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Has anyone tried to get to France in the last few weeks?

32 replies

pligot · 02/01/2022 15:07

My question is: has anybody attempted to go to France and been successful on the basis of having a sufficiently compelling reason? What was reason and what evidence did you have of it? Has anybody tried to cross the border with what they thought was a compelling reason but been turned away?

Background: I am half French, but have a British passport and have always lived in the UK. My French grandmother became very ill during the pandemic (cancer and dementia). My mother went over to help her and as a result didn't see my now 2 year old for almost a year while she was in France.

I had planned to visit my grandmother and mother with my DH, DD 2 and DS 4 months at the beginning of December. Unfortunately we fell ill and weren't able to go. DH job means he is away often and it's very difficult to arrange time off so this was a real blow. We planned visit beginning of January instead, giving my grandmother the chance to meet her great grandchild. Now the new restrictions have come in to effect.

I'm not sure what "compelling reasons" might include, but I wanted to know what other peoples experiences are of trying to get into France at the moment. I have proof of being the daughter of a French national (who is currently in France) and a letter from my grandmother's doctor stating that it would be beneficial for her to receive a visit from us. My worry is that will likely end up paying for a ferry crossing, driving 3.5 hours with two young children to the border, only to be turned away.

I am so scared that I will not be able to see my grandmother again, or that by the time we see her, her mental state will have deteriorated further. I feel I have to try.

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workwoes123 · 02/01/2022 15:24

Here are the current motifs impérieux

mobile.interieur.gouv.fr/content/download/130184/1036619/file/1612-motifs-imperieux-uk.pdf

Unf, unless you are a french National it’s unlikely that you are allowed to enter even for family reasons.

workwoes123 · 02/01/2022 15:28

www.interieur.gouv.fr/content/download/130195/1036674/file/16-12-2021-attestation-de-deplacement-vers-la-france-metropolitaine-uk.pdf

This is the form itself: unless you can tick one of the boxes, you don’t have a a compelling reason to travel unfortunately.

BelgianWaffles · 02/01/2022 15:57

Unfortunately you won’t be allowed in. I assume your parents never asked for a French passport for you? You’re entitled French nationality as your mum is French. I would suggest you research this option asap in order to have a French passport and go to France. It’s all explained on the French consulat website. Bonne chance !

skellingtonboot · 02/01/2022 17:19

They are being very, very strict at the border and several people have been sent straight back to the UK for not having a compelling reason.

Visiting family is not a compelling reason.

The quarantine rules are also being rigourously enforced. People are getting home visits from the Gendarmes to ensure that they are quarantining and you need to show documentation of any tests you do for early release.

I live in the middle of nowhere so could reasonably expect things to be a bit more relaxed, but people who have returned from the UK and live in the next village have been getting visits every day since they have come back.

Youngstreet · 02/01/2022 17:22

I have the opposite problem.
I'm a french resident who's df came over early December.
I need to get him back to the uk but am not sure if I can travel with him. He is certainly not capable of travelling alone.

VicSynix · 02/01/2022 17:33

Hm. Son of a friend has a Parisian girlfriend, who he's lived with for the last three years. She went to Paris before Christmas, he carefully prepared all the documentation (proving that he lived with her etc) and successfully caught the Eurostar a few days ago. He said they only asked to look at his passenger locator form and his negative test. So you never know!

workwoes123 · 02/01/2022 17:38

@VicSynix

Very different situation. The girlfriend is a French National, she is allowed to travel. And he is allowed to travel with her as her “cojoint” even if they aren’t married. Neither the OP not her husband (presumably ) have french nationality.

FinallyHere · 02/01/2022 17:53

@Youngstreet

http://www.universalaunts.co.uk

Universal Aunts do all sort of take, at home and abroad and may be able to help. For a fee, of course.

BluebellsGreenbells · 02/01/2022 17:54

OP states she is half French which suggests her mother is French. She can apply for a French passport. Worth doing when Brexit happened anyway.

theotherfossilsister · 02/01/2022 17:58

If your mum is a French citizen and you can prove that you can get in.

My parents are both residents in France and I got in with their carte sejours, and a letter from my dad's doctor saying he has cancer
I can forward you the exact wording of the letter of you want?

