobs or a hairdresser appointment etc so it doesn't actually feel like there is any crisis in my little bubble of the UK.

MobilityCat · 18/02/2023 22:39

We're on pension now and our flat is paid for, our pension is £25000 pa. Electricity last month was over £200, because food is so expensive we have our gas turned off except for washing and showering. Things are tight and our world is shrinking.

twotoedsloth · 18/02/2023 23:35

We're doing fine but we are lucky enough to have a good income (156k combined), family of four with 2 primary aged children.

We fixed our mortgage last summer, up by ~£70 to £1250ish. Food up by £100/month, energy doubled to £220/month.

The major difference for us is that we would have liked to move house, but to move from our semi detached to a detached in the same location would put our mortgage up to at least £3000/month under current interest rates, which is too much for us. Given this, we have enough money to spend on holidays instead, though the prices of holidays are so staggeringly expensive at the moment that they'd better be good!

Willowkuba · 19/01/2024 08:25

How is everyone's mortgage so cheap ?! Iv been looking at mortgages and there all about 1500 PCM for a family house. So for us at the moment my husband earns 35,000 and I'm starting a tattooing business witch tbh is only paying for itself at the moment. Eldest son is about to start school , and other 2 children are below school age and at home with me. (Where I work I can only do evenings so I'm at home all day with kids) I'm starting to get Abit worried that we're not earning enough. It's stressful , we have savings , but we were hoping to eventually spend it on a down payment for a house and save for the kids , but that in turn means that we can't get any support , even though we spend all our income , we have to just eat up all our previously saved money unfortunately , it's so gutting when we have to do so and not be able to add back to it 💔

SparklingPinkCat · 19/01/2024 15:18

ChiefWiggumsBoy · 06/01/2023 00:09

I feel genuinely so lucky at the moment, so please ignore my post if it might upset you!

DH has been a SAHD for years, no luck applying for jobs. We manage ok on my salary (£45k, NW, £600~ mortgage) but are starting to feel the pinch, especially as we have three boys. Not to mention we have quite a lot of debt that we really should be paying down quicker than we are.

Anyway - DH got a job! While it's not anything hotshot, it means we're now £1500 better off every month. And he's really enjoying it. As it's full time I'm going to hire a cleaner and start pricing up some decorating as well. I'm so proud and genuinely feel a weight has lifted.

Congratulations, I'm so pleased for you. What a lovely post xx

RM2013 · 19/01/2024 22:17

We were struggling last year before we moved house as we’d accrued a lot of debt and had (stupidly) an interest only mortgage. Sold the house as a lot of equity so able to pay off debts and put a decent deposit down on new house. We have now got a repayment mortgage - quite high payments as it’s a shorter term but we are managing.
income seems to have decreased and bills increasing. DH and I plus 2 older teens. Food bill gone up and energy bill is going up £50 extra from next month.
I work for the NHS and I’m the too
of my pay scale so unlikely to get much in the way of increases and DH works for a business that is likely to be sold so potentially may be redundant at 55 which isn’t ideal.
On the plus side I can do extra shifts to earn more if I want to so I guess we are more fortunate than some

Pickles2023 · 19/01/2024 23:13

Bit rubbish tbh, our bills outgoings are equal to income.

We are just over the threshold for support.

Here is the annoying bit, our council said we earn £50 too much a month to qualify ...so the £30 council tax is £190 due to earning that extra 50..those extra hours working definitely not worth it 😂😂😭

I have a baby atm, so in time once i am back working full time it will be easier, just not sure how much due to childcare costs.

We currently private rent, i have felt a dramatic shift. We always done the same food shop each week, over the past year its gone up by 30 a week. Rent is higher, energy bills higher, but income hasn't increased to match. (Had a £1 per hour rise)

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