Sorry this is long and stolen but so poignant. These are the children and families no one really cared about pre COVID.
An inquiry is being launched into children who are not attending school in the wake of national lockdowns, the Children's Commissioner for England has announced.
Come over Dame Rachel– take a seat.
Families like ours, we “disappeared”. We didn’t want to. SEN was new to our family and I didn’t know it would be this hard. We’re trying really hard not to disappear, actually, it feels as though our Local Authority has disappeared rather than us.
&Did you know that the way SEN is funded means it’s better for a school to deny SEN, than support them?*
That schools have been underfunded since 2010?
We disappear when we are threatened with prosecution, parenting courses, and social services investigation without evidence.
Those who can’t afford to pay for private SEN assessment are particularly disadvantaged.
Falling into a chasm of “no proof” and parent blaming.
Evidence is king. Evidence costs. Evidence is a privilege.
When we de-register we are seen as “electively” home educating.
We disappear.
We disappear too whilst we fight for the needs of our children to be met by a school or personal budget. The refusals, appeals that we will most likely win but that exhaust us.
The money the LA spends on fighting parents to deny educational support rather than supporting children with SEN. It’s cheaper you see.
That LA’s act unlawfully. All the time. They are fined. That’s cheaper too than meeting a child’s needs.
My child doesn’t need finding, he’s here. But he’s invisible. I need you to see him. No, really see him. See that mainstream school harmed him. That you won’t simply “get him in” because that isn’t the answer. Because if it was, he’d be there.
I need you to understand that children with SEN aren't "safe" in mainstream education if their needs are masked, unmet, denied.
That the treatment of children with SEN in our Education system is a scandal of our time.
Directly penalising neurodivergent and many more children.
But a generation of them adults now, speaking their truths – changing education. There is hope.
So launch the inquiry. Ask our children why the Education system is failing them. Maybe you’ll learn something.
We did.
www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-60054253
Susan Liverman
(A member of the ‘Not Fine in School’ parent support group)