Babdoc Sat 14-Mar-20 09:36:22
We already deny ITU admission or ventilation to patients whom we know are too ill or frail to benefit, or have any realistic chance of survival. It would just be inflicting invasive procedures and prolonging their suffering needlessly
And as a family, that's exactly what we have on my mother's care plan. But when that was written we had every expectation that she would be cared for to die with dignity and as little pain and discomfort as possible, at home.
That expectation is now gone.
It is not the prospect of my mother's death that scares me, it is the manner of her dying.
There are too many people who have simply not thought about the nitty gritty of what it means to so many families.
I saw a post on facebook from a provider of a babies music activity, encouraging people to book and come to the group. Lots of parents were replying that of course they would be there, they wouldn't let the virus change what they do etc I think they believe they are showing grit in the face of adversity when in fact they are displaying an "I'm all right, Jack" attitude.