We had to check with the embassy but this was ok

JuergenSchwarzwald · 02/01/2022 18:01

It's so ridiculous when there are as many, or even more, cases in France! At least Germany has relaxed the rules now. Give it a few days OP and it might get easier for France too.

JuergenSchwarzwald · 02/01/2022 18:01

(or Germany does from 4 Jan)

pligot · 02/01/2022 18:02

Thanks for your replies. Yes my mother is French with a French passport. I think on this basis I could get through but probably not my husband and children. I have two letters from my grandmothers doctor, one detailing her condition and one specifically saying she would benefit from our visit but looking at these replies I'm not sure that will be enough.

We've tried to go through the consulate but haven't received a reply.

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Shedmistress · 02/01/2022 18:02

We live here and my OH has great trouble proving that 2 weeks ago. Indeed he had to prove an address and show evidence that we were progressing throught the system to get residency.

It was a nightmare and if he hadn't had that one piece of evidence he'd have been on the returning plane back to the UK. He had gone there for his dad's funeral.

Roseau18 · 02/01/2022 18:07

My daughter has a French father and was born in France so has French nationality but she only has à British passport and lives in the UK. Her place of birth on her passport was sufficent for them to consider her to have French nationalité and to get into France.

theotherfossilsister · 03/01/2022 19:07

The doctors letter would need to say that your grandma is terminally ill and your presence is necessary with everyone in the party named and dates of birth (mine did anyway)

pligot · 03/01/2022 21:35

Thanks so much everyone for your replies, it made me feel a lot more confident in making a decision not to try it this time. I just hope I can see her soon. Next step is to work on getting a passport!

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BluebellsGreenbells · 03/01/2022 21:37

There’s a call for France to change this - hang one I’ll see if I still have the paper

BluebellsGreenbells · 03/01/2022 21:38

Here

Has anyone tried to get to France in the last few weeks?
Has anyone tried to get to France in the last few weeks?
Has anyone tried to get to France in the last few weeks?
Shedmistress · 03/01/2022 22:30

It is mental, the figures here are worse than the UK. If anything it should be the other way round and it must be crippling the ferry businesses.

tidyupandeatyourgreens · 03/01/2022 22:37

Yes definitely get a French passport. I luckily applied for mine at the end of October (it wasn't easy to get an appointment slot online but they do pop up if you keep trying!), It was issued at the end of November and I finally got it at on the 18th Dec which allowed me to go to France to see my family on the 23rd with my husband and children who only have British passports. I thought I may also need to provide a compelling reason but having a French passport was enough. We had to fill out 2 forms each (none of them were checked) but they did check our negative tests and COVID passports. Nobody checked on us on arrival and didn't check or ask for our negative test results 2 days after arrival. I was so stressed about it all but it was actually quite straightforward although all the testing involved is expensive and admin heavy. Hopefully things will get easier soon and I'm sorry about your situation. It's so awful feeling so far away from family in a country so close by....as a previous poster said, there are more cases in France than here so they really should loosen the rules, particularly for people like you who are not just going for a holiday. I really feel for you and hope you can get your passport. My parents did all the paperwork for me (when I was born) so it was ok (although I hadn't had an ID card for well over 25 yrs) but you may well need documentation from your mother if you've never held an ID card/passport. Good luck

sunshineclouds24 · 03/01/2022 22:39

As the other poster said the press are reporting that France will reverse its decision soon, the French ski industry is dependent on the brits, half term is less than 6 weeks away.

IndigoC · 05/01/2022 00:07

270,000 cases today and they’re still locking us out over Omicron. But it’s not political. 🤷‍♀️

LilyPond2 · 05/01/2022 00:29

@IndigoC

270,000 cases today and they’re still locking us out over Omicron. But it’s not political. 🤷‍♀️
To be fair, the "politics" aspect has operated in both directions, ie the UK government has insisted on travellers from France purchasing PCR tests/isolating pending results at times when Covid rates were higher in the UK than in France.
Shedmistress · 05/01/2022 11:40

Politics between France and UK has been an issue since before the UK was the UK!

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